When Religion Hurts You

Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion

By: Laura E. Anderson PhD

Narrated by: Laura E. Anderson PhD

Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins

Publisher's summary

Religious trauma is something that happens far more often than most people realize. But religious trauma is trauma.

In When Religion Hurts You, Dr. Laura Anderson takes an honest look at a side of religion that few like to talk about. Drawing from her own life and therapy practice, she helps listeners understand what religious trauma is and isn't, and how high-control churches can be harmful and abusive, often resulting in trauma. She shows how elements of fundamentalist church life—such as fear of hell, purity culture, corporal punishment, and authoritarian leaders—can cause psychological, relational, physical, and spiritual damage.

As she explores the growing phenomenon of religious trauma, Dr. Anderson helps listeners embark on a journey of living as healing individuals and finding a new foundation to stand on. Recognizing that healing is a lifelong rather than a linear process, she offers markers of healing for those coming out of painful religious experiences and hope for finding wholeness after religious trauma.

©2023 Laura E. Anderson (P)2023 eChristian

Personal and Professional

Laura brings so much knowledge, both personal and professional, to the topic. Reading her book made me feel validated in my experiences while also offering a valuable perspective on opportunities for healing. I enjoyed her reading of the book as well. I've been listening to her podcasts and the book felt like another conversation rather than a performance. Thank you for the work you're doing!

Harmed by Church of Christ beliefs

It’s good to know there are people who understand the religious trauma that I have felt for a very long time.

A must read if this is your jam…

I’m grateful to have this book for my own healing journey and to recommend to anyone dealing with religious trauma. I’ve done a lot of reading in this area and this is perhaps the most thorough yet accessible treatment I’ve come across yet - certainly one of the first books I’ll think of when asked for a recommendation. Excellent performance by the author - if you like Dr Laura Anderson’s content on social media, you’ll love this book!

The BEST

The MOST compassionate, good, useful, helpful book I have listened to in a long time! Wow! I am speechless! Aside from the sexual issues, I could relate 100%.

Very insightful !

As someone who is recovering from
Spiritual abuse and ARE’s I am so grateful for this book! It covers many helpful topics, and helped guide my in my journey!

Powerful.

As someone who struggles with C-PTSD, PTSD, and depression, this has been the most helpful book I have come across understanding trauma. Illuminating and hopeful, I have a better understanding of why my brain does what it does.

Exposing

This book shocked me with its ability to expose ingrained assumptions and values I’d made a part of my identity from my high control religious experience. As a person who had severely underestimated the profound impact my religious experience had on me, this book was life changing. I have identified so many ideologies I’d held were based on disordered thinking, indoctrination and fear. I was further surprised to realize how every decision and behavior I have made on a daily basis has been dictated by this disordered thinking. This has started a new journey for me in my therapy. After 15 plus years in therapy I believe this may be the most impactful pivot I’ll make. So glad I gave it a try even though I had minimize its relevance to me initially.

Insightful

This book is helpful for anyone wanting to better understand religious trauma, its relationship with cptsd and also anyone experiencing it. Thanks to this author for taking the time to write this book. Articulate, non-shaming and useful. Two thumbs up!

Compassion & Clarity

What happened to you? High Control Religion raised me. I’m well on my way to healing but this book felt like a complete Birds Eye view to what happened and hope for the freedom forward.

Acknowledging self

I am so grateful to have found that my journey is not one that I have walked alone. For years I have struggled with the doubts and shame that I have carried for feeling like something was fundamentally wrong with the way I felt deep inside. As an MK I was raised within the an HCR that taught me I was flawed, untrustworthy, and that to identify as any thing other than a Christian would be to seal my fate to an eternity of suffering and loneliness. This book has allowed me to realize that within me there is an innate being of goodness that has been starved and ignored for years. There is not enough space here to share how deeply this book touched me and the hope that I now have to cling to. Thank you!