Treating Borderline States In Marriage

Dealing with Oppositionalism, Ruthless Aggression, and Severe Resistance

De: Charles McCormack

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

Duración: 10 h y 57 m

Resumen del Editor

McCormack's book offers a novel treatment approach to personality disordered marriages that have often not benefited from previous, traditional, treatment efforts. It details both the couple's and the therapist's resistance as core to the intransigence of the marital problems. Well received by therapists, families, and patients alike this book is used in couples therapy training programs. "This spellbinding volume represents the accumulated wisdom of a gifted therapist who has developed an extraordinarily effective treatment approach to working with couples who have personality disorders, one that seamlessly integrates the interpersonal with the intrapsychic. A highly original and creative thinker, McCormack has synthesized the contributions of object relations theorists like Klein, Fairbairn, Winnicott, and Ogden to inform his understanding of, and approach to, these difficult and complex patients. Respectfully framing their unrelenting provocativeness as a desperate attempt to extract from the object (be it partner or therapist) a means of healing past unresolved traumas, the author encourages the therapist to put forth, for mutual observation and understanding, the countertransferential responses these patients elicit. McCormack's extensive use of clinical vignettes to illustrate his treatment method demonstrates that we are dealing with a master clinician who, with humility and compassion, is able to go where other therapists, less wise and courageous, fear to tread." Martha Stark, M.D. Author, Working with Resistance and Modes of Therapeutic Action "This book is a gift to all therapists who battle to help seriously disturbed couples. Charles McCormack provides a carefully crafted, original synthesis of theory drawn from object relations and self psychology and illustrates it with luminous clinical examples. At every step he describes the process through which patients' relational disturbances get inside the therapist and how the therapist can learn to contain them. Through, McCormack's own struggle to help patents grow, rather than destroy what they hold most dear, is the integrating force. "All therapists who brave the storms of these turbulent marriage relationships will be grateful for McCormack's invaluable guidance as they navigate trouble shoals. If offers a lighthouse on the path to therapeutic survival and safe harbor." David Scharff, M.D. Co-Director, International Institute of Object Relations Therapy "A therapist's faithful companion along a hard road, this book guides us toward finding a much wider scope for using ourselves as therapeutic instruments. It is that rarity, a 'how to' book that is also a 'why to' book. , one that makes it clear how ultimate the stakes are in therapy. McCormack's writing lives because he has lived what he writes. His anecdotes surge off the page, sometimes so charged with the elemental pain of being a person that it takes your breath away. He asks deep questions about the rules of engagement with couples in trouble and troubles in couples. This is a book to live with, to learn from, and to lean on." Roger A. Lewin, M.D. Author, Creative Collaboration in Psychotherapy