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Anne Heffron
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Anne Heffron
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Can writing your story save your life?
I should have come with a manual. My parents thought they were getting one thing when they adopted me - a baby of their own - when what they got was a human being with a story of her own.
As a child, I traded safety for silence.
As an adult, I had no idea who I was, why I quit nearly everything I started, why I struggled with things that came more easily to my friends (jobs, relationships, finances, self-esteem), why I seemed hell-bent on throwing myself away.
It got to the point where I didn’t care if telling my story was going to kill me: I was going to find a way to tell it, because living a life that felt like a lie was unbearable.
In order to write this book, I moved away from everything I knew, maxed out my credit cards, borrowed from friends and family, had lots of sex with strangers. Nearly penniless, I was living like a millionaire in the apartment of a fabulously famous writer. I was finally listening to my own voice. I ate cheesecake for dinner and fell in love with the East Village. I broke almost every rule I ran into because I was afraid this kind of freedom couldn’t go on forever. As I wrote, I lived every day as if it were my last.
I was in for such a surprise.
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In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade.
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Sad but True ... and Helpful
- De Kim Kavanagh en 01-05-17
De: Ann Fessler
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The Adoptive Parents' Handbook
- A Guide to Healing Trauma and Thriving with Your Foster or Adopted Child
- De: Barbara Tantrum, Deborah Gray MPA LICSW - foreword
- Narrado por: Janina Edwards
- Duración: 10 h y 8 m
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Children who have been adopted and/or shuttled through the foster-care system experience trauma at a much higher rate than other kids, which can make it difficult for them to trust, relax, regulate their emotions, and connect with their new families. As a parent, learning how to heal attachment trauma, attune to your child's needs, identify triggers, and create felt safety is essential to providing the loving, supportive, and stable home they need to thrive. Written for parents of adopted and foster kids of all ages, this book offers resources for handling common concerns.
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Highly Recommend!!!
- De Alexandra Borman en 11-16-21
De: Barbara Tantrum, y otros
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The Child Catchers
- Rescue, Trafficking, and the New Gospel of Adoption
- De: Kathryn Joyce
- Narrado por: Joyce Feurring
- Duración: 17 h y 1 m
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The Child Catchers is a shocking exposé of what the adoption industry has become and how it got there, told through deep investigative reporting and the heartbreaking stories of individuals who became collateral damage in a market driven by profit and, now, pulpit command. Anyone who seeks to adopt - of whatever faith or no faith, and however well-meaning - is affected by the evangelical adoption movement, whether they know it or not. Joyce reveals with great sensitivity and empathy why, if we truly care for children, we need to see more clearly.
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Throw the baby out with the bath water.
- De A. Young en 04-28-16
De: Kathryn Joyce
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The Connected Parent
- Real-Life Strategies for Building Trust and Attachment
- De: Lisa Qualls, Karyn Purvis PhD
- Narrado por: Lisa Qualls
- Duración: 4 h y 42 m
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Renowned child-development expert Dr. Karyn Purvis gives you practical advice and powerful tools you can use to encourage secure attachment in your family. You will benefit from Karyn’s decades of clinical research and real-world experience. Coauthor Lisa Qualls demonstrates how you can successfully implement these strategies in your home, just as she did in hers. You will learn how to simplify your approach using scripts, nurture your child, combat chronic fear, teach respect, and develop other valuable tools to facilitate a healing connection with your child.
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An holistic approach to relational health
- De K & J en 02-11-23
De: Lisa Qualls, y otros
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Adoption Trauma
- Pain, Rejection, Fear! But There Is Hope
- De: Fiona Myles
- Narrado por: Fiona Myles
- Duración: 2 h y 13 m
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Do you want to take a step towards confidence, acceptance, and well-being? This audiobook is my inward look at adoption trauma with some helpful tips that I have used over the past six years to help me overcome the feelings of unworthiness, anger, fear, and rejection that plagued me for 50 years.
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Outstanding
- De Matt Sorensen en 01-12-25
De: Fiona Myles
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Before and After
- The Incredible Real-Life Stories of Orphans Who Survived the Tennessee Children's Home Society
- De: Judy Christie, Lisa Wingate
- Narrado por: Emily Rankin
- Duración: 7 h y 56 m
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From the 1920s to 1950, Georgia Tann ran a black-market baby business at the Tennessee Children’s Home Society in Memphis. The publication of Lisa Wingate’s novel Before We Were Yours brought new awareness of Tann’s lucrative career in child trafficking. Adoptees who knew little about their pasts gained insight into the startling facts behind their family histories. Encouraged by their contact with Wingate and award-winning journalist Judy Christie, who documented the stories of 15 adoptees in this book, many determined Tann survivors set out to trace their roots.
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Badly written
- De Stacie en 02-25-20
De: Judy Christie, y otros
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20 Things Adoptive Parents Need to Succeed
- Discover the Secrets to Understanding the Unique Needs of Your Adopted Child - and Becoming the Best Parent You Can Be
- De: Sherrie Eldridge
- Narrado por: Rosemary Benson
- Duración: 8 h y 23 m
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In her groundbreaking first book, 20 Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew, Sherrie Eldridge gave voice to the very real concerns of adopted children, whose unique perspectives offered unprecedented insight. In this all-new companion volume, Eldridge goes beyond those insights and shifts her focus to parents, offering them much-needed encouragement and hope.
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Adoption Healing
- ...A Path to Recovery
- De: Joe Soll
- Narrado por: Elan O'Connor
- Duración: 7 h y 43 m
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In this unique book, the reader is provided with a description of the unfolding of the adoptee's personality from birth, detailing each developmental milestone along the way, followed by different methods of healing the adoptee's wounds, including inner child work, visualizations, healing affirmations, and anger management. Every chapter includes a Myths and Realities of adoption section, a summary of the chapter and exercises to do one's own.
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Great book
- De April en 09-20-16
De: Joe Soll
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- Michele
- 04-21-23
It's a wonderful, well written book.
This book for me resonated with me as I am also adopted. She wrote her story raw and truthfully and left it in that form for those who needed to hear it, and it has been healing for me. This book can also help people who aren't adopted have a window into the thought processes of an adopted person, and see some of the challenges we face.
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- Stuart Watson
- 05-26-20
Anne Heffron has found her voice. Hear her.
Just today a birth mother told me her long lost daughter brought her to tears by saying she "felt like an air fern," rootless, suspended.
Anne Heffron gives voice not just to herself but to millions of rootless children, adoptees, orphans and foster kids alike. These lost children are all growing old in a suspended state, fumbling frantically to grasp an identity that seems grounded and true.
Ms. Heffron manages to hold her biological mother and father as well as her adopted mom and dad in a space of compassion, while remaining true to herself, the lost foundling. For an adoptee, this is the most difficult place, profoundly traumatized but refusing to blame a villain or play the victim. She speaks her truth. She is entitled to be heard.
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- linda b
- 07-18-22
Validation, finally
Thank you for this book. I finally feel validated and am comforted with the knowledge that I’m not the only one who feels this way. I recognized myself in many of the passages.
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- Janet Nordine, MS, LMFT, RPT-S
- 01-03-20
The Adoptee Voice MUST be heard
Ms Heffron reads her writing masterfully and with emotional depth. This book is the pinnacle of truth of the adoptee's lived experience. A must read for all human beings to gain insight and to better understand adoptees with compassion
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- Bradley Boots
- 04-05-24
Tears, anger, laughter, disgust, joy
Tears, anger, laughter, disgust, joy…. This book brought me through all of those. My world is completely different than the author's. We'd share little in common beyond being adopted. Yet the the thoughts and feelings are a common thread among every adopted person I've ever known and I unraveled layer upon layer of my own experience throughout this book.
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- lance trahern
- 01-22-24
Thank you.
My daughters are adopted . This shines a light into their hearts and the storm that always seems to be brewing . Thank you.
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- Julie Oconnor
- 12-02-20
Thank you
Thank you for sharing your story, It’s raw and powerful as a Birthmom I really appreciate your vulnerability!!
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- K. Sarantakes
- 12-19-22
A must-listen for everyone affected by adoption
Anne has skillfully captured what plenary adoption feels like for countless adoptees, particularly those of us from the Baby Scoop Era. Her narration drives it home.
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- Monica Hall
- 11-30-23
Her Pain
Deep feelings and beautifully written. I read the book and listened to the audio. Adoption is hard and she shows it in her memoir
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- Sharon Midura
- 09-18-19
Inspiring and raw
Anne tells her story and shares her inner-most thoughts and feelings so profoundly. I learned a lot listening to this book and it gave me much to think about in understanding how an adopted person can truly feel; things I'd never considered before. It clearly took courage to tell her story with such authenticity and candor. Thanks for sharing your story, Anne. I believe it will help others in similar circumstances. Nice work!
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