Many of us see the potential in the patterns of reality when it comes to a person. We create this idealized version of them in our minds, hoping that maybe if we stay a little longer, give a little more, or explain with more detail, that maybe they will change. Yet, the truth is, you cannot force change on someone who is unwilling to grow. In this episode, Kristen and Kelli discuss why it’s important to focus on the reality over the potential of a person, as their potential isn’t a promise. Whether it's learning how to let go, focusing on the present, or accepting reality, this episode gives you the relief in stopping yourself from romanticizing potential.

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An avoidant usually always makes a return, but should you let them? You may be asking yourself, why are they coming back? Why would the person who couldn’t commit come back? Is it curiosity, closure, or control? Well, in this episode, Kristen discusses what to do when the very person who left you decides to return, how to avoid repeating the cycle, the psychology behind the pattern, energetically detaching from the dynamic, and why rejecting an avoidant may be the best case scenario.

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Mistakes are a necessary part of growth. Many of us believe mistakes are proof of failure, as if we’re falling behind. but the truth is, every mistake carries information that allows you to become equipped with knowledge to stop repeating the pattern. Every failed relationship, every wrong door opened, every setback, every disappointment, allows you to learn what you will refuse to tolerate ever again. Making mistakes gives you access to refine the person you’re becoming, to choose differently, to keep moving forward with clarity.

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It seems we often attract the same type of partnerships. It almost seems as if it’s the same person in a different body, resulting in the same ending, betrayal, pain, and heartache. Realistically, are we attracting the same type of dynamics, or are we accepting? In this episode, Kristen discusses how to recognize the relationships you’re accepting. We learn how to break the pattern, decipher between safety and chaos in a relationship, set standards, and implement boundaries to prevent the cycle from repeating. Overall, you’re not attracting the same dynamics, you’re accepting them.

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Learn to love your own company, not solely in a romanticizing sense, but actually loving the process of being alone. When you spend time with yourself, you uncover who you are without the outside noise, without external projections, you sit with your own emotions and triggers, revealing your true identity. In this episode, Kristen discusses how establishing your relationship with yourself not only sets the standards for everything that follows but also aligns with who you desire to become and understanding who you are at the core.

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When a door shuts, we initially ask ourselves, “What went wrong?”We question ourselves and wonder what could have been done differently to keep the door open. However, you should be grateful that the door closed. If that door hadn't closed, you may have settled for less than you deserve and tolerated behavior that doesn’t align with who you’re meant to become. What seemed like punishment was actually protection in disguise. It didn't close to punish you, it closed to prevent you from staying in a space that didn't understand your value.

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Sometimes those who disrespected, betrayed, or hurt us finally decide to resurface after a duration of time and provide us with an apology for their actions. But the real question is, is their apology sincere? In this episode, we dissect the psychology behind apologies, revealing the three key reasons people feel the need to apologize, whether it’s due to guilt, ego conflict, or an attempt to see if they still have access to your energy. Why do they feel the need to apologize now? Does their apology deserve access to your energy? Well, in this episode, we give you all the necessary information to decide.

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When we are attempting to find our true identity, we first have to unlearn who we were taught to become. Many people in our environments will project limitations onto us, creating the need to feel validated and achieve certain expectations ingrained in our minds. But what’s life if you’re not truly living for yourself? In this episode, Kristen discusses why it’s crucial to unlearn the patterns and projections you were taught. Whether it’s recognizing these habits, choosing yourself, embracing authenticity, giving yourself permission, and practicing boundaries, let’s learn how to unlearn who we were taught to become.

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