Episodios

  • AlloAndAce - 016 - Navigating Intimacy - Avoiding Sexual Compliance in Asexual Relationships
    Jul 24 2024

    TW: This whole episode is about SA in the form of Sexual Compliance and Sex

    We discuss the various forms of asexuality including the level of Favorability or Repulsness of sex and how Sexual Compliance can sneak into the relationship.

    Importance of Consent and Boundaries as well as societal pressures, and miss-information when it comes to asexuality being psychological or a hormone imbalance.

    We discuss communication and issues around communication as well as boundaries and how difficult this episode was for Jessi.

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    1 h y 58 m
  • AlloAndAce - 015 - Rejection Goes Both Ways
    Jul 17 2024

    TW - General sex talk - Not Graphic

    Today we discuss a few education moments that Jessi had one being a trigger and one being with her Asexual son.

    We then discuss Rejection going both ways for not only the Allosexual partner with sex but also the way that the Asexual partner is not only rejected by society but also by their partner.

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    1 h y 19 m
  • AlloAndAce - 014 - Revisiting Boundaries
    Jul 10 2024

    TW - Sex experience discussed

    In this episode, we go back to discussing boundaries like in Episode 3 but talking about being nice to yourself as an asexual for making mistakes when trying to figure out your boundaries as well as for the Allosexual to have patience and being kind to yourself and your Asexual partner when it comes to boundaries and reactions that happen.

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    1 h y 1 m
  • AlloAndAce - 013 - The Intimacy Hierarchy That Doesn't Exist
    Jul 2 2024

    TW - Sex, Kissing, Touching etc.

    Today we discuss live some boundaries that have come up recently.

    We read a negative review that says they don't know a single "sexual" (they refuse to say Allosexual) person who views sex as a higher form of intimacy and that there isn't a hierarchy to intimacy. And we discuss the perceived sexual hierarchy.

    We also discuss more in depth where we ourselves may place our own requirements to stay in a relationship.

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  • AlloAndAce - 012 - Empowered Asexuality - Ego, Identity, and Growth
    Jun 26 2024

    TW - Sex Talk

    In this episode of our podcast, we start off with some clarification and a story about a sexual intimate experience before we dive into the main part of the podcast which we get into the intricate interplay between ego, identity, and personal growth within the asexual community. This episode explores how a balanced and healthy ego can empower asexual individuals to navigate their unique identities and experiences with confidence and resilience.

    We start by defining ego and its role in shaping our sense of self, highlighting the positive aspects of a healthy ego in affirming one's asexual identity. Our discussion then moves to the challenges that asexual individuals often face, such as societal misconceptions and pressure to conform to sexual norms, and how a robust sense of self can act as a shield against these external pressures.

    Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of personal growth and how if not checked, an inflated ego can be harmful.

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    1 h y 41 m
  • AlloAndAce - 011 - Therapy and Imposter Syndrome - Fighting against your Asexuality
    Jun 18 2024

    TW - Sex

    Today we talk about a couple take aways that Jessi had from her therapy session today and then we dive into imposter syndrome and how that affects Asexuals in negative ways by society, expectations and ways to over come them. We talk about Allosexual people and some of the imposter syndrome they can have in an Asexual relationship and how that it can possibly lead to negativity in the relationship.

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    1 h y 7 m
  • AlloAndAce - 010 - Post Pride Musings and Platonic Relationships
    Jun 11 2024

    TW: Discussion of Sex

    In this episode, we discuss our time at pride and how the Asexual community was represented in Salt Lake City, UT.

    We discuss Platonic Relationships and the differences with romantic vs non-romantic relationships and assumptions when a partner is asexual.

    And more!

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    1 h y 2 m
  • AlloAndAce - 009 - Coming out to your kids, Labels, Aphobia, Catching up and Pride
    May 31 2024

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    -TW - Sex and Aphobia discussed

    This episode we change up a little bit from the last 3 and shoot the shit. We talk about coming out to your kids, Labels, TikTok, Aphobia and Pride. We discuss our asexual relationship, sexless marriage and a few other questions we have for each other. Pride is this weekend so we are going for the first time as an Asexual Couple and Jessi knowing who she is.


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    1 h y 2 m