In this episode I open up about how parenting can deeply affect our mental health, especially when it comes to toxic versus non-toxic styles.

I'll share some personal stories about my own battles with feelings of abandonment and engulfment, and why it's so crucial to understand the trauma that can be passed down through generations.

I'll also talk about how reconnecting with our inner child and practicing self-care can help us avoid falling into a victim mentality.

Plus, we'll get into the tough but necessary topic of setting boundaries with our parents while still keeping those important connections strong.

My hope is that these insights will help you break free from cycles of trauma and build healthier relationships with yourself and your parents.

Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 3700+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction 01:12 - Parenting Styles: Abandonment vs. Engulfment 02:22 - Intergenerational Trauma 03:27 - The Responsibility of Parents 04:35 - Understanding Parent-Child Dynamics 05:44 - The Role of the Inner Child 08:40 - Childhood Needs vs. Parent Expectations 09:59 - The Impact of Parental Relationships on Self-Care 14:09 - Breaking the Victim Mentality 16:19 - Love and Fear in Relationships 18:15 - Finding Authenticity Beyond Trauma 19:21 - Understanding Reactive Behavior 20:27 - Setting Boundaries with Parents 22:40 -The Importance of Parental Connection

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the nitty-gritty of anxiety.

Let me tell you, it's not just about your thoughts. There's a bigger picture here.

I'm talking about your body's built-in alarm system that's been going off since way back when. Things like abuse, loss, and feeling abandoned can really mess with that system.

I've been there myself, both as a doctor and as a guy who's struggled with anxiety.

Traditional treatments like CBT only scratch the surface.

We need to heal the whole you – mind and body. Let's talk about how to disarm that inner alarm and finally find some peace.

Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 3700+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction

01:07 - Anxiety as a Byproduct

03:26 - Dissonance Between Mind and Body

04:36 - Mistakes in Traditional Therapy

05:41 - Chronic Stress and Alarm

06:44 - Interception and Anxiety Triggers

07:54 - Worry and Its Effects

09:56 - The Alarm-Anxiety Cycle

11:02 - Healing from Anxiety

12:12 - Reconnecting Self

Hey everyone, Dr. Russ here! On this episode of the AnxietyRX Podcast, we're gonna dive into something a little different: how the things we love can actually trigger anxiety - competing attachments.

I'll share some of my own experiences and some real-life examples to show how these attachments can sneak up on us.

But the good news is, with a little self-awareness and some work on connecting with ourselves, we can learn to manage those anxious feelings.

So, if you're ready, tune in!

Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 3700+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 - Introduction

00:35 - Holistic View of Competing Attachments

02:25 - Childhood Trauma and Competing Attachments

03:41 - Personal Anecdote: Family Dynamics

05:01 - Understanding Competing Attachments

06:05 - Triggers from Competing Attachments

07:25 - Connecting with Yourself

08:36 - Codependency and Attachment Dynamics

09:48 - Broadening the Definition of Competing Attachments

11:13 - Awareness and Compassion for Yourself

12:28 - The Importance of Self-Attachment