• Ask Leslie About Sex

  • Sep 2 2024
  • Duración: 38 m
  • Podcast

  • Resumen

  • Resources: Leslie's Quick Start Guide "She Deserves Better" by Sheila Gregoire "The Great Sex Rescue" by Sheila Gregoire Questions answered in this episode Can Women Offer Affection Without It Being Interpreted as a Sexual Invitation?
    • Women may hesitate to show physical affection due to fear of it being seen as an invitation for sex.
    • It’s important to communicate intentions clearly when offering hugs, kisses, or other forms of affection.
    • An effective way to set boundaries: “I love being close to you, but I don’t always want it to lead to sex.”
    • Men should understand that affectionate gestures are not always signals for sex; ongoing dialogue is key.
    Is It Wrong for a Woman to Fake Orgasms?
    • Faking orgasms can erode trust and intimacy in a relationship.
    • Honest communication about sexual desires and experiences is essential.
    • If a woman is not in the mood for orgasm, she should express this openly: “I want to be close to you but don’t expect me to reach orgasm.”
    • Focus on connection and mutual pleasure rather than performance.
    Are There Biblical Boundaries for Sexual Practices?
    • Certain practices, such as extramarital sex and harmful activities, are considered off-limits.
    • Biblical teachings emphasize respect, mutual consent, and preserving the sanctity of sexual relationships.
    • Open dialogue about preferences and boundaries helps maintain a healthy relationship.
    What About Covert Forms of Marital Rape and Coercion?
    • Covert marital rape can involve emotional or spiritual coercion, where consent is not freely given.
    • True consent involves the ability to express desires and boundaries without fear of negative consequences.
    • If coerced into compliance, seek professional help and support to address these issues.
    Is Masturbation a Concern in a Marriage?
    • There is disagreement in the church on this topic.
    • Masturbation can be a natural part of sexuality and may not necessarily indicate problems in a relationship.
    • It’s important to discuss personal needs and expectations about masturbation within the context of the marriage.
    • Addressing how masturbation affects the relationship openly and respectfully can lead to greater understanding and alignment.
    My Wife Never Liked Sex but She Married Me—What Should I Do?
    • Feeling deceived when a partner’s sexual preferences or desires differ from expectations can be challenging.
    • It’s important to address these concerns openly with your partner and seek to understand each other’s needs and boundaries.
    • Consider couples counseling to explore these issues in a safe, guided environment.
    • Building a supportive relationship where both partners feel heard and valued is crucial, even if sexual desires do not align perfectly.
    How Should We Handle Long-Term Relationship Repair and Growth?
    • Long-term relationships, like homes, require regular maintenance and repair.
    • Addressing emotional, physical, or relational damage is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.
    • Prioritize well-being and safety; if a partner’s behavior consistently harms the relationship, consider seeking therapy or reevaluating the relationship.
    Final Thoughts
    • Marriage and intimate relationships involve navigating various challenges and dynamics.
    • Clear communication, mutual respect, and honest dialogue are essential for a fulfilling and healthy relationship.
    • Seek support and resources to address issues and build a stronger partnership
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