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In this poignant and deeply introspective season finale of Break the Silence, Build a Future, I delve into the contrast between societal expectations of how one should grieve and the reality of my own experience. When I first learned on June 5, 2023, that my daughter's husband had been arrested for her murder after she had been missing for twelve days, I felt an overwhelming coldness that drove me to wrap myself in heavy blankets, even in the heat of summer. Yet, I did not cry. It wasn't until the judge's decision at the preliminary hearing—despite it being the best outcome I could have hoped for—that the tears finally came.

In this episode, I explore the complex emotions surrounding grief and loss, particularly the notion that tears are a measure of love. I ask, as honestly as possible, how a mother should react when faced with the unimaginable loss of a child. Through my story, I hope to offer comfort and understanding to others who may feel guilty for not grieving in the "expected" way. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on the ways we cope, the pressures we face, and the importance of allowing ourselves to grieve in our own way.

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In this poignant episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future, we delve into the harrowing journey of seeking justice after the unimaginable loss of a loved one to intimate partner violence. One year after the tragic murder of my daughter by her husband of 18 years, my family and I are still navigating the complex and often overwhelming court process. This episode sheds light on how the legal system can leave families feeling isolated, powerless, and in the dark as they wait for justice to be served. Join us as we share our personal story and reflect on the emotional toll this journey has taken, while advocating for better support and understanding for those who face similar battles.

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In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, I open up about the tragic loss of my daughter, who was murdered by her husband last year. As we navigate the complex and often overwhelming legal process, my family and I have faced significant challenges, not only in seeking justice but also in finding the support we desperately need. I’ll share our emotional journey through the court system, highlighting the profound lack of resources available for families of victims.
We’ll discuss the gaps in support, the emotional toll, and the urgent need for systemic changes to better assist those who are grieving while fighting for justice.
Join me as I share our story, raise awareness, and advocate for better support systems for families enduring such unimaginable pain.

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In this deeply personal episode, I confront the complex and often overwhelming emotions that accompany the first anniversary of my daughter's murder. Through candid reflections and raw honesty, I explore the many shades of grief, from haunting flashbacks to feelings of helplessness.
Join me as I navigate this painful milestone, seeking to find meaning, healing, and a path forward amidst the darkness. Whether you are grieving a loss or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a compassionate space for understanding and connection.

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In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I open up about my personal journey through the unimaginable grief of losing my daughter to intimate partner violence. Sharing my story is not only a way to honor her memory, but also a means to reach out to others who might be facing similar heartache.

Join me as I navigate the emotional challenges and the healing process, discussing how I managed to transform my pain into a purpose-driven life. I delve into the raw emotions of grief, the steps, and the ongoing journey of finding strength and hope in the face of tragedy.

This episode aims to provide comfort, support, and practical advice to those affected by intimate partner violence. Whether you're personally grieving a loss, supporting a loved one, or seeking to understand the impact of domestic violence, my story offers valuable insights and resources.

Listen to discover how to move forward from unimaginable loss, find a sense of purpose, and build a life filled with resilience and hope.

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Join me on this deeply personal episode as I reflect on the weight of May 8th, a day that holds both profound joy and unimaginable pain in my life. It's a date marked by the containers of my birth, a celebration of life and growth, juxtaposed against the harrowing realities of domestic violence and loss.

As I share my journey, I'll take you through the highs and lows of this significant day. It's the day my daughter, amidst the chaos and anguish of an abusive relationship, found the strength to check into a battered women's shelter, a decision born out of necessity, but also of resilience and courage.

But May 8th also carries the heavy burden of legal proceedings, as we face the hearing for her husband, charged with the first-degree murder of my beloved daughter. It's a day etched in sorrow, a reminder of the profound injustice and heartache that can coexist alongside the beauty and blessings of life.

Through my narrative, I'll explore the complexities of navigating such contrasting emotions, the bittersweet symphony of grief and gratitude that accompanies this date each year.
Join me as I honor the memory of my daughter, celebrate her indomitable spirit, and find solace in the moments of joy that still manage to shine through the darkness.
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Join host Fartumo Kusow in a compelling episode of "Break the Silence, Build a Future" as we explore the legislative landscape surrounding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). In this episode, we shine a spotlight on Bill 173, a pivotal piece of legislation aimed at deeming IPV as an epidemic in the Ontario Legislature.

Joined by Cait Alexander, a survivor of IPV who courageously shares her harrowing journey, we delve into the stark realities of IPV and the profound impact it has on survivors and their communities. Cait's firsthand account of surviving an attempt on her life by her partner offers a poignant testament to the urgency of legislative action and the critical need for support systems for survivors.

Through insightful discussions, we navigate the importance of Bill 173 and its potential implications for combating IPV and fostering a culture of safety and empowerment. From legal advocacy to survivor-centered policies, each conversation underscores the collective effort to enact meaningful change and create a future free from violence.

Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we confront the challenges, celebrate the victories, and amplify the voices driving progress in the fight against Intimate Partner Violence.

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In "Living With Loss: A Parent's Journey Through The Justice System," I intimately share the poignant story of me grappling with the unimaginable—the loss of my daughter to senseless violence. Through this emotional narrative, I peel back the layers of grief, resilience, and determination as I navigate the labyrinth of the justice system. Join me as I journey along witnessing the highs and lows, the moments of despair and glimmers of hope, and ultimately, the profound transformation that comes from seeking justice while carrying the weight of profound loss.
This episode offers a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring power of parental love in the face of tragedy.

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