Grief doesn’t disappear when we ignore it; it grows quieter and heavier. Today we talk candidly about funerals—why they matter, who they’re actually for, and how ritual gives our bodies and communities a way to carry loss with honesty and love. Ryan shares the tender story of his dad’s passing and the family’s plans to lay him to rest in Denver, then opens up about a hard truth learned during the pandemic: when we skip communal mourning, grief lingers without form.

We explore the deep roots of funeral practices, from traces of pollen in ancient burial caves to the modern mix of readings, music, prayers, and shared meals. Along the way, we unpack the language we use—funeral, memorial, celebration of life—and why the labels matter far less than the space they create. Sadness isn’t a problem to fix; it’s a sign of love. The best services make room for both tears and laughter, for hilarious family stories and quiet moments of reflection, because that’s what a real life looks like.

If you’re planning a service, you’ll hear practical guidance on shaping a gathering that fits your family: invite participation, set gentle rhythms, let someone trusted guide the flow, and close with a grounded act like a graveside farewell or a shared meal. We also talk about how community presence, scripture or poetry, and simple rituals help move us from shock toward steadier gratitude. Funerals aren’t for the dead—they’re for the living, and they work on us in profound, often hidden ways.

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A single question flips the room: have you not read. We take that line from Jesus and follow it through a grainfield, a temple, and a minivan full of questions, asking why a law meant for rest became a rule intended to measure, and how compassion rewrites the script without erasing the text. With Mark 2:23–28 as our anchor, we sit with the tension between Sabbath as gift and Sabbath as performance. Jesus reminds the watchers and the weary that the day of rest was made to serve people. When hunger meets holiness, love leads the way.

We also reexamine the Pharisees. Not all were scheming; many were sincere, carried by curiosity, tradition, and the fear of getting God wrong. That makes them feel close to us. Adults have layers of influence that train us to see what fits our story and skip what doesn’t. Kids in the temple simply saw Jesus heal and sang. That contrast exposes our selective reading: we highlight comfort verses and dodge the hard calls to love enemies, forgive persecutors, and lift the overlooked. The invitation isn’t to toss the law but to read it through mercy, purpose, and the heart of God.

A personal story about a beloved children’s book closes the loop: the words do not change, but we do. Seasons of life widen our capacity to hear and obey. Have you not read becomes less of a rebuke and more of an invitation to read again with fresh eyes, to let Scripture frame our worldview instead of letting our worldview frame Scripture. You are loved and forgiven, and you are also invited to grow—into a Sabbath that restores, a faith that serves, and a life that looks like Jesus. If this speaks to you, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review telling us what you’re re-reading with fresh eyes.

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The moment that voicemail played in the dark car, everything we’d been holding back broke open. Grief hit like weather—sudden, total, impossible to outthink—and what followed became a lesson we didn’t know we needed about how to let emotions move without letting them take the wheel. We walk through the days around losing a beloved stepfather, from sleepless nights on a pull-out couch to a birthday that didn’t quite fit, and the strange clarity that arrives when you’re hungry, angry, lonely, or tired.

We talk about the thin veil that fatigue creates and why HALT isn’t just a recovery saying but a practical compass for emotional honesty. The heart of the conversation is a simple image: your life as a road you value, you as the driver, and your emotions as passengers asking for a seat. When you refuse them—especially sorrow, fear, and regret—they block your lane and push you into the weeds where frustration, numbness, and collateral damage grow. When you let them board, they can speak, settle, and ride along while you keep steering toward the person you want to become.

You’ll hear a real-time account of tears that arrived uninvited, why that release mattered, and how to find places and people who can hold space with you. We name the tension of being public-facing yet human, and we offer practical ways to feel safely: time-bound permission, grounding, and asking for help from those who love you. If you’ve ever been told to be strong at the cost of your inner life, this conversation reframes strength as presence, not performance, and invites you to grieve in a way that keeps you on the path of right living.

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