This week on Church Unscripted, we're tackling how to give feedback that builds people up instead of tearing them down. Pastor Eric and Pastor David dive into balancing truth and grace in communication, especially across different generations. Tune in and learn how taming the tongue can transform your relationships and community!

00:00 Taming the tongue is difficult, like lions.

03:10 Listen before speaking, especially during election season.

07:28 Address behavior, not person; provide constructive feedback.

09:59 Generational differences in communication and feedback styles.

12:25 Generational swings occur due to parenting styles.

18:06 Shift fear to gratitude during pressured moments.

21:27 Graciously correct harmful beliefs in believers.

24:12 Relationships help avoid disunity in theological discussions.

26:35 Memorizing scripture protects against negative speech's effects.

30:50 Remain silent; Holy Spirit guides speech in conflicts.

34:43 Incorporate prayer before conversations in fast environments.

38:19 Sabbath means margin; macro and micro versions.

39:29 Focus on taming tongue, invite Holy Spirit, comment.

In this episode, S2E30, we reflect on Jesus' approach to love and humility in addressing social issues. We explore the concept of being "our brother's keeper" today and the effort required to build deep relationships within the church. We highlight the balance between being a safe haven for believers and a place of healing for those in need. We discuss minor sins and the challenges of confronting spiritual apathy. Finally, we also talk about parenting challenges related to children walking away from faith and the importance of other adult relationships when helping them find Jesus again.

In this episode, S2E29, we discuss the importance and impact of prayer. We explore reconciling unanswered prayers and God’s timing, and contemplate the necessity of prayer when God already knows our needs. We touch on the power of vocalized prayers in spiritual battles and align prayer with God's will. The episode highlights examples from the Bible and personal stories to illustrate persistent prayer. The conversation ends by examining the symbolic act of anointing with oil and the connection between spiritual and physical healing.

In this episode, S2E28, we highlight the powerful concept of patience from James chapter 5. We explore balancing urgency with divine timing and how to discern the right moments for action. We address the challenges parents face in teaching delayed gratification and the importance of rest for spiritual nourishment. Practical tips for fostering patience, both personally and in parenting, take center stage. Additionally, we touch on the connections between financial planning, retirement decisions, and maintaining faithfulness through prayer and the Holy Spirit.

In this episode, S2E27, we discuss the impact of success without incorporating God and the issues of arrogance and self-reliance. We explore how external influences can guide successful individuals to stay grounded in their faith. The conversation highlights managing ambition in high-pressure careers without compromising prayer lives and the concept of everyday missionaries. We touch on the balance between ambition, humility, and maintaining integrity. Lastly, we address the importance of aligning personal ambitions with God’s will and supporting each other in that journey.

In this episode, S2E26, we explore the connection between emotional healing and physical ailments, claiming healing through faith. We touch on how unconfessed sin, bitterness, and anxiety can impact well-being and the importance of a relationship with Jesus. We also discuss submitting to God, the power of prayer, and aligning prayers with God's will.

S2E25, we explore the importance of examining motivations and vision in our actions. We talk about decision-making and the potential compromising beliefs for financial gain. The discussion extends to favoritism and its impact on church and personal lives. We highlight the dangers of compromising integrity and reflect on the equalizing grace of Jesus. Finally, we encourage everyone to reject favoritism and focus on the value of each individual.

In S2E24, we unpack Jesus' teachings on the Sabbath and how it's meant for human benefit, not strict rule-following. We explore the necessity of humility and faith in recognizing our need for God. The discussion highlights balancing moral life with genuine relationship with Jesus. We address pitfalls of works-based theology and the misuse of scripture. Practical tips for engaging with the Bible are also shared, importance of context and genuine faith.