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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli explores the true meaning of a good death, and why it begins with how we choose to live. Joined by teacher, speaker, and author Chris Palmer, they unpack what it means to live with intention, plan ahead with compassion, and face death as a part of life rather than a medical failure.

Chris shares deeply personal stories and lessons from his book Achieving a Good Death: A Practical Guide to the End of Life, reflecting on fear, autonomy, quality of life, and how to make end-of-life care more humane and empowering.

Key takeaways include:

• Why intentional living leads to a more peaceful death
• How to approach advanced directives, even if you're scared
• Practical tools for having difficult conversations with loved ones
• How medical culture can hinder, rather than help, end-of-life care
• The importance of creating a personal mission statement for life and legacy

Whether you work in aging care, are planning ahead for yourself or a loved one, or are simply curious about what it means to die well- this episode offers powerful, grounded, and compassionate information.

Links/Resources

• Guest: Chris Palmer’s Website - https://www.chrispalmeronline.com/death-dying
• Host: Traci Arieli’s Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Achieving a Good Death: A Practical Guide to the End of Life by Chris Palmer
• Compassion & Choices Dementia Values Tool – https://www.compassionandchoices.org
• Final Exit Network – https://www.finalexitnetwork.org
• AARP Advance Directive Links – https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/financial-legal/free-printable-advance-directives

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli explores the complexities of senior living decisions with Angie Graham, Division President of Our House Senior Living. Together, they break down what “good care” really looks like, and how families can distinguish between nurturing communities and places that fall short.

Angie shares her personal story of navigating memory care for her father, insights into caregiver burnout, and why culture and communication are just as important as the building itself. You’ll learn what questions to ask on facility tours, how to read between the lines, and how to prepare emotionally for this deeply personal transition.

Whether you're supporting an aging parent or planning for yourself, this episode offers practical tools and guidance to help you make informed, compassionate choices.

Key Takeaways:

• What defines high-quality senior living
• How to spot red flags during facility visits
• Common misconceptions about assisted and memory care
• Ways to support caregivers and avoid burnout
• The emotional dynamics of transitioning into senior living

This conversation aims to normalize these often-difficult discussions, & empower families.

Links/Resources

• Guest: Our House Senior Living – https://www.ourhousesl.com
• Host: Traci Arieli’s Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Farah Baxter, co-founder of Soalma, about the essential documents, conversations, and emotional legacies we should prepare before we die. Together, they explore how thoughtful end-of-life planning can ease the burden on loved ones, reduce chaos, and create space for healing.

Whether you’ve already started planning or are hearing about this for the first time, Farah offers gentle, practical guidance and introduces Soalma, a digital platform designed to help families document, store, and share life’s most important details.

Key takeaways include:

• What you actually need to document before you die (beyond just a will)
• The emotional and practical impacts of being prepared
• How planning ahead can prevent family conflict
• Why even young, healthy adults should start documenting now
• How Soalma helps users store both vital documents and meaningful stories

This episode helps normalize conversations around death and dying by showing how preparation is not only an act of love but a way to preserve peace and dignity for everyone involved.

Links/Resources:

• Guest: Learn more about Soalma – https://soalma.com
• Host: Traci Arieli – https://www.comfortingclosure.com
• Advance Directives by state: https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/financial-legal/free-printable-advance-directives/

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with grief advocates and co-authors Leanne Whallett and Jess Slater about their children’s book All Around Is Me. They share personal stories of loss, parenting through grief, and the deeply healing role their book plays in helping children process death and memory.

Together, they discuss how children experience grief differently than adults, why silence around death can be confusing for young ones, and how we can create safe, compassionate spaces for kids to feel and express their emotions. Key takeaways include the importance of honest conversations, recognizing signs of grief in children, and using storytelling and ritual as tools for connection.

This episode gently normalizes conversations around childhood grief and offers encouragement to caregivers, educators, and anyone supporting a grieving child.

Links/Resources

• Guest Website: https://motherduckpublishing.com
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com
• Book: All Around Is Me on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/All-Around-Me-Leanne-Whallett/dp/B0DGQSC8RJ

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What happens when the system that’s supposed to care for our loved ones after death fails?

In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Nick Nell, founder of MorgueBoard, about the painful reality of mishandled remains - stories of people lost in the system, misidentified, or cremated without consent. Together, they explore how these devastating errors happen and what can be done to stop them.

You’ll learn about the most common mistakes hospitals and morgues make, the warning signs families should watch for, and the questions you have every right to ask when someone you love dies. Nick also shares how technology, when used with care, can restore dignity and accountability to death care.

Links/Resources

· Guest: Nick Nell - https://www.morgueboard.com

· Contact Nick: nick@morgueboard.com

· Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com

· MorgueBoard platform: https://www.morgueboard.com

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli speaks with Robin Farr, Program Manager at the MAID Family Support Society in Canada. Together, they discuss Robin’s personal journey of supporting her father through Medical Assistance in Dying, and how that experience led her to help other families navigating this deeply emotional process.

Key takeaways include what MAID looks like in Canada, how peer support can be a lifeline for loved ones before and after a medically assisted death, and why grief after MAID can be more complex than many realize. This conversation offers guidance, compassion, and hope for those walking this path—and those supporting them.

This episode helps normalize difficult but necessary conversations around choice, death, and the emotional complexities that come with them.

Links/Resources

• Guest: MAID Family Support Society – https://maidfamilysupport.ca
• Book: The Many Faces of MAID – https://www.amazon.ca/Many-Faces-MAID-Someone-Assistance/
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli is joined by Julie Scott, Executive Director of the Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum, for a captivating discussion on the spiritual wisdom of ancient Egypt. Together, they explore how beliefs about the afterlife shaped Egyptian life, death rituals, and our modern understanding of grief, remembrance, and legacy.

Key takeaways include the soul’s multi-layered journey through the Duat, the symbolic and sacred practice of mummification, the importance of the Book of the Dead (or Coming Forth by Light), and how social class shaped burial practices. Julie also shares how ancient Egyptians maintained relationships with the dead and what these deeply spiritual traditions can still teach us today.

This conversation helps normalize how we speak about death by connecting historical perspectives with contemporary grief and end-of-life care. Whether you’re a professional in the field or simply curious about how ancient traditions resonate with our lives today, this episode offers insight, comfort, and perspective.

Links/Resources

• Guest: Julie Scott, Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum – https://www.egyptianmuseum.org
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com
• Book Mentioned: Shamanic Wisdom of the Pyramid Texts by Jeremy Naydler – https://www.innertraditions.com/books/shamanic-wisdom-in-the-pyramid-texts
• Free Online Resource: The Symbolic Prophecy of the Great Pyramid by H. Spencer Lewis – https://www.rosicrucian.org/rosicrucian-books-the-symbolic-prophecy-of-the-great-pyramid

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sandy Chen Stokes, founder of the Chinese American Coalition for Compassionate Care (CACCC), to discuss end-of-life care in the Chinese American community.

Together, they talk about how deeply rooted traditions, intergenerational caregiving, and spiritual beliefs shape conversations about death—and how those conversations are changing in today’s world.

From cultural taboos to the power of open communication, Sandy shares personal stories, practical wisdom, and tools like the Heart to Heart® Café and Heart to Heart® Cards that empower families to connect more deeply. Whether you're a caregiver, a healthcare professional, or simply someone navigating the complexities of death and dying, this episode offers encouragement and actionable guidance.

Key topics include:

• Cultural barriers to end-of-life conversations
• Intergenerational shifts in caregiving
• Rituals, beliefs, and communication practices
• The importance of early planning and education
• CACCC's tools and volunteer training programs
• How AI is helping shape the future of compassionate care

Let’s normalize these critical conversations and build bridges across generations—because talking about death is truly a way to honor life.

Links & Resources:

• Guest: Sandy Chen Stokes – Chinese American Coalition for Compassionate Care: https://www.caccc-usa.org
• Host: Traci Arieli – Comforting Closure: https://www.comfortingclosure.com
• Heart to Heart® Cards: https://www.caccc-usa.org/heart2heart-cards
• Mentioned Film: The Farewell (2019) – https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8637428/
• Learn more about advance care planning: https://theconversationproject.org

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