Where do I start without giving away the contents from the title? Welcome, Chantal to the podcast. Her book, RAISE YOUR LOVE SIGNAL, deals with some of the challenges men over 40 man and/or will encounter during or after their divorce. Her teachings are just for a new significant other - but it works with friends, coworkers, and you kiddos. Everyone needs and should give and receive love. Discussions of being sensitive, dating allows you practice your skills, dating for a result, be available, mindfulness, managing the curveballs with tools, invest time, practice self-love, and it is hard for men to ask for help are all surfaced in this episode. Chantal has a definite superpower: raising your love signal with this show. Thanks Chantal!

More Topics:

Develop your communication

Take ownership

Admit when you f*ck up

Hold each other accountable

Build fireworks over time

Stupid superficial things

Can I sustain this long-term?

Seduction mode then get lazy

Chasing love

Dealbreakers

Stepping stones to the right one

Creating a safe space

Listen to the red flags

The art of modern dating

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Where do I start? What does a divorced or divorcing gay man over 40 have in common with a divorced or divorcing straight man? After interviewing Karl Dunn - quite a bit. Karl comes to us to discuss the plight of gay men's divorce - with quite a bit of similarities and few differences. His ability to form a special bond with some of his new-found friends at work is unique. Both sets of men basically have some of the same issues and complexities that encompass divorce.

This episode includes discussions of living in an artist collective, self-love, the elusive pot of gold, and Marian’s Law. We have to get Karl back for part two, for I think we only scratched the surface. Thanks, Karl.

Topics of;

• Regret

• Forgive yourself

• Master your aloneness

• Divorce law is written for men, women and children

• There is no protocol

• Divorce reform as a mental health issue

• Carvana Tower commercial

• The marriage didn’t make him. His divorce did

• Beating yourself

• Repeating the same patterns

• The elephant in the room

• Communication vs Respect

• Anger is not required

• I am enough being alone

• Expecting and rehearsing things that happen in your life

• Rainbow divorce

ALL THINGS KARL

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Welcome Jonathan Steele to the show. Being a divorce attorney, he has seen the whole gambit of the same old and the new old in his career. Discussions of narcissism and gaslighting, divorce law misconceptions, parenting time, not leaving the home, being organized, and not bad-mouthing your ex. But, what intrigued me the most was his cybersecurity element of divorce. It was so fascinating. This is not just your ordinary lawyer vs. divorce recovery podcast.

Also Topics on:

The power imbalance in the couple

Lawyers cost more than a therapist

Fight for parenting time

Frequent flyer

Welcoming good lawyers

Mediation

Concentrate on being the best father you can be

Two happy homes are better than one unhappy one

Get petty with pets

Parenting time with pets

Full disclosure

Children may want to blame themselves for the divorce

Parenting comes with experience

Never stay for the kids

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Steele Fortress - Cybersecurity

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