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  • With My Bear Arms: A TSA Nightmare
    Jul 9 2024

    In this episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' hosts J Black and D Johns engage in a meaningful conversation about responsibility, preparedness, and the unexpected lessons life throws at us. They discuss a personal experience involving an unintentional firearm incident at an airport, the implications, and the importance of being judgmental and aware of one's surroundings. The hosts also delve into the evolution of friendship loyalty, gun safety, and how these topics are crucial conversations to have with their children. The episode concludes with an exciting announcement about the 'Dear Son, Network' obtaining its trademark, signifying a major milestone in their journey.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Beliefs

    00:00:40 Airport Incident Unfolds

    00:01:46 Welcome to the Dear Son Show

    00:02:16 Weekly Catch-Up

    00:03:14 Travel Experiences and Reflections

    00:04:37 The Airport Incident Revisited

    00:09:17 Legal Consequences and Reflections

    00:16:11 Gun Culture and Personal Experiences

    00:19:57 Judgment and Grace

    00:21:59 Facing the Consequences

    00:22:47 The Complexity of Loyalty

    00:24:32 Father-Son Conversations

    00:26:22 Real-Life Examples and Lessons

    00:31:20 Gun Safety and Family Dynamics

    00:39:02 Trademarking Success

    00:46:06 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


    Key Takeaways:


    1. **Gun Safety and Legal Consequences**: The speakers discuss the importance of gun safety, especially when traveling, sharing a personal story about accidentally carrying a loaded weapon in an airport. They highlight legal consequences, such as fines and losing TSA pre-check status, and reflect on the oversight and responsibility necessary to avoid such situations.


    2. **Judgment and Understanding**: There's an emphasis on not being judgmental and understanding the context of others' actions. They point out how quick judgments can be misleading, sharing anecdotes about people making assumptions without knowing comprehensive details, thus advocating for empathy and broader awareness.


    3. **Influences and Life Lessons**: The conversation ties back to the influence of one's social circle on decision-making and the importance of teaching children about responsibility and the repercussions of their actions. They touch on personal growth and learning from mistakes, as well as the impact of one's environment in shaping behavior and choices.


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  • Navigating Life's Challenges: The Fight Within | Ep 94
    Jun 4 2024
    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D. Johns and Jey Blac delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and the challenges they face. They discuss personal struggles, including health issues, aging parents, and the evolving dynamics of family leadership. The episode touches on themes of resilience, the importance of understanding one's 'why,' and the impact of personal battles on family and business. They also reflect on the balance between external motivations and internal well-being, emphasizing the significance of staying true to one's core values. Alongside personal anecdotes, they explore how pride, loyalty, and the need for self-accountability shape their journeys. The hosts conclude with aspirations for the show's growth and the importance of maintaining its integrity and message.00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Son Show00:00:19 Hosts Introduction and Initial Banter00:00:47 Life Challenges and Family Situations00:03:23 Conversations with Dad00:05:23 The Fight of Life00:08:50 Business Ventures and Loyalty00:11:18 Impact on Family and Parenting Challenges00:15:36 Balancing Family and Business00:22:33 Reflecting on the Evolution of Our Message00:23:45 The Importance of Internal Motivation00:25:44 Balancing Determination and Well-being00:27:01 Learning from Life's Storms00:27:46 Confronting Passivity and Reclaiming Drive00:30:07 Standing Firm in Business Decisions00:32:56 The Struggle with Pride and Asking for Help00:36:24 The Value of Genuine Conversations00:40:41 Future Plans and Personal Growth00:42:42 Closing Thoughts and GratitudeHere are three key takeaways from this episode:1. **Family Dynamics and Communication**: The conversation delves into how current life struggles, such as personal and health issues, affect family dynamics. It highlights the importance of open communication within the family, especially with children, to help them understand changes and challenges.2. **Personal Growth and Reflection**: Both hosts discuss the need for personal reflection and growth. They emphasize the necessity of being still and introspective to understand life's bigger picture. This includes revisiting and standing firm on certain principles and decisions to avoid compromising their personal and family values.3. **Business and Life Balance**: The hosts touch on balancing business ventures with personal life. They share insights on how to stay true to their original motivations (their "why") and avoid getting sidetracked by external pressures. This balance is essential for maintaining their integrity and ensuring that their business goals align with their personal values and family well-being. #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #LifeLessons #FamilyTalk #StayInTheFight #PodcastLife #Parenting #RealConversations #LifeJourney #FatherhoodJourney #Motivation #PersonalGrowthFollow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.comLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcastThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • This Is Why Your 2024 Resolutions Aren't Working | Ep 93
    Jan 20 2024

    In this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac have candid conversations about fostering better family life and personal growth on the cusp of the New Year. They discuss the importance of lightening the load at home, being more active in family roles, the art of delegating responsibilities, and managing frustrations. They also delve into the significance of setting resolutions, staying true to them, treating goals as daily commitments, and having a healthier, more intentional lifestyle. Importantly, they highlight the cruciality of self-care, checking in on family and friends, and treating group efforts seriously. Moreover, they express their determination to make significant changes in their personal and professional life in the upcoming year.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdote

    00:01:35 Welcome to the DSR Show

    00:02:00 New Year Reflections and Resolutions

    00:02:20 The Problem with Resolutions

    00:03:09 Setting Goals and Focus for the New Year

    00:03:50 The Importance of Education and Follow Through

    00:05:31 Restoration and Learning to Ask for Help

    00:07:26 Diversification in Life and Business

    00:08:57 Lightening the Family Load

    00:19:07 The Importance of Time Allocation and Family Time

    00:21:37 The Struggle with Rest and Guilt

    00:22:23 The Dangers of Hustle Culture

    00:23:10 The Importance of Self-Care

    00:24:27 The Challenge of Overextension

    00:25:02 The Art of Saying No

    00:27:22 The Importance of Asking for Help

    00:27:26 The Consequences of Ignoring Health

    00:32:07 The Journey to Better Health

    00:36:11 The Importance of Treating Your Network Right

    00:38:50 The Power of Engaging with Your Circle


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  • So Much to Shay... Shay | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 92
    Jan 16 2024

    In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jay Black and D John engage in significant, reflective discussions regarding the quotidian influences that shape their sons' characters and actions. Drawing lessons from current events, such as the Club Shay Shay interview controversy (without focusing on the actual dispute), they transition to personal parenting experiences unveiling implications of hasty conclusions and the significance of influence. Insights are shared on how teenagers' actions can lead to severe consequences while shedding light on recognizing their own influence over friends. The hosts consider the prevalence of passing quick judgments based on limited information, emphasizing the importance of hearing full stories before forming opinions.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

    00:01:16 The Dear Son Show Begins

    00:01:37 NFL Sunday, Week 18 Discussion

    00:04:43 Analyzing the Current Events

    00:05:15 The Comedian Battle Situation

    00:11:41 The Impact of Popularity Over Truth

    00:14:32 The Role of Character in Defining Truth

    00:18:26 Navigating Friendships and Character Judgments

    00:21:20 The Expectations from Family and Friends

    00:25:00 Understanding Friendships and Disagreements

    00:25:52 The Importance of Truth in Relationships

    00:26:15 The Consequences of Being 'Loud and Wrong'

    00:26:49 Recognizing the Influence of Troublemakers

    00:27:46 The Role of Parents in Guiding Their Children

    00:29:05 Reflecting on Personal Experiences and Lessons

    00:34:07 The Impact of Actions on Personal Relationships

    00:34:44 The Influence of Environment on Behavior

    00:36:14 Reflecting on Past Mistakes and Lessons

    00:39:54 The Consequences of Teenage Pregnancy

    00:44:15 Closing Thoughts and Acknowledgements



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  • The Court of Public Opinion Exposed: The Ugly Truth
    Jan 2 2024
    Enjoy the visual here: https://youtu.be/Qd_ZkSnbuwQIn this free-flowing conversation, the two hosts discuss various socio-cultural and personal topics. They delve into the complexity of navigating life, addressing their journey with personal growth, authenticity, and their experiences as fathers. They reflect on the power of ego, the influence of people around them, the role of effective communication, expectations in relationships, and the significance of self-awareness. They touch upon the repercussions of false accusations, the impact of fabricated narratives, and the societal inclination to amplify negativity. An important aspect of their discussion is on the inherent difficulty of being human, the influence of external situations, and enduring societal pressures that often skew personal values. They also encourage open, candid conversations as a tool to improve understanding of oneself and others.00:00:00 Introduction and Casual Conversation00:00:10 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Changes00:00:41 Discussing End of the Year Reflections00:00:49 Reminiscing About the Show's Evolution00:01:07 Appreciating the Journey and Acknowledging Challenges00:02:09 Sports Talk and Friendly Banter00:02:38 Official Show Introduction00:04:43 Discussing the Impact of Scandals and Controversies00:18:01 Reflecting on the Influence of Technology and AI00:24:22 Discussing Expectations and Misunderstandings in Relationships00:26:16 Desire for New Experiences and Physical Interaction00:26:43 The Game of Being the Catch00:27:16 Understanding Expectations and Communication00:28:15 The Power of Ego and Pride00:29:01 The Impact of People Around You00:30:11 Tolerance vs Acceptance00:31:21 The Importance of Genuine Conversations00:31:40 The Reality of Relationships00:32:18 The Challenge of Acceptance and Tolerance00:32:46 Re-evaluating Friendships and Relationships00:37:02 The Importance of Accountability00:46:34 Understanding Identity and Genuine Conversations00:48:46 The Importance of Growth and Progress00:53:53 Acknowledging Good Things and ProgressKey Takeaways:1.     The hosts discuss the importance of understanding one's own uniqueness and identity in the face of societal influences. They emphasize that understanding who you truly are can guide your approach to relationships, decision-making, and personal growth.2.     The conversation highlights the significance of clear, open, and truthful communication in relationships, specifically, expressing one's actual truths without fear of how the other person may react. They suggest that such communication may prevent misunderstandings and build stronger bonds.3.     The hosts stress the fact that the individuals in one's immediate environment greatly shape their identity and behavior. They argue that one's interactions and experiences with these people substantially affect how they perceive themselves and the world.4.     The hosts explore the distinction between acceptance and tolerance in interpersonal dynamics. They suggest that while tolerance can be seen as coping with or enduring something, acceptance involves a more wholehearted and genuine embrace.5.     Lastly, the conversation unpacks the idea of living a life that's in conflict with one's public presentation. The hosts warn about the potential repercussions of such a conflicting lifestyle, encouraging listeners to live authentically and harmoniously with their public image.“20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital#fallfromgrace #weallneedgrace #judgenot #courtofpublicopinion Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacFollow the show:https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcasthttps://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcasthttps://tiktok.com/podcast_popsAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. follow this podcast, 2. turn on auto-downloads,3. give this podcast a 5-star rating, 4. leave a stellar written review, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.comThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help others through telling stories of it all“Better Men. Better Fathers.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • Why Dads Need to Slow Down | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 90 #fatherhood #anxious #anxiety
    Nov 29 2023

    Sometimes you just need to slow down. In this episode, we discuss various personal experiences to emphasize the importance of slowing down in life. We got into our hectic daily schedules, balancing family and work, overcommitting to tasks, and the challenges of entrepreneurship. This conversation highlights the importance of effective communication within families and re-evaluating their priorities to maintain a healthy work-life balance.


    This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it.


    We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. 


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    #daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystem


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    3. Help others through telling stories of it all



    “Better Men. Better Fathers.”



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    39 m
  • Top 5 Lessons I’ve Learned From My Kids | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 89 #fatherhood #top5 #studentteacher
    Nov 7 2023
    This platform focuses on lessons we’ve learned as men and how we apply them to fatherhood. Sometimes we need to take a step back and identify what we’re learning from our children. We used this episode to be very intentional about giving our children their flowers. The assignment was for each of us to bring five lessons to the episode, but we didn’t compare notes. Luckily, the lists didn’t overlap… so we’re really delivering the top 10 lessons we’ve learned from our children. The episode is serious but delivered in a lighthearted manner. Laughter is good for the soul. It is amazing how much you can learn from your children when a little humility is applied. Too often the pressures of parenthood are self-inflicted. That is, we take it so seriously that we miss the beautiful moments of being present. As a father of 5, I can assure you that there is no play-by-play guide to always getting parenthood right. I have learned to renew my commitment to being better every morning. Little by little…bit by bit, I’ve noticed the growth.This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it.We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital#daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystemLatest DSN Series, The Wealth Blueprint: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-wealth-blueprint/id1714573861Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblacFollow the show:https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcastAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. follow this podcast, 2. turn on auto-downloads,3. give this podcast a 5-star rating, 4. leave a stellar written review, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.comSupport the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Johns & Co Apparel: https://johnsandcompany.coLove Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishajstudios.comOther social media: https://twitter.com/dearsonpodcasthttps://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcasthttps://tiktok.com/podcast_popsThe Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help others through telling stories of it all“Better Men. Better Fathers.”Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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  • Fatherhood Is Overwhelming | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 88 #fatherhood #pressure #overwhelmed
    Nov 3 2023

    The fatherhood journey has emotional phases. We should talk about that more. At some point, just being resilient isn’t enough. I encourage all fathers to find safe spaces to emotionally dump the toxins within. That’s what this episode was for me. If you feel a way, process that feeling. When necessary, seek professional help.  


    This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it.


    We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village. 


    “20 Life Prompts that Facilitate Effective Parenting” (eBook) - https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1


    DSN Merch Store: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital


    #daddyissues #parentingadvice #blackfathers #fatherandson #parentingtips #betterparents #vulnerable #beliefsystem


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    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



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    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma 


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help others through telling stories of it all



    “Better Men. Better Fathers.”



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    49 m