Deconstruct to Reconstruct / God wants to deconstruct some things in us so he can reconstruct a more perfect you.

Most of us if not all of us have believed in a false identity of who we think we are. Deconstruct to reconstruct allows us the ability to find our true identity, who we really are and who God really is.

Deconstruction – to break something down into its separate parts in order to understand its meaning, especially when this is different from how it was previously understood.
If this sounds harsh, please believe me, we love the church (people) and its leaders. Most leaders are doing their best to bring the gospel as they see fit. The problem is when they are not open to another view or they try to control people with their man-made rules and regulations, they have taken on a pharisaical spirit. No one can say that they know it all and have no need to learn more. That is the problem with many denominations. If you come up with a truth that God shared with you, that goes against their belief system, to remain a member, you must stop believing it or leave that denomination. That is nonsense and not of God. There is too much fear in the body of Christ of moving on with the Lord. We have been programmed to believe that God can be figured out and we are to believe what the church leaders say, regardless of what God is saying. I have heard pastors who have received a word from the Lord but were afraid to deliver it to the congregation in fear of people leaving. I say to that pastor, deliver that word without fear. God will handle the outcome.

Isa said that God is my salvation; I will trust, and not be afraid.
Reconstruct - to build or create again something that has been damaged or destroyed. Restoring, rebuilding, and repairing. to abandon earlier positions, beliefs, etc.; cause to adjust to new or current situations: to re-create in the mind.
We must have an open pliable heart before God. Let’s give him our whole heart to work with. After all, he said that if we seek him with our whole heart, we will find him.