You don’t have to walk this road alone. https://caitdonovan.com/coaching connects you with Sarah Vosen, our Director of Coaching, who’s helped countless people reclaim their energy.

What does burnout look like before it takes you all the way down? For Emily Slachetka, it showed up as constant overwhelm, unexpected tears, and the thought of leaving a job she once valued. She joined UnFried hoping for validation that her workplace was toxic. Instead, she discovered her real challenge was over-functioning.

Emily shares how she learned to separate capability from capacity, the unexpected relief of “life pruning,” and the daily practices that helped her rebuild balance - like meditation, clearer boundaries, and asking for help. She also reflects on realigning her life with core values, from choosing a home with green space to recognizing the value of rest and doing nothing.

How do you know when you’re taking on too much? What shifts when you ask for help early? And how might work feel different if more of us normalized being human? Emily’s story is a reminder that recovery doesn’t always mean dramatic change. It can begin with small, intentional choices.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction: Emily Slachetka

02:07 Emily’s Burnout Story and Joining UnFried

05:59 Toxic Workplace or Personal Overfunctioning?

08:48 Capability vs. Capacity Explained

10:05 Life Pruning and Asking for Help

15:19 Listening to the Body’s Signals

22:13 The Value of Doing Nothing

23:14 Moving States with Burnout Protection in Mind

36:24 Reigniting Passion, Purpose, and Identity Beyond Work

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait

Initial Call with Sarah

You don’t have to walk this road alone. https://caitdonovan.com/coaching connects you with Sarah Vosen, our Director of Coaching, who’s helped countless people reclaim their energy.

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Burnout isn’t the end of your story. With Sarah Vosen’s guidance, recovery becomes not just possible—but sustainable. Learn more: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching

Toxic bosses don’t only wear people down, they spark the very burnout cycles that drain whole teams. Cait Donovan talks with author and changemaker Mita Mallick about the damage bad leadership leaves behind and the toll it takes on both people and organizations. Mita shares personal stories, including her experience with a boss she nicknamed “Medusa,” whose intimidation and cruelty pushed her into anxiety and disengagement. That season of her career led to what she calls a “get out plan,” a way to take the energy of frustration and turn it into action through networking, reflection, and mapping a path forward. How do you know when it’s time to make your own plan, and what would change if you gave yourself permission to act before you hit the breaking point?

The conversation also turns to the harder truth that under pressure any of us can slip into toxic behaviors. Mita and Cait explore why leadership requires self-awareness, accountability, and vulnerability rather than surface-level fixes or quick answers. Drawing from her new book “The Devil Emails at Midnight,” Mita challenges us to rethink how we respond to unhealthy work cultures and to consider the responsibility we each carry in shaping them. What kind of workplace are you helping to build, and how might things shift if you took ownership of the way you show up every day?

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction to Fried, the Burnout Podcast

00:57 Meet Mita Mallick: Author of The Devil Emails at Midnight

02:26 Burnout Story: Surviving “Medusa” the Toxic Boss

09:09 Creating a “Get Out” Plan to Escape Burnout

17:13 Urgency Culture and Toxic Leadership Patterns

27:01 Workplace Bias, Pregnancy Penalties, and Burnout

31:37 Talent Hoarding and Betrayal at Work

38:19 Building Self-Awareness and Better Leadership

Connect with Mita Mallick:

Mita’s Website

Follow Mita on Instagram

Connect with Mita on LinkedIn

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait

Initial Call with Sarah

Burnout isn’t the end of your story. With Sarah Vosen’s guidance, recovery becomes not just possible—but sustainable. Learn more: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching

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Healing happens faster with guidance. Give yourself permission to ask for and receive help: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching.

Burnout shows up in many ways, but at its core it often signals a life out of alignment. Cait Donovan sits down with executive coach and author Jerry Colonna to explore what happens when outward success hides an inner collapse. Jerry opens up about the years he spent chasing achievement as a venture capitalist and how every new milestone left him feeling worse instead of fulfilled. What does it mean when the world applauds your accomplishments but your soul feels heavier with each step forward? And how do we begin to untangle the beliefs that keep us performing long after they’ve stopped serving us?

Jerry shares how radical self-inquiry became a way back to himself. Rather than a process of blame, it is a practice of curiosity, asking questions that cut through guilt and open space for conscious choice. He and Cait reflect on how early coping strategies like perfectionism may once have offered safety, yet can slowly erode well-being over time. They also look at the role of privilege and access in recovery, naming the tension between personal agency and systemic limits.

Jerry’s story of “Grandfather Boulder” is a reminder that listening itself can be an act of healing. Could paying attention to our own pain, to each other, to the systems around us, the beginning of change? This episode invites you to consider what alignment looks like in your own life and how the ongoing work of inquiry can open the door to both resilience and growth.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Welcoming Jerry Colonna

02:39 Jerry’s Burnout Story and Misalignment

08:03 Financial Success and the Burnout Trap

16:17 Radical Self-Inquiry as a Path to Healing

24:00 Choosing Life in the Depth of Burnout

30:06 Rewiring Beliefs and Making Conscious Choices

40:30 Personal Growth as an Act of Resistance

46:23 Grandfather Boulder and the Power of Listening

Links

Reboot: Authentic CEO Coaching and Leadership Development

Connect with Jerry Colonna:

Connect with Jerry on LinkedIn

Follow Jerry on Instagram

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait

Initial Call with Sarah

Healing happens faster with guidance. Give yourself permission to ask for and receive help: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching.

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You don’t have to carry burnout alone. The right support can help you breathe again—start here: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching

Burnout recovery gets real as Sarah Vosen sits down with an anonymous guest who feels trapped by perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the voice of an inner critic that makes self-compassion feel out of reach. In this episode, she’s trying something different for the podcast: a real-time coaching session. Her guest “Kate” describes how burnout began with constant illness and eventually knocked her flat, leaving her exhausted and uncertain about how to move forward. Years later, Kate still feels caught in a loop of trial and error, trying new practices, hoping for change, and losing faith when nothing seems to last. How do you find the courage to say no before your body forces you to? And how do you begin to quiet the inner critic that insists you’ll never get better?

Through thoughtful coaching, Sarah helps Kate see the fear of saying no for what it is: a strategy that once kept her safe but now keeps her stuck. She offers a new way to look at recovery, like a scale that can slowly tip away from self-judgment and toward self-compassion with each small act of courage. Along the way, Kate begins to see how even the tiniest pieces of evidence, moments of asking for help, choosing rest, or protecting her needs, can start to shift the balance.

This conversation opens a window into the real work of burnout recovery. It’s messy and slow, but it’s also a practice of rediscovering your voice, setting boundaries that protect your energy, and remembering that even a flicker of hope is proof that change is possible.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Real-Time Coaching on Burnout Recovery

02:26 Kate’s Burnout Journey and First Signs of Collapse

05:09 Career Uncertainty and Feeling Stuck

10:52 Battling the Inner Critic and Self-Judgment

12:38 Fear of Saying No and People-Pleasing Patterns

14:13 Rediscovering Passion for Storytelling and Audio

20:08 Hyper-Independence and the Struggle to Ask for Help

24:02 The Core Loop: Avoiding “No” to Feel Safe but Staying Stuck

33:00 The Burnout Recovery Process and the Unfried Program

43:03 Practicing Self-Compassion During Setbacks

49:41 Building Evidence for Growth and Recovery

Links

Hailey Page Magee episode

Kristin Neff episode

Your Burnt Out Brain Is Mean, And A Liar episode

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait

Initial Call with Sarah

You don’t have to carry burnout alone. The right support can help you breathe again—start here: https://caitdonovan.com/coaching.

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Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

Burnout reaches far beyond the office, touching every layer of health, purpose, and identity, and Dr. Jen Wagner joins Cait Donovan to uncover what true recovery really looks like. As Chief Health and Performance Officer at Canyon Ranch, Dr. Wagner brings both professional expertise and lived experience, sharing how her own burnout as a young physician and mother reshaped her path and deepened her commitment to helping others heal. Together, she and Cait explore why burnout isn’t just mental exhaustion but a full-body, whole-life disruption that can strip away joy, relationships, and meaning.

This episode shines a light on Canyon Ranch’s integrative model of care, where labs, glucose and cortisol monitoring, nutrition, mental health, and spiritual practices come together to give people the tools and support they need to rebuild. Recovery, they emphasize, is not an overnight solution but a 12 to 18 month journey of self-awareness, community, and purpose realignment. Along the way, they tackle the systemic pressures that push women leaders to the brink and the cultural belief that suffering through misery is a badge of honor. What emerges is a powerful reminder that joy and well-being are not luxuries but essentials, and that choosing recovery is one of the most important investments we can make in ourselves and the people we love.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Meet Dr. Jen Wagner and the Burnout Retreat

03:28 How Burnout Reshapes Body, Identity, and Purpose

04:35 Recovery vs. Prevention of Burnout

06:56 Medical Testing and Biomarkers That Matter

10:18 Integrative Care and Community at Canyon Ranch

13:53 Dr. Jen Wagner’s Personal Burnout Story

22:09 Inside the Burnout Retreat Experience

29:12 Long-Term Recovery and Ongoing Support

Connect with Dr. Jen Wagner:

Canyon Ranch

Canyon Ranch: Beat Burnout

Follow Canyon Ranch on Instagram

LinkedIn

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait

Initial Call with Sarah

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

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Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

Burnout recovery takes more than waiting for time to pass. It asks you to examine who you’ve been, who you want to be, and what kind of life will truly sustain you. In this #straightfromcait episode, Cait Donovan explores one of the questions she hears most often: how long does it take to heal from burnout?

Drawing on her own experience, client stories, and survey results from her community, Cait shares why most people need 12 to 18 months to recover, with some taking longer when deeper shifts are involved. The process can be stretched by the challenge of letting go of a “dream job,” the demands of caregiving, or the fear of stepping into unfamiliar territory. Recovery unfolds in cycles where you make a change, work through the emotions that follow, and then move into the next phase.

How do you handle the moments when your old identity no longer works? How do you adapt when your relationships change in ways you didn’t expect? This episode reveals why burnout pushes you toward a life that actually fuels you and why the journey, though demanding, is worth the effort.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 How Long Does Burnout Recovery Take

01:19 Typical Recovery Timelines and Survey Insights

02:32 Key Factors That Prolong Recovery

04:08 Caregiving Challenges and Boundary Setting

06:05 Emotional and Identity Shifts in Recovery

08:14 Why Burnout Requires a Life That Fuels You

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait: bit.ly/callcait

Initial Call with Sarah: bit.ly/callsarahv

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

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Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

Burnout can make every decision feel impossible. When you’re stuck in fear and second-guessing everything, how are you supposed to move forward in a way that actually feels right?

In this episode, Cait Donovan shares a tool she’s used for years to help people get unstuck: the “Worst Case Scenario” exercise. Instead of pushing fear aside, Cait walks you through what it looks like to write it down, face it head-on, and figure out what you’d do if the worst really did happen. What if the job burns you out all over again? What if you don’t take it and money runs out? What then?

This episode offers a different way to navigate those moments, one that makes space for fear without letting it take over. Cait also reminds us that support doesn’t have to come from big, obvious places. Sometimes it’s your local librarian. Sometimes it’s a Facebook group. There are more options than you think. If you’ve been feeling stuck and unsure what to do next, this is a place to start.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction to FRIED. The Burnout Podcast

00:00 Burnout Recovery and Cait’s Mission

01:28 The Worst Case Scenario Exercise Explained

03:35 Burnout Fear Example: Job Decision After Leave

05:01 What to Do If the Worst Happens

08:11 How to Build a Personal Safety Net

10:10 Exploring Alternate Outcomes

12:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Links

Connect with Cait:

Initial Call with Cait: bit.ly/callcait

Initial Call with Sarah: bit.ly/callsarahv

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

Burnout thrives in silence. This episode is your reminder that healing often starts with one simple but radical act: asking for help.

Sarah Vosen, Director of Coaching at Burn Bold, shares a personal #sarahshares about finding herself stuck in exhaustion despite doing everything she thought she needed to recover. As a coach and acupuncturist, she’s used to helping others untangle their burnout, but this time, she needed someone else to help her remember what works. That turning point led her back to a grounding Qigong-inspired practice called “pulling down heavens,” which uses breath, movement, and intention to bring energy back into flow. Sarah’s story is a powerful reflection on how easy it is to slip into hyper-independence and how much shifts when we let ourselves receive support. If you’ve been tired for too long, this episode is a gentle nudge toward replenishment.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why Burnout Recovery Starts with Asking for Help

01:24 The Trap of Hyper-Independence and Self-Judgment

02:06 Why Even Coaches Need Coaches

03:54 How Refusing Help Fuels Burnout

04:39 Qigong and Daily Practices That Actually Work

06:14 Pulling Down Heavens: A Burnout Recovery Ritual

10:14 How to Make the Practice Stick

11:39 When It’s Time to Ask for Support

Links

Guided meditation:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/0WGHqwQAVbZEY1qLC9XyZL?si=bf0217195beb4b2f

Links to book 1:1 calls:

bit.ly/callsarahv

bit.ly/callcait

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried]

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