What do you do when you’re hanging out with someone… and suddenly realize you have no idea if you’re on a date?
Welcome to queer dating culture—where vibes are strong, signals are subtle, and sometimes you accidentally start dating someone without either of you realizing.

In this hilarious, heartfelt episode, Goddess Brittney King and Lisset King unpack a listener question about “How do I know if this is a date?”—especially when dating women, femmes, and gender-expansive cuties.

We explore everything from the confusion of mixed signals, to the art of curiosity, to the single greatest dating tool adults rarely use: clear communication.

If you’ve ever wondered…

“Are we flirting?”
“Are they into me?”
“Is this romantic or just queer friendship intimacy?”
…this episode is basically your new survival guide.

If this conversation lights you up, tap follow, share it with someone who needs dating clarity, and leave a quick review.

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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

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What do you do when your big, vibrant, joy-filled life bumps up against someone else’s “I could never”? In this episode, we break down how to stay rooted in your truth when people react to your sequins, pink walls, late-night dancing, solo travel, or personal expansion with disbelief and limitation. This conversation was inspired by a listener voicemail asking for kind, empowering responses when people shrink themselves in front of her — and we delivered.

Using NLP principles like respecting someone’s map of the world and clean pattern interrupts like a grounded “Okay,” we show you exactly how to avoid taking on other people’s stories, projections, or scarcity. You’ll learn the difference between preference and fear, how to identify the subtle ways people try to enroll you in their smallness, and how to respond without collapsing or defending.

We also offer compassionate, possibility-inviting lines and a handful of savage Sagittarius burns for when the universe demands a boundary with glitter on it.

You’ll walk away with:

• Energy-protecting scripts
• Mindset reframes to stop taking things personally
• Clear ways to stay off duty when people want coaching you didn’t offer
• What it means to live big in a world conditioned for small
• How to become narcissist-proof, mediocrity-proof, and projection-proof in your daily life

This episode is for anyone who’s ever been judged, side-eyed, or energetically tugged downward for wanting more, dreaming bigger, or simply choosing joy. Your desires are holy. Your bigness is a blessing. And your example can inspire without over-explaining.

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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

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The word narcissist gets tossed around online, but the lived pattern is painfully consistent—a rush of praise, a sudden chill of devaluation, the shock of discard, and the too-familiar pull of hoovering.

In this deeply validating episode, we sit down with licensed therapist Lauren Flowers, author of Becoming Narcissist-Proof, to map the entire cycle of narcissistic abuse with clinical clarity and embodied compassion. This isn’t armchair diagnosis, it’s a roadmap for healing trauma, reclaiming your power, and rebuilding your nervous system after manipulation.

Lauren unpacks how love bombing, gaslighting, and emotional control operate beneath charming exteriors and what makes certain people especially vulnerable to the pattern. You’ll hear riveting real-life stories from her book (including her own) and learn how to recognize the red flags in romantic, family, and workplace relationships.

We break down manipulation as a simple equation and explore how it hides behind kindness, guilt, and ever-shifting rules. You’ll also learn to spot “proof of choice” moments and how the drama Triangle traps empathetic, high-responsibility people in toxic loops.

If you’ve ever felt the gut twist, fog, or whiplash of a narcissistic dynamic, this conversation is your map out.

Recognize the pattern. Release what was never yours to hold. Reclaim who you were before the adaptations.

🪞In This Episode

• What it really means to be “narcissist-proof”
• How to recognize the signs of manipulation and gaslighting in real time
• Why your body always knows first—and how to listen to it
• The forgiveness framework that changes everything
• How to stop attracting narcissistic dynamics and reclaim your wholeness
• A surprisingly healing perspective on why narcissists behave the way they do

📘 About the Book: Becoming Narcissist-Proof

Lauren’s book is a transformational guide that blends neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual wisdom into practical, life-changing frameworks. Through seven real-life stories and powerful somatic tools, she helps readers move through the three pillars: Recognize. Release. Reclaim.

✨ Get your copy (and the companion workbook + meditations) at narcissistproofbook.com

Use code HONEST10 for $10 off your bundle.

Lisset’s Huna Introduction

During this episode, Lisset shares how her deep forgiveness work through the Hawaiian spiritual practice of Huna and Ho‘oponopono has been one of the most powerful medicines in her life and her work.

If you’ve been curious about forgiveness on a cellular level, one that liberates you from old emotional contracts and clears the path for your next level of freedom. Lisset has a few spots left in her upcoming Huna Intro Class. Feb 21 & 22 2026

✨ Join her at LissetKing.com/Huna

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

What if the relief you’re craving isn’t years away — but one powerful decision away?

In this unforgettable episode, we feature Lisset King, an Emotional Ninja, Master Trainer of NLP, Hypnotherapist, and Huna Practitioner, in a deep and liberating conversation about what it really takes to let go.

With humor, clarity, and no fluff, Lisset unpacks how emotional baggage forms — any reaction bigger than the moment — and how it silently dictates the stories we live. From the “ant and elephant” metaphor of the conscious and unconscious mind to the universal truth that change can happen in an instant, she reveals how to dissolve anger, sadness, guilt, shame, and fear at the root so your nervous system can finally relax into safety, joy, and freedom.

You’ll hear her story of transforming pain into purpose, from treating her body like a rental to honoring it as a temple — and how she now guides others to experience rapid, graceful breakthroughs. No suffering required.

✨ In this episode, we explore:

• What emotional baggage really is (and how to know when you’re carrying it)
• The truth about why healing doesn’t have to take years
• How to rewire your beliefs using NLP, hypnotherapy, and Hawaiian energy work
• The “ant and elephant” model for aligning your conscious and unconscious mind
• How to train your brain’s Reticular Activating System to find evidence that supports your new identity
• Why treating your body like a temple changes everything

This isn’t another “work harder to heal” talk — it’s a grounded, permission-filled reminder that transformation can be swift, kind, and lasting. Whether you’ve been in therapy for years, have tried every retreat and medicine, or are simply ready for your next level of expansion, this episode gives you the language, tools, and proof that freedom is closer than you think.

🎧 Tune in now and share this episode with a friend who’s ready to drop the rope, release the struggle, and build a future their body can trust.

💫 Resources & Links Mentioned

• 🎧 Listen to the original interview on Creating You! Podcast: Creating You! on Apple Podcasts
• Book a Breakthrough Session with Lisset King: Ready to release your emotional baggage and experience lasting freedom? Mention Honest Feedback and receive $500 off your breakthrough session → lissetking.com
  
  
• Join Mastery Mornings: A free community for high-vibe growth, accountability, and transformation → masterymornings.myflodesk.com/join
  
  
• Experience The Goddess Experience Retreat: January 26–30, 2026 in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico — luxury, ritual, and rebirth await → goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

What if the parts of you you’ve been hiding are actually holding the keys to your aliveness?

In this raw, deeply human episode, we sit down with Jana Sinyor and Angela Ai, founders of the Metamorphosis Core Energetics Institute
, to explore what happens when you stop trying to fix yourself—and start feeling everything.

Core Energetics is an embodied, truth-centered path that welcomes every part of you: your rage, your jealousy, your fear, even your sexual fantasies. These two incredible women guide people to bring what’s been hiding in the shadows into the light, so the energy that’s been stuck can finally move.

We talk about:
✨ How sexual fantasy often reveals unmet childhood needs—not something “wrong” with you.
✨ Why suppressed anger and shame disconnect us from our pleasure and power.
✨ The alchemy that happens when we allow our bodies to lead.
✨ What it really means to express yourself fully—especially in love, parenting, and leadership.
✨ And how real, embodied presence turns conflict into connection.

Lisset and I also share how attending their Sexual Fantasy Workshop cracked something wide open for both of us—how allowing rage and truth to move through our bodies actually deepened our love and reignited our intimacy in ways we never expected.

If you’ve ever been afraid of your own emotions or curious about shadow work, this conversation is your invitation to step closer. Because the truth is… what you’ve been avoiding might just be the portal to your power.

🌹 Connect with Jana & Angela:
Metamorphosis Core Energetics Institute

Instagram: @angelai | @janasinyor

🔥 Your Invitation to Passion Ignited

If your soul has been whispering “I want more…” more pleasure, more presence, more you, this is your sign.

Join me and my sister in magick, Jess Alfaqih, for Passion Ignited, a one-day retreat on November 8th, 2025, just outside Portland.
We’re gathering on sacred land for a day that’s part ritual, part activation, and pure feminine fire. Think sensual movement, pleasure magick, sacred ceremony, and high-vibration food that nourishes your whole being.

Come to remember what it feels like to be fully alive in your body. To feel turned on by your own existence. To meet yourself, and other women, in truth, laughter, softness, and fire.

✨ Investment: just $111 (yes, really).
✨ Space: intentionally intimate — when it’s full, it’s full.
✨ RSVP: Claim your spot here.

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

Have you ever been sideswiped by life circumstances that left you thinking, “WTF is happening?” Those moments when everything seems to be falling apart might actually be the universe’s way of setting you up for something greater.

In this raw and deeply resonant episode, we dive into how to navigate those disorienting life transitions when nothing makes sense and you’re questioning everything. Drawing from our own experiences with car accidents, family losses, and career upheavals, we share how these apparent catastrophes ultimately redirected us toward more authentic and fulfilling paths.

The magic happens when we stop fighting against what’s falling apart. As Brittney learned during her production days, “Let it fall apart, it’s going to be better.” This counterintuitive wisdom applies to all areas of life—relationships ending, jobs disappearing, plans disintegrating—because what replaces them is almost always an upgrade.

In this conversation, you’ll learn how to:
✨ Give yourself permission to fully feel (yes, even spin out—but with a timer!)
✨ Slow down, pause, and discern what’s actually in your control
✨ Consciously choose to trust the process and let upgrades unfold
✨ Build resiliency that not only carries you forward but allows you to support others through their challenges

Remember: you’ve survived 100% of your difficult days so far. This one is no different. What if instead of asking “Why is this happening to me?” you asked “How is this happening for me?” Your crown might feel crooked right now, but you are divine, capable, and exactly where you need to be.

👉 Ready for your own upgrade?
Join us January 26–30, 2026, in Puerto Vallarta for The Goddess Experience, a luxury retreat for women who are done settling and ready to rise. This is where you stop just surviving WTF moments and start embodying your throne.

Over five days, you’ll be nourished with high-vibration meals, guided through deep release work and sensual embodiment, and surrounded by a powerful sisterhood. This isn’t just a getaway—it’s an initiation into the woman you know you’re meant to be.

Spaces are limited, and the portal is open now. If your body lights up reading this, trust it. Say yes to the version of you who always upgrades.

Go to www.goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess to apply

Join us every week as we explore real stories, actionable advice, and deep truths to support your journey of self-discovery and growth. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Honest Feedback wherever you get your podcasts!

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

What do you do when you’re craving intimacy, but your partner isn’t on the same page? How do you express desire without guilt or pressure — and still get your needs met?

In this episode of Honest Feedback, we answer a tender listener question from a husband trying to navigate a season of mismatched intimacy with his wife. With humor, honesty, and lived experience, we unpack the deeper dynamics of sexual disconnection and offer real, tangible ways to reconnect with your partner and yourself.

Brittney and Lisset share their own journey through mismatched libido, healing sexual trauma, and redefining what intimacy actually means in a long-term relationship. We talk about sex beyond penetration, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, creating rituals of curiosity, and the power of pleasure-centered communication. Plus, shoutouts to books (Come As You Are & Come Together), mentors (hi Libido Fairy), and the truth that sex is supposed to be fun.

Whether you’re the one with higher desire or the one feeling pressure, this episode is here to help you navigate the conversation with love, honesty, and a whole lot of laughter.

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve ever felt the sting of sexual rejection (or feared giving it)
• You want more intimacy but don’t know how to ask
• You’re ready to expand what sex can look like in a long-term relationship
• You’re craving new tools, perspective, and permission to talk about it

Resources Mentioned:

• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
• Come Together by Emily Nagoski
• Libido Fairy (Hannah Decker – @libidofairy)

Sponsor Shoutout:
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Join us every week as we explore real stories, actionable advice, and deep truths to support your journey of self-discovery and growth. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Honest Feedback wherever you get your podcasts!

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

What happens when the life you've carefully built no longer resonates with your soul?

In this deeply moving episode of Honest Feedback, we sit down with medicine woman and retreat facilitator Dayana Mendoza (@dayanamendoza.us), who shares her extraordinary journey from trauma to transformation. Born during the Pablo Escobar era in Colombia and raised amid violence and loss, Dayana was working as a butcher by the age of 12. She immigrated to the U.S. at 17, eventually building a life that looked like success on paper: career at Apple, marriage, children, but felt empty inside.

"I was surrounded with so many people… and I felt so lonely," she says.

We talk about the courage it takes to step away from the familiar, the heartbreak of outgrowing relationships, and the sacred process of re-remembering who you are. Dayana walks us through the threshold moment that changed everything, when she left her job, her marriage, and her social circles to walk the unknown path of healing. Through the wisdom of plant medicine—especially ayahuasca—Dayana reconnected to her purpose and ancestral roots. What followed was a complete rebirth.

This episode is a powerful transmission on:

• What true transformation really looks like
• Healing beyond talk therapy and into the body
• The difference between processing and actual change
• Walking away from what no longer resonates, even when it looks “perfect”
• The power of trusting the unknown (especially when it makes no sense)

Dayana's story will stir something deep inside you. Whether you're navigating a rock bottom or feeling the pull toward your next level, this is your reminder that healing isn’t a destination—it’s a decision to honor what your soul already knows.

Connect with Dayana Mendoza
Instagram: @dayanamendoza.us
Website: www.spiritroute.co
Explore her sacred retreats, including an upcoming Egypt Retreat on 11/11.

This episode is sponsored by The Goddess Experience
A luxury 5-day retreat in Puerto Vallarta for women ready to break free from the life that looks good on paper—but feels hollow in the heart. If you’re craving connection, clarity, and confidence to walk your next path, this is for you.
→ Apply now www.goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess
This is an intimate experience for 9 women, as of this recording there are only 4 open spaces. Early bird pricing is available until Sept 2025.

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube