Episodios

  • The 5-Day Dawdle, Day 1: Let’s Slow it Down a Bit EP: 557

    The 5-Day Dawdle, Day 1: Let’s Slow it Down a Bit EP: 557
    Oct 18 2021
    This week on the podcast I’m doing things a little differently, and trying to create some space for us all to slow down a little bit, catch our breath, and refill our wells a bit. I’m calling it the Five-Day Dawdle--as in, five days of doing the definition of dawdling, which is to move slowly . Every day this week I’ll give you one easy thing you can do with whatever you’ve got, wherever you are, to slow the heck down and make space for replenishment.
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    6 m
  • A Tactic to Feel Better About the Big Decisions That Feel Like They’re Taking Too Long EP: 556

    A Tactic to Feel Better About the Big Decisions That Feel Like They’re Taking Too Long EP: 556
    Oct 15 2021
    There are many big, capital-D decisions that can take a really long time to figure out. Things like, should you move, change jobs, break up, have kids, or anything that feels like it’s going to change your life. These big decisions require taking your time, being patient, and thinking things through. But it’s really hard to be on the verge of figuring out what to do next. So how do you find some peace during the decision-making process?
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    5 m
  • How to Make Decisions Quickly: Decide When You’ll Decide EP: 555

    How to Make Decisions Quickly: Decide When You’ll Decide EP: 555
    Oct 14 2021
    One way to avoid overthinking or ignoring some of the things that you need to decide is to give yourself a deadline. In other words, some times you need to decide WHEN you’re going to decide.
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    5 m
  • How to Stop Overthinking Everything EP: 554

    How to Stop Overthinking Everything EP: 554
    Oct 13 2021
    Because you are listening to a podcast called How to be a Better Person, you give a shit, about a lot of things, including making good choices. And that desire, while beautiful, can also be a slippery slope into overthinking. I mean, we’ve all been there, right? That’s why I’m excited to be interviewing Melody Wilding, a licensed social worker, an executive coach and author of Trust Yourself: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work.
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    15 m
  • Choose Love: Making Decisions from the Heart EP: 553

    Choose Love: Making Decisions from the Heart EP: 553
    Oct 12 2021
    One of the reasons why decisions can be so taxing is that we’re over-relying on our brains to make them. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for making pro and con lists and doing research and mulling things over, but your brain isn’t the only game in town. There’s also your heart, which is all about love. It sees possibility and seeks expansion and understands things like truth and beauty--all things that the rational mind is kind of unimpressed with. I've got an exercise that will help you.
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    7 m
  • How to Use Intuition in Decision-Making EP: 552

    How to Use Intuition in Decision-Making EP: 552
    Oct 11 2021
    Most of us know the basics of decision-making--name the problem, list the options, weigh the pros and cons of each, and choose the best one. But sometimes, the straightforward, tried and true approach just doesn’t work. Especially now in the Covid era, when there are so many added decisions we’ve needed to make that often feel like impossible choices.For some decisions, you need a way to cut through the noise, give your rational, thinking mind a break, and check in with your gut, aka your intuition.
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    8 m
  • Being a Better Person Online: Get a Grip on Your Screentime EP: 551

    Being a Better Person Online: Get a Grip on Your Screentime EP: 551
    Oct 8 2021
    OK the pandemic did NOT help us have a healthy relationship to screens. Not that all screen time is bad, but... we could all pretty much use a check in on how much time we spend starting at a screen.
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    9 m
  • Are You Meaner Online Than in Real Life? EP: 550

    Are You Meaner Online Than in Real Life? EP: 550
    Oct 7 2021
    There’s a scientific term for the phenomenon of acting differently online than you do in real life, it’s called the internet disinhibition effect. So if you get fired up and leave snarky comments or bad reviews, you're living out a scientific principle!!
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    7 m