Today’s episode is for anyone starting to lose hope in ‘the one.’ Maybe you feel like time is running out, and you’re tempted to just pick someone who is good enough and make it work. If all relationships take work, how do you know if you’re investing in the right person as opposed to settling with someone who isn’t meeting your deepest needs for a fulfilling love?

And what even is ‘the One’ anyway? It feels so undefinable, like an unrealistic fantasy leftover from all those Disney movies we grew up on.

But what if ‘the one’ wasn’t a singular human fated to ‘make you happy’? What if, instead, it’s about finding the one type of person who can meet your deepest needs for a fulfilling relationship? 

Today mental & physical health coaches Katie and Jaime Filer help us understand how to get clear on our desires so we can resonate with ‘the one’ we’ve been waiting for. You’ll hear the heartwarming story about how Jaime went from being engaged in a hetero relationship to eventually meeting her current wife, Katie. 

They explain what it looks and feels like when you’ve actually found your person. Plus, how to know if you’re settling. They each came with their own imperfections, including alcoholism, depression, and poor anger management. Yet, underneath it all, they were still a perfect match in terms of meeting each other's deeper needs. In other words, ‘the one’ might not look like the prince or princess you’re expecting. Turns out, to recognize them, you’ve got to get clear on what you’re looking for.

Theirs is a story we need to hear again and again. It’s a welcome reminder that our happily ever afters are ours to create through intentional awareness. By the end of this episode, your faith in 'the One' will be restored, and not because of empty optimism. When you take responsibility for the people who have access to you and live a life in alignment with your values, you’ll open up space for the one type of person you’ve been waiting for.

 🎤🎬 Queer Love & Dating On-Demand Summit

Hear Jaime & Katie diver deeper into how to find “the One” in their talk in the Queer Love & Dating Summit.

Go from single and stressing to happily partnered with this on-demand virtual event! Attract your person faster with a little help from some expert coaches and speakers from the Queer Community! Sign up for access to over 8 hours of trainings and bonus downloadable valued over $700!  

Register now: https://www.mettadatestudio.com/queer-love-dating

🏳️‍🌈 Connect with Katie & Jaime Filer 🏳️‍🌈

https://www.instagram.com/jaim91/

https://www.instagram.com/_katiefiler/

Jaime Filer is a published fitness model, motivational speaker, and mental / physical health coach. She has a degree in Kinesiology, and has been an online personal trainer for over 17 years with thousands of transformations under her belt. She specializes in helping women overcome overwhelm, reduce anxiety, and increase their confidence through fitness and nutrition.

❤️ Did you enjoy this episode? ❤️ Please subscribe, rate, and review so we can get even bigger and better guests to help us all find the sexy, fulfilling love we deeply deserve. 

💃 About Your Host 

Lauren is a speaker, author of "The Mindful Dating Journal: Find a Healthy Love that Lasts," and creator of the free MettaDate Journal mobile app. She combines her personal success dating story with her professional mindfulness training to help singles ditch the dating struggle and claim the loving relationship they deeply deserve.