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  • Jan 18 2023
  • Duración: 1 h y 19 m
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    While deployed to Kuwait, Jerry Dugan wrote to his family the “in case I die” letter. His whole hard life had led to this moment. You will see the wonderful way the Lord protected him, changed him and his family, and how he was able to come home. He is truly an honorable man, but one who wasn’t always proud of his family name.

    At 14, in his mind, his family name stood for trouble, heartbreak, bullying, racial microaggressions and brokenness. He had already been through so much in his young life. Jerry shares with us the life-changing prayers and loving God that lead him to a new family honor, and helped him to change the generational patterns that informed his childhood.

    Jeremiah 1:5-"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations."

    Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3CTvYYb

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    Topics Shared:
    Biracial childhood
    Tiger Mom
    Performance-based acceptance
    Performance-based affection
    Top Gun style bet to break up his parents
    Heart-breaking divorce
    The Army brushed a lot of things under the carpet
    Suicide ideations and suicide attempts
    Intervention
    Loving foster home
    Bullied by uncles in Ca.
    His gentle father flips the switch to military policeman with army training
    A turning point
    Deployment to Kuwait, 1/'03-3/'03
    Writing the 'in case I die' letter
    War homecoming and seeing his kids for the first time

    Quotes:
    "When you are 7 or 8 years old and the amount of affection you are getting from your mom, the kind of attention you get from your mom is solely based on your performance in an activity, that sets a weird expectation."
    "In the movies they always have that 'in case I die' letter they hand to their buddy to hand off, but I was so convinced I was going to die, that I wrote my letter. I disguised the wording just enough so it didn't freak my wife out when she read it, but it was there. Everything I wanted to say to her was in that letter. I folded it, and I mailed it that night. It was one last mail run before we crossed the border."
    "We as a church can do better, back off the condemnation, and demonstrate more of the Jesus who hung out with prostitutes and tax collectors and treated them with dignity, treated them with respect because he honored their dignity."

    References:
    Beyond the Rut Website & Podcast:
    https://beyondtherut.com/
    https://therealjerrydugan.com/
    Jerry Dugan's Ted Talk:
    http://therealjerrydugan.com/category/biblical-marriage/
    Marriage Episode with Meg Glesener:
    https://beyondtherut.com/meg-glesener-healthy-marriage-btr-236/
    The Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    & Website: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
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    For more inspiring stories: https://lettersfromhomepodcast.com/
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