We're diving into some real talk about God, sex, and intimacy today! So, here’s the deal: many of us have picked up some pretty wild misconceptions about these topics that can leave us feeling all kinds of confused and ashamed. After 33 years of marriage and plenty of spiritual growth, we're here to share some eye-opening truths that will help clear the fog. We’re tackling three big lies that often trip people up in their faith and relationships, plus we’ll sprinkle in a bonus tip to boost that intimacy! If you’ve ever felt torn or unsure about what God really says about love and connection, you’re in the right spot. Let’s get into it!

It's wild how many of us have been fed some not-so-great ideas about God, sex, and intimacy over the years. You know, stuff that really just drives a wedge between us and our partners, and even between us and God. After sprinting through 33 years of marriage and navigating some serious ups and downs, we’ve realized there’s a tight knot of confusion and shame wrapped around these topics thanks to some sketchy teachings. So, we're here to gently unravel three major myths that too many Christians have swallowed whole about sex and emotional connection. We're gonna dive into what the scriptures actually say about intimacy, because let's face it—there’s a lot of noise out there that can mess with your head. And yeah, we’ve even got a bonus tip at the end to help you ramp up that intimacy! If you’ve ever felt like you’re wading through muddy waters when it comes to intimacy, don’t worry—you’re in the right place. Let’s jump in and set the record straight!

Takeaways:

• Many of us have been taught misconceptions about God, sex, and intimacy that create distance.
• After 33 years of marriage, we've realized bad teachings cause a lot of confusion and shame.
• We’re unpacking three big lies Christians believe about sex and emotional closeness today.
• The truth is that sex reflects covenant love, not just physical pleasure or shame.
• Desiring intimacy with your spouse is not sinful; it’s part of God’s good creation.
• God is not distant; He cares deeply about our emotional closeness and desires intimacy.

Links referenced in this episode:

• inspiringmarriages.net
• email: inspiringmarriages@att.net

Compatibility is the biggest lie about marriage, and we’re ready to bust that myth wide open! Join us, Jeff and Teresa Fields, as we dig into our 33-year journey and share the truth: it’s not about finding someone who ticks all your boxes. Spoiler alert: if you think you need to be perfectly matched to have a happy marriage, you’re in for a surprise! We’ll dive into five common misconceptions that keep couples stuck and how embracing differences can actually lead to a deeper connection. So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s uncover how faith, love, and a bit of grace can transform your relationship!

The biggest myth floating around in the marriage world? Compatibility! Yeah, we’re here to spill the beans on why that’s one of the biggest lies. So, grab your coffee and get comfy as we dive into the nitty-gritty of marriage. We’re Jeff and Teresa, your go-to duo with 33 years of marital wisdom under our belts. We’ve got three awesome kids and a grandbaby who’s just the cherry on top of our family sundae. Today, we’re breaking down the idea that you need to be perfectly compatible with your partner to have a successful marriage. Spoiler alert: it’s not true! We’ll share our journey and how our differences have sharpened us, just like good ol’ Proverbs 27:17 says. It’s not about finding the right match; it’s about growing together, overcoming challenges, and learning to love each other through thick and thin. So, whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned pros, stick with us for five lies that might be holding your marriage back and how to shift your perspective for a stronger bond. Let’s get this party started!

Takeaways:

• Marriage isn't about finding the perfect match; it's about growing together through love and grace.
• The compatibility myth is a major lie; differences can actually strengthen your relationship.
• Conflict is normal in marriage, and it's how you handle it that truly matters.
• True compatibility is cultivated and requires effort, patience, and the right attitudes.
• You can't expect your spouse to fulfill all your emotional needs; only God can complete you.
• A healthy marriage thrives on commitment, not just chemistry; faithfulness keeps you united.

Links referenced in this episode:

• inspiringmarriages.net

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Chuck and Barb Snyder
• Inspiring Marriages

Incompatibility: Grounds for a Great

Marriage!: Chuck. Snyder: 9780945564027: Amazon.com: Books



Ready to spice things up in your marriage? We’re diving into five game-changing truths that every Christian couple needs to keep the love alive and kicking! First off, staying curious about each other is key—because who wants to be bored, right? Then, we’re talking about scheduling those regular date nights because, let’s face it, life gets busy and we need some fun time together! Plus, we’ll chat about the importance of never stopping the pursuit of each other—because romance shouldn’t just be a one-time deal. Communication is also on the list; daily chats are where the magic happens. And finally, we’ll explore love languages, because knowing how your partner best feels loved can totally transform your connection. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s get all cozy and chatty about making those marriages thrive!

Curiosity in marriage is like a secret sauce that keeps the love simmering. If you've ever thought you knew everything about your spouse, think again! Jeff and Teresa dive into the first game-changing truth: stay curious. They remind us that even after 33 years of marriage, there's still so much to learn about each other. Asking questions, sharing dreams, and discussing plans can breathe life into any long-term relationship. They emphasize the importance of scheduling regular date nights because let's be real—marriage needs a little fun and intentionality. Date nights aren’t just about getting dressed up; it’s about reconnecting and letting your spouse know they matter. They also touch on the idea of never stopping the pursuit. Just because the wedding bells have rung doesn’t mean the chasing should stop! Keeping the spark alive takes effort, and they share some hilarious anecdotes about how to keep that love alive with words, affection, and thoughtful gestures. Communication is another key ingredient—they advocate for daily, purposeful conversations to foster intimacy and prevent resentment from creeping in. Lastly, they explore love languages, and how understanding your spouse’s unique way of feeling loved can transform your connection. It’s all about knowing how to love your partner in the way they need most. So grab your spouse, tune in, and get ready to take those notes!

Takeaways:

• Staying curious about each other is key to keeping the spark alive in marriage.
• Regular date nights are essential for nurturing your bond and connection as a couple.
• Never stop pursuing each other; keep that romantic flame burning bright, just like in the early days.
• Intentional daily communication helps deepen your connection and understanding of each other.
• Understanding your spouse's love language can transform how you express love and affection in your marriage.
• Investing in your marriage with fun activities and deeper conversations leads to a happier, more fulfilling relationship.

Links referenced in this episode:

• inspiringmarriages.net
• 5lovelanguages.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Inspiring Marriages
• Stronger Marriages
• 5lovelanguages.com