You can’t be what you can’t see and for most of us (for better or worse) our only parental role models will be the people that raised us. So are we destined to raise our children in the same way that our parents raised us? And if you want to parent differently…how can you unlearn the way you were brought up?

Lael Stone is a speaker, educator and author who helps adults understand the imprints we learned in childhood that shape how we understand the world and how we parent.

In this conversation Steph and Lael speak about parenting acting as a mirror to your own experiences, the importance of having enough support to parent in the way you want, and Lael offers words of encouragement to any parent thinking they’re not doing a good enough job.

FIND OUT MORE

Check out Lael’s website https://laelstone.com.au/
Watch Lael’s TEDx Talk https://www.ted.com/talks/lael_stone_how_to_raise_emotionally_intelligent_children
Read Lael’s book ‘Raising Resilient and Compassionate Children: A Parenting Guide to Understanding Behaviour, Feelings and Relationships’ https://www.booktopia.com.au/raising-resilient-and-compassionate-children-marion-rose/book/9780645551532.html

FOLLOW US

KICPOD @kicpod on Instagram
Lael Stone @laelstone on Instagram
Steph Claire Smith @stephclairesmith on Instagram, @steph_claire_smith on TikTok
Join our virtual mothers' group in the the KICBUMP Facebook group. Search 'KICBUMP Community'
Kic @kic.app on Instagram, @kic on TikTok and kicapp.com

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week it’s Laura’s turn to be thrown under the bus! We searched far and wide for someone in Laura’s life who could tell an embarrassing story about her and this week we finally got one - her oldest friend Bec, who shared a story of the time Laura revealed what she household item she used to get…intimate with.

Plus we listened to an episode of Shameless talking about the trend of influencers quitting full time content creation and we want to share our own perspectives.

The Shameless episode was ‘The 9-5 is officially in’ https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-9-5-is-officially-in/id1352875216?i=1000657129181

SPECIAL SHARES

• Steph: Chessie King on the podcast ‘Should I Delete That?’ https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/chessie-king-i-chose-to-save-my-marriage/id1602088590?i=1000658389572
• Laura: Arthur The King on Amazon Prime https://www.primevideo.com/dp/amzn1.dv.gti.377e3b69-c44f-43ee-b0a8-dcb54eec1a31?

Kic UPDATE

Our mid-year sale ends tonight! It’s your last chance to save up to 40% and unlock everything Kic has to offer from just $1.90/week. Sign up here https://kicapp.com/midyear/

FOLLOW US

KICPOD @kicpod on Instagram
Join our closed KICPOD Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/630561419185145/
Steph Claire Smith @stephclairesmith on Instagram & @steph_claire_smith on TikTok
Laura Henshaw @laura.henshaw on Instagram & @laura.henshaw on Tiktok
Kic @kic.app on Instagram & @kic on TikTok and kicapp.com or download the app from the App Store and Google Play Store

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sal & Al met in their office kitchen, fell in friendship love, and six months later they had matching tattoos. In the 7 years that have followed, they’ve gone through romantic and friendship break ups, work, travel, starting a podcast, building a business and writing a book together, so they’re pretty much experts on friendship at this point.

One of the most common questions we get from you is how to make friends as an adult, so we asked Sal & Al how they do it. How do you take a friendship from the office to the real world? How long do you need to hold on to a high school friendship for? And how do you approach a conversation with a friend without it turning into a conflict?

If you’ve never listened to Two Broke Chicks before we recommend you start with the episode ‘23+ Life Lessons From 2023’ https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/23-life-lessons-from-2023/id1587075307?i=1000638476125

Sal & Al have written a book! It’s Finding Your People: The Ultimate Guide to Friendship https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Alexandra-Hourigan-and-Sally-McMullen-Finding-Your-People-9781761470424

FOLLOW US

KICPOD @kicpod on Instagram
Join our closed KICPOD Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/630561419185145/
Steph Claire Smith @stephclairesmith on Instagram & @steph_claire_smith on TikTok
Laura Henshaw @laura.henshaw on Instagram & @laura.henshaw on Tiktok
Two Broke Chicks @twobrokechicks on Instagram
Al @alexhourigan on Instagram
Sal @sllymcmlln on Instagram
Kic @kic.app on Instagram & @kic on TikTok and kicapp.com or download the app from the App Store and Google Play Store

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.