We should be motivated beyond personal interests and aspire to enlightenment for the benefit of all sentient beings. Wisdom is crucial to discern the best ways to help others. Self-cherishing and wrong views are the root of suffering; cultivating the correct view can lead to positive changes in our thoughts and actions.

Recognizing the interdependence of those involved in end-of-life situations is essential. Communication within families is vital to address responsibilities and roles that may change as a loved one nears the end. Respect for the beliefs and values of the dying person is crucial, focusing on their truth, courage, and positive aspects.

Reminiscing can be helpful, setting positive propensities for future lives. Physical touch, when appropriate, conveys comfort and love, even when speech is no longer possible. Three common issues arise when facing illness and death: reflecting on harm caused, love given, and letting go. Supporting and validating the dying person is essential, helping them release regrets and remember the love they've given and received.

Following a person's death, we should avoid harm, generate love and compassion, perform kind actions, and dedicate positive energy to their mind, aiding their journey and comforting grieving families. The state of mind at death impacts the experience; meditating on qualities like loving-kindness can guide the consciousness positively.

When a loved one passes, Lama Zopa Rinpoche advises against dwelling in sadness and encourages beneficial actions honoring the deceased's memory, such as acts of kindness or charity. Making offerings and dedications can help the deceased beyond death. Constructing holy objects like stupas, temples, and statues can purify negative karma and plant seeds of enlightenment for those who encounter them.

Happiness arises from the mind; purifying and accumulating merit leads to happiness and peace. Virtuous thoughts and actions are essential for positive results, benefiting both this life and future lives. Reciting mantras and prayers for healing and purification benefits others, especially those in pain. Lojong, the practice of taking on others' suffering, develops the mind, accumulates vast merit, and leads to the cessation of suffering.

Rinpoche shares stories of miraculous healings through external blessings. Not all sicknesses can be miraculously cured, as some are related to karmic imprints that need to be experienced. However, it is important to practice compassion and offer blessings to those who are suffering, as these actions accumulate merit and create positive energy in the world.

Rinpoche explains the existence of white and black devas and their influence on individuals' lives. Strong faith in Buddha, Dharma, Sangha, and good samaya vows can protect against harm by spirits. He shares an anecdote about spirits disrupting a retreatant's meditation, highlighting the importance of faith in protection.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18-May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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When used at the time of death, light offerings are believed to prevent spirits from entering and possessing the corpse. Before making light offerings, it is important to generate the motivation of bodhichitta, thinking that the purpose of one's life is to free all sentient beings from suffering and bring them to enlightenment. Each light offered accumulates limitless merit by visualizing the root guru and reciting the appropriate mantras.

Rinpoche emphasizes the importance of Dharma wisdom in guiding one's life and the lives of others. Lack of this wisdom can lead to wrong decisions and non-virtuous actions, causing suffering and confusion. Rinpoche suggests introducing special education sessions in schools to cultivate a good heart, tolerance, and awakened minds, promoting positive relationships, happiness, and friendship.

He proposes the establishment of "Loving Kindness Peaceful Youth," an organization focused on universal education to guide young people by incorporating ethical and moral values in schools. Universal education, such as the Maitreya Project's universal education school in Bodhgaya, emphasizes teaching respect and kindness through behavior, speech, and actions. By practicing respect towards others, especially parents and holy beings, one accumulates powerful positive karma and experiences happiness in this life and future lives.

Wisdom is important in discerning between right and wrong and pursuing practices that lead to liberation and happiness. By eliminating ignorance and developing wisdom, individuals can achieve liberation from suffering and attain enlightenment. By cultivating wisdom, individuals will always be in the light, even while in samsara, and will experience great wealth and favorable rebirths.

We should take every opportunity in everyday life to collect merit. By remembering the impermanence of life and the certainty of death, we learn to abandon negative actions and practice virtue. Even in daily conversations, one should speak with the intention of benefiting others. Making offerings before eating and drinking, with bodhichitta, allows one to accumulate limitless merit.

Lama Zopa Rinpoche also discusses various aspects related to death, signs indicating the departure of consciousness from the body and the importance of correctly determining whether consciousness has left the body. He recommends reading books on death and dying as a valuable practice.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18 to May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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While reciting and explaining Pabongka Rinpoche's ‘Heart-Spoon’, Lama Zopa Rinpoche discusses the importance of reflecting on impermanence and death. Neglecting to contemplate these realities deprives our lives of meaning. Even though many of us have encountered Buddhadharma for a long time, we lack an understanding of foundational concepts and fail to achieve realizations in our spiritual practice.

Dharma protects us from suffering by preventing the creation of negative thoughts and actions. Rinpoche emphasizes the significance of guru devotion as a safeguard against harmful emotions and obstacles on the path to enlightenment. By contemplating impermanence and death, negative emotions are curtailed, bravery is instilled, and our actions can transform into virtuous ones.

Recognizing impermanence and death awakens the need for a path that leads to the cessation of suffering and its causes. Rinpoche describes this contemplation as Buddha's psychology, a means to understand our lives, overcome suffering, and actualize the path to enlightenment. Realizing impermanence and death is a means of freeing ourselves from negative emotions and suffering. Practising Dharma protects us from impure appearances and concepts, cultivates a pure mind, and prepares the mind for the realization of the three kayas and the achievement of merit.

Buddhism aims to achieve freedom from suffering in its entirety and emphasizes the need to develop renunciation for the entire scope of samsara. Rinpoche discusses the connection between calm abiding meditation, total renunciation, emptiness, and bodhichitta on the path to liberation and enlightenment.

Lama Zopa Rinpoche underscores the uncertainty and impermanence of life and advises against delaying the practice of Dharma. He encourages us to integrate Dharma practice into all aspects of our lives and transform every moment into an opportunity for progress on the path.

Rinpoche discusses the three principal paths of renunciation, bodhichitta, and right view, as well as the importance of guru devotion. He explains that the ultimate aim of these teachings is to make life meaningful and benefit oneself and all sentient beings.

Lama Zopa Rinpoche also reviews the mantras of the Twenty-one Taras. They each have their own activities for the benefit of sentient beings. Choose whichever Tara suits your needs and chant her mantra accordingly. The Twenty-one Taras are here to help us overcome obstacles and fulfil our wishes.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18-May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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Lama Zopa Rinpoche discusses a book about the traditional Tibetan procedures for handling death. The book covers various aspects such as what to do at the time of death, how to transfer consciousness to a pure land, making offerings to lamas, and conducting astrological rituals. It also outlines the procedures for taking the body out, making offerings to monasteries, and caring for the deceased during the first few weeks and up to the 49th day. Even if someone is unable to recite prayers during their final moments, others can recite on their behalf while they meditate. It is important to not develop attachment during death to avoid the negative consequences of attachment, such as experiencing suffering in the hell realm.

A lam-rim text serves as protection as it embodies the wisdom of Manjushri and encompasses all the teachings of Buddha. Any teaching of Lama Tsongkhapa is considered Manjushri's teaching and having the Lam Rim Chenmo text next to a person during their death eliminates the need for powa, a practice of transferring consciousness. Keeping the text in one's room, using it for daily practice, or placing it on the altar can also be beneficial in the moment of death.

Rinpoche suggests avoiding having enemies or individuals to whom one is strongly attached to be present at the time of death, as their presence can disturb the dying person's mind. Maintaining a peaceful and virtuous state of mind during the dying process is important, as it determines the quality of one's next rebirth.

It is the responsibility of those around the dying person to create a supportive environment and help generate virtuous thoughts. It is important to die with virtuous thoughts, compassion and concern for others who are also facing death. Cultivating a wish to free all sentient beings from the suffering of death can help make the process of dying meaningful and beneficial for oneself and others.

We need to adapt the teachings according to the person's understanding and background. Individuals who have different religious beliefs or are non-believers can focus on developing compassion, loving-kindness, or devotion to a higher power such as God, while imbuing the qualities of the Buddha within that concept.

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This human life is rare and valuable, more precious than any material possessions. Wasting this life without Dharma practice is the greatest loss we can experience. Even a moment spent without engaging in Dharma practice is a greater loss than losing all the wealth in the world or wish-granting jewels.

Delusion, such as attachment, obscures our perception of reality and prevents us from recognizing the empty nature of phenomena. When we look at our own body with attachment, it obscures our ability to see its impurities. Similarly, attachment obscures our understanding of impermanence and prevents us from recognizing the empty nature of phenomena. Ignorance obscures our minds from seeing the truth, and delusions prevent us from recognizing the impermanent and unsatisfactory nature of things.

Fear of death can be overcome by letting go of attachments and purifying negative karma. A happy death depends on everyday life and our ability to practice patience and control anger. By living in vows and precepts, we create less negative karma and protect ourselves from ongoing suffering.

The most important aspect of preparing for death is cultivating a good heart and the sincere intention to benefit others. When this motivation is present, purification happens naturally, and the fear of death diminishes.

Meditating on emptiness does not mean simply observing space or ordinary emptiness. Meditation should go beyond the conventional truth and focus on the emptiness of inherent or true existence. When one realizes emptiness, it can be similar to the appearance of nihilism, where there is a sense of losing oneself and fear may arise.

Fear arises because of our strong belief in a truly existent self, which has been ingrained in us since beginningless rebirths. The fear indicates that the meditation is heading in the right direction. Falling into actual nihilism does not generate fear because it does not harm the object of ignorance, the truly existent self. The I does not become nonexistent. The aggregates and consciousness continue to exist, even after realizing emptiness.

From this point, one should develop one-pointed concentration and continue daily sessions to stabilize the concentration in emptiness. This leads to the renunciation of samsara and progress on the path towards wisdom, directly perceiving emptiness, and eventually ceasing the defilements through bodhichitta.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18 to May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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Without the kindness of sentient beings, we cannot achieve realizations or practice the Dharma. Lama Zopa Rinpoche emphasizes the significance of respecting and valuing sentient beings, just as one respects and values the Buddha. One accumulates immeasurable merit by cultivating bodhicitta and offering charity with deep respect.

True poverty lies in the lack of understanding of Dharma and realization, and inner poverty, characterized by a lack of satisfaction and contentment, is even more detrimental. Helping sentient beings, regardless of their external circumstances, offers the most valuable assistance. Buddhas and bodhisattvas cherish sentient beings above all else, regardless of their negative qualities or actions. Therefore, even small acts of kindness, such as offering praise or making someone happy, become offerings to the enlightened beings.

Rinpoche describes the signs of death, including distant signs like recurring dreams related to death, and near signs indicating that death is approaching. There are specific practices to counteract these signs, such as taking long-life initiations, doing long-life retreats, and saving the lives of animals. It is important to create positive causes for enlightenment, accepting death peacefully and preparing the mind for a favourable rebirth.

We should not wait until the time of death to practice renunciation and letting go. Instead, we should practice daily to overcome attachment. By training the mind to let go and develop renunciation, one becomes well-prepared to face death and its challenges. Bodhichitta and the altruistic mind of enlightenment enable us to experience death for the benefit of all sentient beings. With bodhicitta, one can transform the experience of death into a cause for others' happiness and one's enlightenment.

By describing a beautiful and enjoyable place like a pure land, it becomes easier for the dying person to let go of attachments to the present world and transition peacefully. The name of the pure land becomes an important object of refuge, and by generating a strong wish to be born in that pure land, it can direct the person's consciousness toward that destination. Some people may relate the idea of heaven to the deva realm, and by mentioning a specific name and describing the enjoyment it offers, a strong wish can direct the consciousness there.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18 to May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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Lama Zopa Rinpoche talks about the lack of formal education on dying in Western society and the need for a broader cultural understanding of assisting the dying. Everyone will encounter death and should learn how to offer support, regardless of whether they are a family member, friend, or even an enemy.

There are several essential practices for preparing for death, including devotion to a virtuous friend or guru, purifying mistakes and broken commitments, and cultivating the five powers in daily life, particularly bodhichitta and selflessness. A strong foundation of renunciation and bodhichitta is necessary in order for the tantric method of transferring consciousness to the pure land (powa) to be effective at the time of death. Merely knowing the technique is not enough if these foundational qualities are lacking.

The outcome of one's death depends on factors like guru devotion and spiritual progress. However, even non-religious individuals can achieve a positive and peaceful death through a sincere, ethical life filled with compassion. Rinpoche explains that fear and worry at the time of death are caused by negative states of mind. Cultivating a positive and virtuous mind allows even non-believers to face death peacefully.

The qualities that enable individuals to have profound deaths are not their intellect but their daily practice, unwavering devotion to their gurus, good samaya (pure spiritual commitments), and pure hearts that led to their remarkable transitions.

Rinpoche shares several stories illustrating the results of killing and stealing. The presence of insects and animals eating crops is a result of negative karma related to stealing. By killing them, one may temporarily eliminate the current individuals causing damage, but the underlying karmic cause remains, leading to new beings appearing and continuing the cycle. Therefore, the problem persists unless the negative karma is purified.

In one instance, a lama advised a person to make a party for mice, providing them with plenty of food. After the party, the mice left. By giving to the mice, the person may have settled a karmic debt, causing the mice to no longer disturb their house.

By purifying negative karma and living in moral restraint, one can attain the four results of happiness: a favourable rebirth, enjoyment without danger or sickness, the opportunity to continue practicing morality in future lives, and the accumulation of positive karma leading to happiness throughout lifetimes.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18-May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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The purpose of our life is not just to accumulate wealth or power. These pursuits alone cannot bring true satisfaction or happiness. In fact, the more we chase after material wealth without a good heart, the more we experience inner misery and dissatisfaction. Power, without the intention to benefit others, can be dangerous and lead to harm for oneself and others.

Fame and reputation also do not fulfil the purpose of human life. Despite achieving fame, many individuals experience unhappiness and even resort to suicide. This shows that fame alone does not bring inner peace and happiness. The lack of spiritual practice and inner development can leave our hearts empty and unfulfilled, leading to a sad and empty life.

Even if one possesses extensive knowledge of Buddhist scriptures and commentaries, it is meaningless without a genuine intention to benefit others. Education alone does not bring about inner transformation or positive change. Without practice and a compassionate heart, life remains empty, and the mind remains unchanged or even worse than before.

On the other hand, someone with a good heart, even if they have limited intellectual understanding, can experience peace, happiness, and love for others. With a good heart, all external wealth, power, and education can be used to benefit sentient beings and bring them happiness. Fame and reputation can be used as a means to inspire and encourage others on the path of spiritual practice and benefit.

Blocked by negative karma and defilements, one cannot experience the teachings as they are meant to be understood. Without continuous purification and a genuine connection between the teachings and one's heart, intellectual understanding alone does not lead to experiential transformation.

Dedication is also essential as it safeguards the merits we have accumulated through our practice. It is important to meditate and deeply contemplate while reciting dedications, rather than merely reciting words. We should dedicate the merits to spreading the Dharma throughout the world and within our own hearts.

If the mind is unhappy and depressed, it can lead to physical deterioration and a shorter life. By viewing one's own suffering as representative of the suffering of all sentient beings and voluntarily taking it upon oneself, one can cultivate the mindset of a bodhisattva. The main aim of life is to benefit sentient beings, rather than seeking personal comfort, health, praise, or reputation.

This teaching was given at Institut Vajra Yogini, France as part of a Four Kadampa Deities Retreat from April 18-May 11, 2003. You can see all the teachings from this retreat here:

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