In this episode of "The Lost Boy Scouts," Tyler and Danny explore the importance of living in the present and how practicing gratitude can significantly enhance mental well-being. As they share their journeys and experiences, they explore the struggles many men face with depression and anxiety, often rooted in dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. This episode offers insights into how embracing the present moment and cultivating a daily gratitude practice can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Show Notes:

0:14 - 1:26:

• Reflections on how consistent training and support from the jiu-jitsu community have led to significant transformations in their lives.

1:27 - 2:30:

• It is important to compliment each other and acknowledge each other's progress, especially for men who might not often hear positive affirmations.

2:31 - 3:53:

• Tyler talks about his journey with emotional eating and the realization of using food to cope with mental and emotional states.

3:54 - 5:13:

• The role of food in mental health and how the need for a dopamine hit can lead to unhealthy eating habits.

5:14 - 7:16:

• Danny shares a personal story about a disappointing food experience and the realization of first-world problems in the context of men's mental health.

7:17 - 9:14:

• Discussing men's mental health awareness and the struggles men face with societal expectations and the facade of being "tough."

9:15 - 12:04:

• The duo delves into the harmful effects of the alpha male persona and the importance of humility and kindness in redefining masculinity.

12:05 - 14:02:

• Tyler talks about working through the 10-step program and how it has helped him address destructive thinking patterns.

14:03 - 15:45:

• Insights into the significance of self-exploration and understanding the root causes of personal struggles.

15:46 - 18:27:

• The concept of gratitude is fundamental in overcoming past traumas and finding peace in the present.

18:28 - 20:32:

• How depression and anxiety are often linked to dwelling on the past or fearing the future, and the importance of focusing on the present moment.

20:33 - 22:10:

• Danny and Tyler discuss their battles with depression and the steps they've taken to reframe their perspectives.

22:11 - 24:37:

• It is essential to surround oneself with supportive, honest friends who challenge and uplift each other.

24:38 - 26:22:

• Tyler shares a heartwarming update about a participant from their men's ascent course and its positive impact on his life.

26:23 - 28:50:

• The challenges and benefits of maintaining a gratitude practice, especially during tough times like losing a loved one.

28:51 - 30:55:

• The importance of living a rich life consists of meaningful relationships and experiences rather than material wealth.

30:56 - 33:02:

• Reflections on the upcoming Father's Day and how societal expectations shape how men experience and express their role as fathers.

33:03 - 35:00:

• Upcoming events and plans for the podcast, including live streaming and future discussion topics.

Notes

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