Creating a realistic and relatable main character is crucial for a good romance novel. This involves giving them a history, their own journey, a job, relationships with others, physical flaws, strength, failure, sexuality, and the spotlight. These elements help readers understand and bond with the main character, making the story more engaging and resonant.

Takeaways

• A main character's history, beliefs, and actions should be influenced by their past experiences.
• Main characters should have their own journey and not solely exist to fall in love with the love interest.
• Giving main characters a job helps build their sense of self and adds depth to their story.
• Main characters' relationships with others can illuminate their lives and provide support and growth.
• Physical flaws make main characters more realistic and relatable.
• Strength should be tempered with vulnerability to create a well-rounded main character.
• Failure is relatable and can lead to character growth and redemption.
• Sexuality is an important aspect of a romance novel's main character.
• The main character should be at the center of the story and constantly involved in the plot.
• Creating a realistic and relatable main character is essential for reader engagement and resonance.

Do you feel stuck in a rut with your writing? Do you struggle to even sit down to write? Does the blank page seem to loom over you like a cloud, leaving you feeling overwhelmed, uninspired, and heading for Netflix?

Don’t worry, you’re not alone!

Many writers experience this same struggle (me included). Whether you’re working on a novel or just trying to write an article, finding the motivation to get started—or keep going—can be difficult. Fortunately, there are a few strategies that can help keep your writing motivation high.

In this episode, I’ll be talking to author and teacher Elisabeth Sharp McKetta.

Elisabeth is the author of 13 books, including “She Never Told Me About the Ocean," "Ark," and "Edit Your Life: A Handbook for Living with Intention in a Messy World.”

We’ll delve into the importance of creativity, mental health, and the practice of writing, but Elisabeth also shares her experiences living in a tiny house with her family, emphasising how the simplicity and minimalism of small spaces can enhance focus and creativity.

Elisabeth provides insights into her writing process, the importance that therapeutic first drafts, and the joy of discovering deeper connections and themes.

And this episode highlights the importance of editing one's life to make room for creativity, the value of indulgence in writing practices, and the significance of understanding one's personal connection to their work.

Elisabeth's wisdom and experiences offer valuable lessons for writers and creatives looking for more time for their craft.

And if you’d like to know more, Elisabeth also delivered the TEDxBoise talk “Edit Your Life Like a Poem,” further showcasing her expertise and passion for intentional living and creativity.

Elisabeth's Website: https://elisabethsharpmcketta.com/

Elisabeth's TEDxBoise Talk: https://youtu.be/-ZXHIrZMeCQ?si=dnWkEmZWVrkl7sv3