In this episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!", co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into Lauren's harrowing tale of her ex-boyfriend, Jason, who later referred to himself as Mr. Sexual. The story takes a dark turn when Jason reveals his hidden kinks much later in their relationship and forces Lauren to participate against her will. But that’s not all — Lauren's experience goes beyond just the unveiling of Jason’s secrets.

Join Behk and LAH as they explore the complexities of manipulation, the impact of coerced consent, and the red flags that often go unnoticed until it's too late. This episode sheds light on the dark side of relationships and the importance of recognizing and standing against toxic behavior.

We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.

Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

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Hosts: Behk & LAH

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In this episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into the harrowing tale of Kate and her ex-boyfriend, Justin. Kate opens up about her relationship with Justin, who secretly spiraled into meth addiction without her knowledge. As his addiction worsened, bizarre and unsettling events unfolded, leaving Kate in a state of confusion and fear. Join us as we unravel Kate's story, exploring the impact of addiction on relationships and the strange twists that accompanied Justin's descent. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that highlights the importance of awareness and self-care in the face of unexpected challenges.

Tune in for an intense and emotional journey through the complexities of love, trust, and the dark side of addiction.

Content Warning: This episode discusses drug addiction and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

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If you feel like you or anyone you know is showing signs of drug abuse or addiction please call the American Addiction Center at 877-768-9614 or sign up for confidential and free 24/7/365 text support through the website.

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In this heartfelt kid-friendly episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH bring a unique and touching perspective to the table as LAH dives into a special conversation with Behk's 11-year-old daughter. Through her youthful eyes, she shares her insights on toxic relationships, drawing from stories of her schoolmates and the memorable 5th-grade dance where many of her friends ended up crying over boys.

Topics Discussed:

• Behk & LAH banter
• Meet Behk’s Daughter
• Strangers Online
• What healthy relationships look like
• Consent
• Gaslighting
• Bullies
• Equality
• Boundaries
• Red Flags
• Importance of communicating
• Kind celebrities
• 5th Grade Dance Drama
• Appropriate dating age

With a mix of enthusiasm and wisdom, Behk's daughter shines a light on the importance of focusing on fun and friendship rather than the drama of boyfriends and girlfriends at such a young age. Her candid reflections and positive message remind kids to enjoy their childhood and not let relationship woes overshadow the joy of events like school dances.

Tune in for an episode filled with laughter, genuine moments, and valuable lessons from a child's perspective on navigating the complexities of growing up and toxic relationships.

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In this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with their friend, Charlie, who found herself in a web of toxic friendships and in a marriage with a woman growing in the opposite direction. Married in their twenties, our protagonist and her spouse began to drift apart as the pressures of maintaining a certain lifestyle mounted. Surrounded by a friend group that could be cast in a real-life "Mean Girls" saga, she struggled to meet her partner’s ever-growing demands, all while never receiving the basic love and affection she so desperately needed.

Topics Discussed:

• Meet Charlie
• Young Love
• Lifestyle Pressures
• Mean Girl Friendships
• Importance of Self-Worth & Authenticity
• Healing and Growing toward a Better Future

Join Behk and LAH as they explore the emotional turmoil of trying to please everyone in a world where mean girls reign supreme. They’ll discuss the impact of toxic friendships on romantic relationships and the heartbreaking journey of seeking validation and love from someone who can’t or won’t provide it. This episode sheds light on the difficult balance between external pressures and internal desires, and the painful reality of love lost in a mean girl haze.

Tune in for a raw and relatable discussion that underscores the importance of self-worth and the courage to break free from toxic ties to heal and grow positively.

We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.

Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, infidelity, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

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In this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk, LAH dives deep into the emotional roller coaster, financial problems, and sexual trauma that marked her married years. She shares the highs and lows, the moments of hope and despair, and the ongoing struggle to break free from a toxic cycle. Join LAH and Behk as they navigate the complexities of surviving and healing from such profound challenges.

Topics Discussed:

• LGBTQ+ marriage
• Toxic family dynamics
• Couples finances
• Sexual coercion
• LAH's healing journey

Join LAH and Behk as they explore the complexities of codependency and the impact of childhood trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with similar issues or looking to understand the dynamics of toxic relationships better.

We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.

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Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, drug addiction, child neglect, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

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In this episode (1 of 2), co-host LAH sits down with her co-host, Behk, to share a deeply personal story. LAH opens up about her childhood trauma and how it shaped her adult relationships. She briefly delves into her childhood, recounting experiences that led her into an 8-year codependent and toxic relationship with an addict.

Topics Discussed:

• Disclaimer of all disclaimers
• Who is LAH?
• LAH’s childhood
• LAH’s first long-term relationship
• Cocaine blues

Join LAH and Behk as they explore the complexities of codependency and the impact of childhood trauma. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with similar issues or looking to understand the dynamics of toxic relationships better.

We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or descriptive details are included.

Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, drug addiction, child neglect, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.

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In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH welcome the incomparable Dyson, also known by her stage name, Trinity Monroe. A two-time title-holding drag queen, Dyson joins us in the studio to share his remarkable journey through the world of drag performance.

Topics Discussed:

• How Behk celebrates Pride Month with LGBTQ+ friends
• Where do we find Soul Minor’s Daughter music?
• Renaissance Fair and spittin’ fairies
• The younger DRAG generation
• Keeping old-school DRAG alive
• History of DRAG and William Shakespeare
• The bad rap DRAG gets from some “straight” folk
• The effects of having to grow up masking who you are
• Losing family and friends to AIDS
• Why do some parents not accept their gay kids?
• About Trinity Monroe
• Remembering Bianca Paige
• Message from Dyson

From starting out in the vibrant yet challenging drag scene of 1980s Nashville to rising as a celebrated performer, Dyson’s story is one of resilience and passion. He opens up about his experiences with the elder gays who paved the way, the profound loss of friends and lovers to AIDS, and the transformative power of performing drag.

Join us for an intimate conversation that dives deep into the highs and lows of a drag performer's life, the evolving landscape of the LGBTQ+ community, and the enduring spirit of those who perform in the face of adversity.

Tune in for a tribute to the art of drag, the memories of those we've lost, and the enduring fight for acceptance and equality.

Don’t miss this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! – it’s one you’ll carry with you long after the final curtain call.

Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, AIDS, child molestation, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

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In this episode, Behk and LAH welcome a dear friend from their early twenties, John, to share his compelling and raw story from an LGBTQ+ perspective. Join us as John opens up about his tumultuous journey through a toxic relationship with a successful and influential partner who helped open doors for him in the theater world.

Topics Discussed:

• Behk runs into a fan adjacent in the wild
• Meet Behk’s bestie, John
• A lesbian, a gay guy, and a witch walk into a bar
• John talks about his toxic relationship with “the greatest showman”
• Understanding the narc is a conundrum
• Starting over
• The Stephen Baldwin Story

While navigating the complexities of a power dynamic that often left him feeling overshadowed, John balanced his own ambitious endeavors—running for office and launching a non-profit in Africa. At the peak of his game, instead of receiving support, John faced manipulation and betrayal. His narcissistic partner employed various tactics to steal the spotlight and even cheated on him, adding layers of emotional turmoil to an already challenging situation.

Naturally woven into the conversation, the trio’s ADHD veers them off into a series of fun topics and wild stories from their youth, reminiscing about the carefree days and the adventures they shared.

Tune in for a heartfelt and candid discussion blends introspection with nostalgia, and eye-opening insights, shedding light on the complexities of love and friendship.

Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.

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Hosts: Behk & LAH

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Music: No Reason Why by Anchor

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