Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Dr. Sheri explains how the process of healing after trauma can feel like a lobster in the ocean—protected by a thick shell we develop after being hurt.
2. I lost my husband in February after he suffered for years following a car accident, and I’m struggling to cope with grief.
3. Should I consider surgery for ongoing issues with my eyes? I’ve had surgery before, but it didn’t improve my vision.
4. I have ADHD and have been taking Lexapro and Adderall, which used to work well for me. But now, I feel disconnected from God’s voice. Do I need to adjust my medication?

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Becky discusses “Spy Wednesday” when Judas sold out Jesus for 30 pieces of silver. We have betrayed Jesus by going our own way. During Holy Week, let us dismantle everything that isn’t about eternal things.
2. My husband of 39 years left me and gave me the responsibility of selling our home. How do I deal with the anger and resentment?
3. I was put out of the house due to aggression toward my 17-year-old stepdaughter and was charged. Is there any way to reconcile my marriage?
4. I’m 20 and have a child with a woman who also has a child with another man. I’ve tolerated a lot of disrespect—how do I set healthier boundaries?

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Becky discusses the Garden of Gethsemane and how Christ knew the suffering that was ahead of Him. In this world, you will face struggles. But as Christ prayed for the cup of suffering to be taken from Him, He said, “Not my will, but yours be done.”
2. If pastors made themselves more vulnerable, would it help with church attendance? I brought someone to church, and he felt uncomfortable.
3. I don’t fly anymore because I was on a plane that almost crashed. But my daughter moved 1,200 miles away and is upset with me for not coming to see her, along with other issues from the past.
4. How do I know if Jesus has taken me through a healing process from trauma, or if I’m becoming depressed? I’ve been in therapy for a long time dealing with PTSD from my parents and am a new believer.

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Dr. Jill asks the question: How do we do end of life well? In the last few years, Dr. Jill has experienced close friends and family members who have passed away or are on the verge of passing away. She’s seen how there’s avoidance until you can no longer avoid. What then? You have to lean in and show up. When people finally face what’s happening, God shows up.
2. My husband confessed that female coworkers have been flirting with him, and it hurts me that he didn’t tell me sooner. It reminds me of what happened 15 years ago when he was unfaithful. How do I move on?
3. I know my sister is lying to me; should I cut off my relationship with her?
4. How can I support my girlfriend who has OCD in the healthiest ways?

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Becky challenges us with an important question: What work do you need to do on your own journey? You can’t control how others perceive you or the choices they make, but you can take responsibility for your own healing and growth.
2. My life is a mess because of my gambling addiction. I’ve lost everything, and the only person I could talk to about it committed suicide this week. What should I do now?
3. My dad recently passed away, and I discovered my sister had been taking money from him. I feel completely lost and don’t know where God is in all of this. How do I move forward?

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Alice shares the story of a woman that she’s counseling who had an abortion when she was a teen and had to learn how to forgive her family. God wants you to move to forgiveness; it will set you free from bitterness and resentment.
2. Are we to forgive everyone or just other believers? I struggle to forgive myself for the abortions I’ve had and other things.
3. How do I mend things with my 35-year-old daughter? She said she’s going to take a break from us.
4. I’m 60 and was kicked out of nursing school because of my anxiety; I was able to go to another school and graduate. What can I do if anxiety makes it hard for me to work?
5. How much should I intervene with my 22-year-old cousin? She’s lived with me since she was 10yo, but she’s now pregnant and living with her boyfriend.
6. I’m married and don’t have any kids yet, but I believe that children are an inheritance from the Lord (Ps. 127:3-4). Is my faith lacking if I use IVF?

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Dr. Alice shares a story about a high school cheerleader who became pregnant and had to leave school. Many teen girls and boys facing an unplanned pregnancy consider abortion and feel they can’t talk to their parents or church for support.
2. I lost my beautiful 14-year-old daughter to a fentanyl overdose five years ago and regret selling my family estate years ago. How do I live with regret?
3. I’m a minister. Is it wise to introduce people to the Holy Spirit and ask them if they’ve talked to the Holy Spirit?
4. Brian tells of a man with alcohol and sex addiction whose pastor discouraged therapy. Should pastors advise against counseling?

Caller Questions & Discussion:

1. Chris shares a powerful insight on anger and fear—two challenging emotions addressed in the Bible. Reflecting on James 1:19, we’re reminded to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.
2. How do I navigate life after being divorced for 3 years? I was gaslit, and it still haunts me.
3. I filed a restraining order against my husband and am disabled; where do I go from here? My friend said I shouldn’t get back into work too soon.
4. How do I deal with my older brother in an inheritance dispute after my mom died? He feels it’s fair to hold back money from me.
5. I was looking at sexually explicit material 15 years ago, but I’ve stopped. Do I have to follow through with everything my wife says I need to do to avoid divorce?
6. How can I support my sister and my 32-year-old nephew on the autism spectrum? He has a job and is very outgoing but cannot drive and wants to go to New York City by himself.