Most of us think we’re high performers because we get things done.

We solve problems. We chase answers. We check the boxes.

But what if the thing holding you back isn’t the hard stuff?What if it’s the easy stuff you keep avoiding?

In this episode, Adam and Lon kick off 2026 with a candid, unfiltered conversation about avoidance, self-sabotage, and the surprising anxiety that shows up when you’re avoiding what should be the most energizing part of your life.

Lon shares a personal realization he hasn’t talked about publicly before: how avoiding the easy things, not the hard ones, created anxiety and capped his growth, even while everything looked “successful” on the outside. And why finally naming that pattern changed everything.

This conversation isn’t about productivity.It’s about self-work.The kind you can’t delegate.The kind that’s embarrassing to admit.The kind that unlocks what’s next.

IN THIS EPISODE:

--Why avoiding the easy things is often more dangerous than avoiding the hard ones

--The two types of avoidance and how to tell which one is costing you

--How self-awareness without acceptance becomes self-sabotage

--Why elite performers struggle to ask for help even when they need it most

--The four-step path: awareness → acknowledgment → acceptance → permission

--How avoidance quietly becomes the ceiling on your life and work

--How Lon now measures progress not by success, but by anxiety reductionKEY TAKEAWAYS:

->Avoidance is a limiter. Wherever you avoid, that’s your ceiling.

->If something is giving you anxiety, it’s asking to be addressed, not ignored.

->Self-work is internal work. Lists won’t fix what you’re avoiding.

->You don’t get to be two people. The strength and the struggle come together.

->Asking for help isn’t weakness - it’s leadership.

WHAT’S NEXT:

If this episode stirred something in you, that’s not an accident.

You’re probably avoiding something you already know you need to face.A conversation.A decision.A truth about yourself.

You don’t have to do it alone.

If you want to go deeper:

1. Join the Insider — a community built on “never alone”

2. Book a free Ramble

3. Read The Trade

4. Subscribe to The Inevitable

You can find it all here: https://linktr.ee/lon.stroschein

Follow Adam Eaton here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-eaton-21646a4/

Most people don’t avoid change because they’re afraid of action.They avoid it because they’re afraid of the questions.

The ones that surface late at night.The ones you don’t ask at work.The ones you don’t bring home.The ones that quietly shape your future whether you acknowledge them or not.

This week’s episode of the Normal 40 Podcast is different by design.

It’s a live Q&A recorded inside The Speakeasy — a private, unlisted LinkedIn community where high performers show up to ask the questions they can’t safely ask anywhere else.

What emerged wasn’t advice.It wasn’t a plan.It was a pattern.

Every question landed in one of four buckets we all face eventually:1. Purpose.2. Risk.3. Relationships.4. Legacy.

Questions like:

* “I like my job… but I know I’m capable of more. Now what?”

* “How do I speak up when honesty feels professionally dangerous?”

* “I’m successful on paper. Why doesn’t it feel like my best work?”

* “How do I finish well?”

This episode isn’t about quitting your job.It’s about finding your voice before you need to.

We talk about why most “risk” is really just uncertainty, how clarity actually forms (hint: not through thinking harder), and why community is a must-have if you want your next chapter to work.

If you feel like you’re standing at a line you can see, and feel, but haven’t crossed yet, this conversation will land.

🎧 Listen to Episode #80:The Questions That Change Everything: Purpose, Risk, Relationships, and Legacy[Podcast link]

And if you want access to the room where these conversations happen live:

👉 Join The Speakeasy here: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/12553961/

Your life can look very different in a year.But only if you start.

—Lon

The first time Keith Pochick joined this podcast, he had just walked away from medicine and into a classroom full of eighth graders. His story hit home because it was raw; a man in mid-leap, hoping he wasn’t crazy for wanting a simpler, more joyful, more human life.

Two years later, Keith sits down with Lon to talk about what life actually feels like on the other side of his trade. And what he describes is something most high achievers haven’t felt in years: ease, presence, and the spark he now calls the soul tickle — that unmistakable, physical sensation of doing work that touches your life at the deepest level.

Keith also shares the story behind his new book, Tickled Soul, and why he felt compelled, almost obligated, to write it. What started as a legacy gift for his children became something much bigger: a declaration of what he believes, who he is, and how he hopes others will rediscover the parts of themselves they’ve forgotten.

This episode is an honest look at what it means to start over, stay the course, and finally feel like yourself again.

What to Expect

-Why Keith walked away from medicine and why he hasn’t looked back

-What it really feels like on the other side of a big life trade

-How burnout quietly rewrites your identity

-What middle school students taught him that medical training never could

-The spiritual experience behind Tickled Soul—and the legacy it creates

-The unexpected freedom of being fully present again

Key Takeaways:

-->The Trade only looks reckless to people who’ve ignored their own restlessness.

-->Money can’t buy meaning, but presence can.

-->You don’t have to be burned out to want something better.

-->Legacy is what people will remember when your voice is no longer in the room.

-->If you want to live differently, you have to slow down long enough to feel what’s missing.

📘 About the Book: Tickled Soul

In his debut book, Keith shares a thoughtful memoir about what happens when the life you built no longer feels like the life you’re meant to keep. What begins as a quiet “what if” becomes a full‑scale reinvention—from seasoned ER physician to middle‑school science teacher.

Through stories of faith, purpose, motivation, and meaning, Keith explores the beliefs and inner philosophy that made such a radical midlife transition not only possible, but necessary.

It’s a wake‑up call for anyone sitting in the status quo, wondering if there’s more to life than the role they’ve been playing.

Order the book directly from the publisher here:

Tickled Soul (hardcover)

Tickled Soul (softcover)

What’s Next?

If you’re feeling the restlessness Keith once felt, that quiet knowing that your current life isn’t your forever life, this episode is your invitation to stop ignoring it.

If this episode speaks to you, this is an invitation to join the growing Normal 40 community to connect with like-minded individuals. Whether through a free Ramble, Lon's Insider group, or his bestselling book 'The Trade,' this episode is your call to action to start designing your next chapter.

Find it all right here: https://linktr.ee/lon.stroschein

Learn more about Keith Pochick here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kpochick/