Medication decisions are some of the hardest choices autism parents ever face — and they’re rarely simple.

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon Urquiola takes a deep, honest dive into medication and autism, sharing both professional insight and decades of lived experience.

This episode covers:

• Why medication does not treat autism — but may help treat co-existing challenges like anxiety, impulsivity, sleep issues, and emotional dysregulation

• The emotional weight of deciding whether to medicate (and why there is no one “right” answer)

• Common medications used, what they’re often prescribed for, and why responses vary so widely

• Real-life experiences with side effects, dosage changes, tics, weight gain, and setbacks

• Why data matters — and how tracking behaviors can prevent all-or-nothing thinking

• Personal stories from Shannon’s journey with Jordan, including what helped, what didn’t, and what changed over time

This episode is compassionate, real, and judgment-free — because medication decisions are family decisions, and shame has no place here.

If this episode resonated with you and you’re feeling emotionally worn down, stuck in survival mode, or unsure how to move forward with confidence, I want to personally invite you to my RESET Workshop on January 31st.

This live workshop is designed to help you pause, reset your nervous system, reconnect with yourself, and learn how to navigate hard decisions without guilt or overwhelm. It’s intentionally priced at $14.95 to make support accessible — and it’s included at no charge for Not Your Average Autism Mom members.
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How do you teach stranger danger to autistic kids — without creating fear?

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, Shannon Urquiola dives into a topic so many parents worry about but rarely feel confident navigating. Inspired by a question from a follower, Valencia Shannon, this episode explores what “stranger danger” really looks like for autistic children and why traditional advice often falls short.

Shannon walks you through:

• Why autistic kids experience safety, fear, and impulse control differently
• How to teach safe vs. unsafe situations instead of relying on fear-based messaging
• Real life scenarios you can practice with your child in public, at school and online
• The very real dangers of online gaming, social platforms and sextortion
• Why supervision and monitoring are not about control — they're about protection

Shannon also shares personal stories about her son Jordan, including why, at 29, safety planning and supervision are still necessary due to impulse control and lack of fear — and how meeting your child where they are is not failure, it’s love.

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This episode is compassionate, practical, and honest — because teaching safety doesn’t have to come from fear. It comes from preparation.

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217. Your Words Matter: Raising Resilient Kids

110. Have You Ever Secretly Hated Autism?

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, host Shannon Urquiola wraps up 2025 with a powerful conversation about what it really means to find your people when you’re raising an autistic child.

Inspired by a request from a NYAAM member, Shannon shares real stories from her own journey with Jordan and Maddie and talks about why surface-level friendships aren’t enough in this life. This episode dives into vulnerability, honesty, and the willingness it takes to be seen — and why trying to do it all alone often leads to isolation and burnout.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why “I’m fine” friendships don’t hold up in autism parenting

• How hiding behind a façade keeps you lonely, even when you’re surrounded by people

• What it looks like to step out of your comfort zone and ask for help

• How sharing your story helps other moms feel less alone — and helps you find your people

• Why this journey was never meant to be carried alone

This is the final episode of 2025. Shannon will be back every Thursday in 2026, starting with episode 252 on January 8th.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or alone in this journey, this episode will remind you that your people are out there — and you don’t have to stop searching.

📺 Now available on video too! Watch on this podcast page or Spotify, or listen as always—whichever way you tune in, we’re just glad you’re here.

Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey with us! Together, we are stronger.

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⁠⁠158. Navigating Hygiene Struggles; Path to Cleanliness

In this milestone 250th episode, Shannon sits down for one of the most honest, heartfelt conversations she’s ever had on the podcast — a conversation she wishes someone could have had with her 20 years ago.

If you’ve ever wondered whether things will get better…
If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing…

If you’ve ever questioned your strength, your patience, or your progress… This episode is for you.

Shannon shares the real truth about how this journey changes over time — not because autism goes away, but because you grow, your child grows, and the lessons you learn along the way slowly reshape everything.

Inside, she talks about:

• why your motherhood was never meant to look like anyone else’s

• what actually gets easier (and what doesn’t)

• how to stop bracing for every meltdown

• the moment she realized she didn’t have to join Jordan’s storm

• celebrating the small wins that become the big wins

• and how to stop carrying this journey alone

You’ll hear a brand-new story from Shannon’s week — a story of growth, family dinner, dysregulation, humor, and a moment that would have shattered the entire night years ago but didn’t… because time and lessons really do change things.

Whether you’re on Episode 1 or Episode 250, you belong here.
This episode will help you breathe a little deeper, judge yourself a little less, and remember that you are doing better than you think.

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⁠⁠⁠218. Planning for the Unplanned; A Legacy of Care⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠137. Explaining our Children’s Differences⁠

— A Holiday Pep Talk

If you’ve ever dreaded the question “What does he want for Christmas?” this episode is for you.
In Episode 249 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon sits down for a heartfelt, honest conversation about gift-giving when your autistic child doesn’t like toys, doesn’t care about unwrapping presents, or doesn’t connect with gifts the way the world expects.

In this episode, Shannon shares:— Why your child isn’t “missing out”— Why practical gifts absolutely count— The freedom in skipping wrapping paper— How to talk to grandparents, aunts, uncles, and siblings— Real-life scenarios you’ll face—and how to handle them— How to release the guilt and drop the pressure to have a “typical” holiday— What embracing YOUR version of Christmas can look and feel like

If the holidays bring up stress, comparison, or worry that you’re “doing it wrong,” this episode will bring relief and perspective. Your family’s Christmas gets to look the way you need it to—and yes, Mama, that is more than enough.

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⁠⁠129. Getting a Grip on Escalating Behaviors⁠⁠

⁠⁠124. What to Do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, host Shannon Urquiola continues her holiday series with a conversation every autism parent needs before the real chaos hits—what to do after you completely lose your lane.

Because no matter how hard you work on staying calm, holding boundaries, and choosing your lane… there will still be moments where you snap, shut down, or say somethingyou regret. Especially during the holidays.

Shannon also shares a behind-the-scenes update on writing her book and how revisiting the hardest moments of this journey has been both healing and really, really hard.

If even one idea from this episode helps you walk into the holidays with a little more grace for yourself and less pressure to “get it right,” that’s a win.

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⁠133. Beyond Helicopter Parenting, Fostering Independence

212. When Progress Pauses; Regression 101

This week, we’re continuing our holiday series with a conversation that every autism mom needs this time of year — learning how to stay in your lane when everything around you feels like chaos.

In this episode, Shannon shares real-life holiday scenarios that trigger overwhelm — the change in school routines, sensory overload, family expectations, and well-meaning relatives who just don’t get it — and walks you through practical ways to protect your peace and let go of what was never yours to control.

You’ll learn how to:

This season isn’t about doing it all — it’s about knowing what’s yours to hold and what you can release.
You’ll walk away with more peace, confidence, and clarity to navigate the holidays your way.

Plus, Shannon shares exciting news about her upcoming book — Loving Through The Unexpected: Finding Strength, Surrender, and Acceptance Parenting Autistic Children.

Tune in for encouragement, strategies, and the reminder that you’re stronger than you think. 💙

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⁠74. You Cannot Fix All the Things ALL the Time

201. Breaking Barriers; Why Low Expectations Hold Our Kids Back

As the holidays approach, you’re probably already feeling the shift — routines change, emotions run high, and suddenly you find yourself “choosing your battles” more than usual. But what if it’s not really about choosing battles at all?

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon dives deep into what’s really happening when you decide whether to enforce a boundary or let it go. You’ll learn how to tell the difference between flexibility and avoidance, why boundaries aren’t mean (they’re love in action), andhow to stay steady through the pushback that always comes with change.

Shannon shares real-life examples from her own journey with Jordan — from holiday meltdowns and unpredictable routines to learning when to hold firm and when to bend. You’ll walk away knowing that every decision you make isn’t about“getting it right,” it’s about knowing your child, trusting yourself, and choosing what truly matters in the moment.

So if the holidays tend to leave you feeling torn, guilty, or second-guessing yourself — this one’s for you. You’re not being inconsistent. You’re being strategic.

Stay tuned Next week for Part 2 — Episode 247. Staying in Your Lane: Reducing Holiday Stress and Letting Go of What’s Not Yours to Control.

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⁠143. Social Expectations vs Autism Reality⁠

215. The Inclusion Debate: What Works, What Doesn't, and Why It Matters