Episodios

  • #380: Command Attention. - Can You Hear Me? And Are You Listening?..
    Oct 19 2025

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    We turn a tough political banquet into a playbook for presence. Two questions reshape the room: can you hear me and are you listening, with practical fixes for sound, engagement, and momentum.

    • ocean and surfboard metaphor for crowd energy
    • hearing versus listening as separate checks
    • why sound checks and backup gear matter
    • when crowd work fails and how to qualify targets
    • laughter and silence as contagious signals
    • shorten setups to fit noisy venues
    • how to redirect focus toward willing listeners
    • after action reports for accountability and growth
    • parking lot encore to repair missed connections
    • simple script to set boundaries without snark

    Check me out. Peace.


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    14 m
  • #379: From Chaos To Focus: Juggling Comedy, Work, And Jujitsu
    Oct 19 2025

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    We talk through the strange way clarity arrives after confusion and how training, lists, and relentless focus restore momentum when life feels like a whirlwind. The lens is comedy, work, and jujitsu, but the tools work for any heavy season.

    • using checklists to anchor focus under pressure
    • jujitsu as a mental reset that sharpens writing
    • balancing comedy reps with a demanding day job
    • choosing effort over complaints when time is tight
    • learning from quitting without chasing rivals
    • adopting the winners focus on themselves mindset
    • building a 1 percent better daily system
    • turning fog into clear next steps

    Check me out. Peace.


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    6 m
  • #378 - The Bible: Romans 12:2,
    Oct 5 2025

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    We trace a personal shift from chasing comparisons to building a distinct creative lane, guided by Romans 12:2 and a simple daily practice to renew the mind. A short verse fuels a bigger decision: stop conforming to the industry’s patterns and craft work that can’t be compared.

    • Romans 12:2 as a compass for creative choices
    • resisting comparison and trend-chasing in comedy
    • designing a lane where difference is the advantage
    • early audience reactions to a new format and tone
    • daily writing and simple faith habits to renew focus
    • testing ideas to discern what truly works
    • balancing purpose, career growth, and providing for family

    Please check out that Bible verse


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    9 m
  • #377 - The Bible: Romans 8:31
    Oct 5 2025

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    We reflect on how Romans 8:31 reframes confidence, calling, and effort, and why repeated moments of alignment feel less like coincidence and more like direction. We talk gifts, resistance, and the daily choices that turn faith into focused action.

    • church moments that feel personal and timely
    • Romans 8:31 as a lens for courage
    • divine support versus coincidence
    • gifts as entrusted work to steward
    • resistance and procrastination as subtle sabotage
    • discipline, health, and habits that protect calling
    • choosing wholehearted effort and follow-through
    • closing reflections and a look ahead to more verses

    “Check me out. Peace.”


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    9 m
  • #376: The WAR of Art.
    Sep 19 2025

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    Overcoming procrastination requires putting yourself physically where you need to perform your creative work. Steven Pressfield's book "Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants to Be" offers practical wisdom on defeating the resistance that keeps us from our gifts.

    • Self-sabotage and distraction often prevent us from doing important creative work
    • Steven Pressfield's books frame procrastination as "resistance" against our divine gifts
    • Not using your gifts is essentially rejecting your purpose and dimming your light
    • The first 20 minutes of creative work are often unfocused before productivity kicks in
    • Fighting procrastination is a daily battle that requires consistent commitment
    • Physical location matters—being in your creative space helps trigger focus
    • Tracking completed tasks creates a "physical imprint" that reinforces good habits

    Check out Steven Pressfield's books, especially "The War of Art" - it's beautiful, amazing, and will help you understand the deeper meaning of resistance to your creative work.


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    6 m
  • #375: Always Show Up. - Life Lessons, & Jiu-Jitsu.
    Sep 19 2025

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    Finding balance is essential for mental health and creativity. My jiu-jitsu practice serves as that escape from overthinking, though my training schedule recently changed.

    • Almost skipped a promotion ceremony believing I didn't deserve recognition
    • Friend encouraged me to attend, saying others might see progress I couldn't recognize
    • Coach's message validated this: "You don't see what we see"
    • Received an unexpected stripe promotion
    • The difference between a white belt and black belt is simply continuing to show up
    • Being just 1% better every day means being 100% better in 100 days
    • Connected with someone celebrating 300 days of sobriety through Instagram
    • Social media can create meaningful connections with people at all levels

    Keep showing up, keep being a good friend, keep working to be the best version of yourself every day.


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    6 m
  • #374: Be Consistent, The Key To Unlocking Your Full Potential,
    Sep 7 2025

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    Consistency is the foundation of success in every aspect of life. Making multiple small, correct decisions over time leads to great results – the same way that going to the gym consistently is the only path to physical improvement.

    • Consistency equals results – not the other way around
    • Success is not a lottery ticket but the compound effect of small, correct decisions
    • The first step of failure is inconsistency
    • Identify your shortcomings by tracking where you lack consistency
    • Create a detailed schedule to visualize gaps and opportunities
    • Balance different areas of life requiring consistency (physical, emotional, professional)
    • Solutions often require adjusting schedules and priorities
    • Three keys to consistency: more time, better organization, and action tracking
    • Use a checklist to monitor progress and reinforce consistent behavior
    • Balance is critical – you can't lean too far in any one direction

    Use a checklist, make a schedule, and create more time in your day. I promise you, if you follow these steps, your life will be exponentially changed and you'll be so much more organized.


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    12 m
  • #373: *Make Time, For Yourself🕰,
    Sep 3 2025

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    Self-care isn't just crucial for mental health but forms the foundation for all personal relationships and achievement. Prioritizing your own wellbeing first enables you to show up better for others and pursue your life mission with greater focus and effectiveness.

    • Taking care of yourself first is essential before attempting to help others
    • Creating quiet moments allows your mind to connect ideas without constant external noise
    • Getting up earlier can provide the time needed for self-care activities
    • Psychological wellness is as important as physical wellness
    • Consistency in self-care practices creates compound improvement over time
    • Being just 1% better every day means being 100% better in 100 days
    • Showing up even when you don't feel like it is part of being on a mission

    Take a moment for yourself, make time for yourself, and have a mission. I'm Benjo, check me out. Peace.


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    10 m