When words carry the weight of our deepest experiences, they have the power to shape our reality. John O'Brien is a thinker who has profoundly influenced our understanding of the language we use to describe the lives of individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Through our conversation, we unearthed how stories breathe life into words, emphasizing the need for deliberate and accurate language to communicate the true essence of personhood and experience. We examined the philosophy of personalism and its transformative effect on person-centered planning.

The tapestry of community is woven through relationships, a theme that resonated deeply in our dialogue with John. We discussed how simple acts of recognition and acceptance can be the catalyst for friendships that transcend the superficial bonds of society. Reflecting on the narrative within "Members of Each Other," our discussion ventured into the intricacies of communal membership and the hurdles faced by individuals with developmental disabilities in forming meaningful connections. We acknowledged the enduring power of assistance and companionship in historical contexts and its continuing relevance in fostering inclusive societies today.

We recognize the significance of ongoing dialogues in our collective endeavor to create a community that honors the varied gifts every individual brings to the table.

John's recommended reading:

• On The Mystery Of The Incarnation - Denise Levertov
• Members Of Each Other - John O'Brien and Connie Lyle O'Brien
• Fratelli Tutti: On Fraternity and Social Friendship - Pope Francis
• Creative Fidelity - Gabriel Marcel
• Tools For Conviviality - Ivan Illich
• Deschooling Society - Ivan Illich
• Abundant Community - John McKnight and Peter Block
• David B Schwartz books