In this episode of Please Me, the podcast aimed at destigmatizing conversations about sex and sexual health, host Eve welcomes Fancy Feast, a writer, burlesque performer, and sex educator. They discuss the importance of communication in sexual relationships, non-monogamous relationship styles, and the impact of societal norms on sexual desire. Fancy Feast shares insights from her experiences in the burlesque scene, the challenges of balancing multiple intense relationships, and her journey of body positivity. The episode also includes a role-playing exercise to model effective communication about sexual preferences and boundaries.

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In this episode of Please Me!, Eve dives deep into a candid conversation with Karen Anne Coccioli, an erotica writer who brings a unique perspective as a member of the LGBTQ+ and kink communities. Karen shares her personal journey of coming out later in life and navigating two heterosexual marriages.
They explore the complexities of sexuality and identity, challenging societal norms and stereotypes, particularly around ageism and older women's sexuality. Karen dismantles the myth that older women are not sexual beings, sharing her experiences and insights into how desire evolves with age.

Key topics include:
-Karen's transition from a heterosexual marriage to embracing her lesbian identity.
-Her experiences as an erotica writer and the intersections of LGBTQ+ and kink communities in her work.
-Addressing ageism and societal perceptions of older women's sexuality.
-Debunking stereotypes through Karen's own experiences and observations.
-The importance of representation and visibility in erotica and literature.

Karen Anne Coccioli brings a refreshing honesty and wisdom to the conversation, challenging listeners to rethink their assumptions about sexuality, identity, and aging.

Join Eve and Karen on this enlightening journey of self-discovery and liberation.

Connect with Karen Anne Coccioli and explore her work at

• Karen Anne Caccioli’s Website
• Author Annie Moon on Instagram and Facebook

Key Questions Addressed:

1. How did Karen Anne Caccioli overcome childhood trauma through writing and self-exploration?
2. Why is it important to live authentically and embrace one's true self at any age?
3. How does writing erotica contribute to Karen's personal healing and challenge societal norms?
4. What role do consent and communication play in BDSM and kink relationships?
5. How can we address ageism in the context of sexuality and pleasure for older adults?

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Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach who shares her transformative journey from hitting a codependent bottom at age 52 to finding recovery through 12-step programs. Barb discusses the importance of building healthy boundaries, emotional intimacy, and how she now enjoys a fulfilling and healthy relationship.

Barb emphasizes the importance of building healthy boundaries and how they have significantly improved her emotional well-being and relationships. She provides practical advice on maintaining self-focus, avoiding people-pleasing, and taking responsibility for personal happiness. Barb also highlights the role of emotional intimacy in enhancing sexual relationships, sharing her experience of waiting to establish emotional intimacy with her partner before engaging in a sexual relationship.

The conversation concludes with Barb sharing insights on self-care, including spiritual practices like meditation and yoga, which support her recovery journey. She discusses the transformative power of self-acceptance and clear communication in intimate relationships, encouraging listeners to prioritize their desires and limits. Listeners are invited to connect with Barb on Instagram and check out her podcast, while Eve shares information about the Please Me Health Collective and other resources.

Potential Listener Questions:
1. Why are healthy boundaries crucial for personal growth and relationships?
2. How does emotional intimacy enhance sexual relationships?
3. What self-care practices are recommended to improve self confidence?
4. How can I take control of my life and focus on self-approval?

Resources and Links:

You can find Barb Nangle here:

• Barb Nangle’s Podcast: Fragmented to Whole
• Home Page - Higher Power Coaching & Consulting (higherpowercc.com)

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• Website: Please Me Online - Reach Eve and stay connected.
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• Organic Loven: Treat yourself to new bedroom toys at this incredible website. Explore Organic Loven
• Parlor Games: Hormone replacement for women, eliminating issues like incontinence. Shop at Parlor Games
• Buzzsprout: Save $20 on the best podcast hosting site. Get Buzzsprout
• LifeWave: Experience stem cell technology that enhances libido and changes lives. Visit LifeWave
• Juice Plus+: Enjoy plant-based nutrition with the nutrition of 30 fruits and veggies daily....