In this episode, I welcome back Cat Etherington, the director of recovery at the Naked Truth Project. We explore the profound impact of betrayal trauma on wives and the journey towards healing and forgiveness. Cat explains the stages of healing:

• Safety and stabilization,
• Remembering and mourning,
• Reconnection

She emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, not as a pressured obligation but as a personal outcome of healing. We also discuss how friends and family can provide tangible support during this difficult time.

For more information on Cat and her resources, visit nakedtruthproject.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Impact of betrayal on a wife and the process of healing and forgiveness
• Emotional aspects of navigating betrayal trauma
• Key stages of healing from betrayal trauma
• Importance of forgiveness in the healing process
• Readiness to forgive and precursors in the healing journey
• Differentiating between trauma triggers and grief
• Reconnecting with the world after betrayal trauma
• Support from friends and family for those experiencing betrayal trauma

More Resources:

• Wives Care Groups
• Wives Care Basics Webinar
• Counseling or Coaching

Related Podcasts:

• 8 Practical Steps of Forgiveness
• The Recovery Process for Couples
• Helping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual Betrayal

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In this episode, I welcome back Pastor Marty Machowski to discuss the pressing issue of identity, particularly sexual identity. Marty shares his experiences counseling families whose children are grappling with gender and sexual orientation issues. He highlights the rapid acceleration of these challenges and introduces his book, "God Made Boys and Girls," as a resource for parents.

We delve into the impact of public education on children's understanding of identity, the importance of grounding identity in biblical truth, and the need for compassionate, open conversations between parents and children.

Marty also shares insights from his support group, "Affirmed," offering hope and practical guidance for families.

To learn more about Marty and his resources for parents, visit MartyMachowski.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Identity and sexual orientation struggles in children
• Impact of public education on children's understanding of identity
• Disconnecting physical reality from emotional and subjective feelings
• Diversity within gender categories and its impact on identity
• Trauma and abuse's impact on individuals struggling with gender identity
• Biblical perspective on identity and being made in the image of God
• Importance of open and honest conversations with children about identity and gender
• Transitioning from being disciplinarians to influencers in children's lives
• Facilitating support groups for families dealing with identity and sexual orientation struggles
• Encouraging parents to build a foundation of relationship and compassion with their children

More Resources:

• God Made Boys and Girls* by Marty Machowski
• Critical Conversations Webinar (Free!)
• Identity* by John Fort

Related Podcasts:

• God Made Boys and Girls
• Exposing the Gender Lie
• Identity and the Goodness of Sexuality

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In this episode, I welcome back Carol Juergensen Sheets, better known as Carol the Coach, a certified sex addiction therapist. We reminisce about her last appearance in March 2020, where we focused on empathy for husbands. Carol shares her journey since 2007, emphasizing the importance of empathy in all relationships.

She introduces her Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), which involves working with both partners from the start to foster post-traumatic growth. Carol explains the role of empathy in healing from infidelity, highlighting the long-term process and the need for genuine understanding. She also provides resources for couples seeking support and offers a hopeful message for those on their healing journey.

To learn more about Carol and her resources, visit SexHelpWithCarolTheCoach.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Carol's background and expertise in sex addiction therapy
• The importance of empathy in relationships
• Development of the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM)
• Key elements and focus of ERCEM
• The role of empathy within ERCEM
• Challenges and time required for healing from infidelity
• Common misconceptions about empathy
• Progress and resources available for couples seeking support
• Message of hope and encouragement for couples dealing with infidelity

More Resources:

• Help Them Heal Couples Workshop
• Help Them Heal book
• Help Them Heal online course

Related Podcasts:

• Helping Husbands Learn and Practice Empathy
• 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage
• The Recovery Process for Couples

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In this episode, I chat with Crystal Renaud Day about the SHE Virtual Recovery Summit, a transformative event for women battling unwanted sexual behaviors like pornography addiction. Crystal shares her personal journey and insights from years of ministry, emphasizing the importance of surrender, accountability, and community in recovery.

We discuss the summit's role in providing a safe, supportive space for women and even teens to find healing and resources. Crystal's passion for helping women shines through, and we invite listeners to join the summit and take steps toward wholeness in Christ.

To learn more about the SHE Summit and register, visit SheRecovery.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• SHE Virtual Recovery Summit
• Support and resources for women struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors
• Personal experiences and insights from Crystal Renaud Day
• Importance and topics covered during the event
• Research on women's view of porn
• Training for women in recovery
• Ministry to women dealing with unwanted sexual behaviors
• Stories of transformation and victory
• She Virtual Recovery Summit as a space for learning, growth, and surrender
• The significance of surrender, confession, accountability, responsibility, and sharing in the recovery process

More Resources:

• SHE Virtual Recovery Summit (use affiliate code BEBROKEN for a 10% discount!)
• What Drives Women to Porn? Survey Results
• 90 Days to Wholeness* by Crystal Renaud Day

Related Podcasts:

• New Research on Why Women View Porn
• Total Freedom for Women Struggling with Porn
• God's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame

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In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional self-awareness, especially for men – and offer a simple test to measure self-awareness. We explore the different levels of self-awareness, from complete unawareness to deep emotional understanding.

Stephen shares his inspiration for creating this self-awareness test, aiming to help men gauge their emotional awareness so they can continue toward greater awareness and maturity. We discuss how family history shapes emotional patterns and the importance of recognizing triggers.

Our conversation emphasizes the significance of aligning with the Holy Spirit and striving for emotional maturity.

For more insight from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Emotional self-awareness and self-awareness test for men
• Different levels of emotional self-awareness
• Connection between triggers and emotional responses
• Impact of family of origin on emotional patterns and behaviors
• Development of a self-awareness test for men
• Challenges men face in understanding and expressing emotions
• Importance of recognizing and acknowledging one's feelings
• Impact of family of origin on emotional development
• Physical and emotional connections, retraining the mind and emotions
• Alignment with the Holy Spirit and emotional program, journey of growth and maturity

More Resources:

• The Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test
• Growth Map* by Stephen Cervantes
• Grace-Based Transformation* by Jonathan Daugherty

Related Podcasts:

• How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?
• 100 Recovery Rules (with Mark Denison)
• A 3-Year Roadmap for Recovery and Emotional Growth

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In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional maturity and self-awareness. We explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity. Our conversation highlights the role of grief in self-discovery and the impact of critical parenting on self-criticism.

Stephen and I stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and self-reflection in achieving emotional growth and maturity. We encourage listeners to embrace uncertainty and seek support, underscoring that emotional maturity is a continuous process of growth and understanding.

For more insights from Dr. Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Emotional maturity and self-awareness
• Impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior
• Recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity
• Role of grief in the process of emotional healing
• Impact of critical parenting on self-criticism and judgmental behavior
• Shaping oneness in relationships
• Grief and fear in recognizing emotional patterns and transformation
• Importance of admitting uncertainty and vulnerability
• Embracing the journey of growth and change
• Seeking support and guidance for personal and relational growth

More Resources:

• 49 Days of Growth* by Stephen Cervantes
• Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* by Stephen Cervantes
• Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith

Related Podcasts:

• Moving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-Driven
• Why Men Need to Practice Sadness
• How Brokenness Fits with Wholeness in Christ

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In this episode, I welcome back Dan Drake and introduce Janice Caudill, both experts in therapeutic disclosure for marriages affected by sexual betrayal. We dive into the importance of truth in healing relationships, discussing how disclosure helps rebuild trust.

In our conversation, Dan and Jaunice walk us through the disclosure process, emphasizing the impact of betrayal, readiness for disclosure, tailored approaches, the “choreography” of disclosure, and the post-disclosure phase that highlights potential obstacles when rebuilding trust.

To get access to Dan and Janice’s resources, visit KintsugiRecoveryPartners.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Development of resources for disclosure in marriages affected by sexual betrayal
• Availability of resources on Kintsugi Recovery Partners website
• Impact of sexual betrayal on relationships
• Definition of disclosure and its importance in healing
• Importance of readiness for disclosure
• Tailored approaches to disclosure based on each couple's unique situation
• Process and key elements of disclosure
• Choreography of the disclosure process
• Significance of disclosure in healing and rebuilding trust

More Resources:

• Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Betrayal*
• Full Disclosure: Seeking the Truth After Betrayal*
• Disclosure Guide Training

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding Therapeutic Disclosure in Marriage Affected by Sexual Betrayal
• Confession and Disclosure for Couples
• How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair

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In today's episode, I have a heart-to-heart with Stephen Cervantes about the journey of recovery. We dive into how it's more than just getting back on your feet; it's about pausing, finding stability, and reaching out for a helping hand. But that's not the end of the road!

Recovery is this beautiful bridge to an exciting phase of self-discovery and growth. Together, we unpack the deeper mission that lies ahead—embracing the love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and getting to know ourselves better.

So, if you're curious about turning a new leaf and finding purpose post-recovery, this chat is for you. Join us as we explore these transformative steps to a fuller, love-filled life!

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Concept of recovery and transition to a new growth mission
• Importance of stopping and stabilizing in recovery
• Seeking outside help and community support
• Recovery as a bridge to discovery and growth
• Purpose of new growth mission: learning about love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, understanding oneself
• Different interpretations of recovery
• Role of relationships and community in the recovery process
• Recovery as a journey toward growth and learning
• Shift in focus from negative behaviors to love and personal understanding
• Emphasis on community, outside help, and shift in focus towards love and personal understanding

More Resources:

• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
• Grace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups
• Grace-Based Transformation* book

Related Podcasts:

• For Men Who Want to Finish Strong
• What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?
• Understanding 4 Key Roles in Your Story

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