Frances Bilbao founded Mums Matter Psychology when her oldest child was just three months old, and now, alongside raising three children her practice has grown into a social enterprise supporting more than 4,000 families each year with over 120 clinicians nationwide. So, as you might’ve guessed, she’s learned a lot of what parents need. And I love hearing from parents that are also psychologists, because they just get it, from both the professional and personal point of view.

Here, we hear all about building her business alongside raising children, why we need to take sleep deprivation more seriously (which if you’ve listened to this show for a while, you’ll know is a hill I’d die on), how society is letting down families and why we need to stop gaslighting mums into thinking the struggle comes from within them.

This episode is a warm hug, and while you’ll still hear Loz and I chat each week, this is the perfect way to finish off our interviews for 2025 before our schedule changes a little next year. But more on that in the new year. For now, let’s hear from Frances.

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Welcome back to Witching Hour, the show where two mums and sort-of cousins figure out how to make work work. This week, we answer your biggest Christmas and end-of-year questions, including:

• Are we all doing Christmas Day wrong by visiting multiple houses

• What’s the actual etiquette for daycare and teacher gifts when budgets are tight

• How to survive working through school holidays without drowning in mum guilt

• What to say when your family expects long-distance Christmas travel with overstimulated kids

• How to shut down parenting comments without causing a festive feud

• Whether you’re entitled to return part-time after maternity leave

• If it’s bad to ditch your mother’s group when the chat is only sleep schedules

• And the spicy one: is accepting less responsibility for the same pay a feminist failure… or the smartest decision a working mum can make

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In this episode we cover: Christmas family politics, emotional labour in motherhood, school holiday stress for working parents, teacher and educator gift etiquette, overstimulation in young kids, parenting boundaries with relatives, flexible work after maternity leave, Fair Work return-to-work entitlements in Australia, breastfeeding and pumping at work, inadequate corporate parents rooms, mother’s group expectations, maternal mental load, burnout in working mothers, identity shifts after returning to work, workplace discrimination and flexible work negotiations, and feminist debates around choosing balance versus ambition.

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Welcome back to Ask Ready or Not! It’s Ready or Not’s tip-based episode, landing in your ears every Friday.

This week, Loz shares her best tips on what to do if you're made redundant on maternity leave.

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Stephanie Vizard has thought and written a lot about parenting, relationships, and work. Her first novel, The Love Contract, was directly inspired by maternity leave and in her most recent release, A Smart Girl’s Guide to Second Chances, Steph explores the dynamics between mothers and daughters, and how their relationship is impacted by really different attitudes to work, ambition, and parenting.

But when she’s not writing, she works as a lawyer. And here, we hear all about navigating both the corporate and creative sides of her career as a mum who wants to be as successful as her dad has been and as good to her kids as her mum has been to her.

Here, we talk about drowning under the weight of it all even when on paper all your dreams have come true, starting a new job when you’re also newly pregnant, and what it feels like when your body starts to feel like yours again after years of sharing it with your children.

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Welcome back to Witching Hour, the show where two mums and sort-of cousins figure out how to make work work. This week, we answer your biggest Christmas and end-of-year questions, including:

• Are we all doing Christmas Day wrong by visiting multiple houses

• What’s the actual etiquette for daycare and teacher gifts when budgets are tight

• How to survive working through school holidays without drowning in mum guilt

• What to say when your family expects long-distance Christmas travel with overstimulated kids

• How to shut down parenting comments without causing a festive feud

• Whether you’re entitled to return part-time after maternity leave

• If it’s bad to ditch your mother’s group when the chat is only sleep schedules

• And the spicy one: is accepting less responsibility for the same pay a feminist failure… or the smartest decision a working mum can make

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In this episode we cover: Christmas family politics, emotional labour in motherhood, school holiday stress for working parents, teacher and educator gift etiquette, overstimulation in young kids, parenting boundaries with relatives, flexible work after maternity leave, Fair Work return-to-work entitlements in Australia, breastfeeding and pumping at work, inadequate corporate parents rooms, mother’s group expectations, maternal mental load, burnout in working mothers, identity shifts after returning to work, workplace discrimination and flexible work negotiations, and feminist debates around choosing balance versus ambition.

Thanks for listening! If you liked the show, please tell your friends, subscribe or write a review.

Find us on Instagram:

@readyornot.pod

@laurentreweek_

@lucindamckimm_

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This podcast was recorded on the lands of the Boon Wurrung people of the Kulin Nation, the land on which we’re lucky enough to raise our sons and daughters. Always was and always will be Aboriginal land. We Pay The Rent, and you can too.

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[Apologies for some dodgy bits of audio in this episode, unfortunately we couldn’t come up with a solution that we could get to in time because our batteries are low but we still love you and thank you for listening anyway] Welcome back to the third and final part of The Low Battery Book Club, where we consume way too much culture and talk way too much trash. If you need to play catch up on the first episode of this series, you can find it here. The second episode, where we unpacked cancel culture and Clare Stephens’ new book, The Worst Thing I’ve Ever Done, can be found here.

On the show today:

• We share our favourite recs of the month (something old, something new, something high, something low)
• We deep dive Chosen Family by Madeleine Gray
• We talk about the business of book covers.
• AND! Charley gives you a whole lot of recs based off what you’ve been loving reading.

And here’s our ‘something old, something new, something high, something low’ for December…

Charley:

Old favourite: Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie

New: Mushroom Tapes!!

High: The Fashion Neurosis podcast with Bella Freud and The Rachel Incident filming underway!

Lowbrow but loving: Great British Bake Off

Lu:

Old: Heartburn by Nora Ephron

New: One Battle After Another on Apple TV

High: Sophie Gilbert interview on the Wheeler Centre podcast

Low: That the Lily Allen album came out just before we recorded our last episode.

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Welcome back to Ask Ready or Not! It’s Ready or Not’s tip-based episode, landing in your ears every Friday.

This week, Loz is sharing everything you need to know about starting a new business as a mum. From navigating the costs and admin to finding time and maintaining your sanity, she’ll share the lessons she’s learned and the advice she wishes she had from the start. If you’ve got a business idea brewing or you’re already in the thick of it, this one’s packed with practical tips on all the how-to's.

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After the overnight fame that came with winning Miss Universe Australia in 2010, model, presenter, and now co-owner of  bioactive honey company Honey for Life Jesinta Franklin has always done things differently.

From the get-go, she was never going to let her public and private lives get too close, and she’s a unique example of what straddling both worlds can look like. For example, she may have protected her kids’ privacy well before the conversation entered the zeitgeist, but she’s always been open about the fertility struggles and pregnancy losses she had to wade through to get her firstborn. She’s always been interested in business, but she wanted to make sure the thing she was contributing to actually meant something to her.

And here, she spares no detail in reflecting on her motherhood and career journey. We talk about the challenging path she walked to become a mum, how that journey only made her becoming pregnant with her second child at just three months postpartum all the more surprising, what it was like to navigate early motherhood while her husband Lance (aka Buddy) Franklin was in quarantine hubs for the AFL season, the shame she felt around breastfeeding challenges, and what she’s excited about now that she waits to become a mum for the third time.

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In this episode, we cover the below topics: being a young mum, going from one to two, solo parenting, recurrent miscarriage, pregnancy loss, business, honey, Jesinta Franklin, Lance Franklin, third time pregnancy, breastfeeding, bottle feeding, modelling, bounce back culture, and more.

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