In this episode, I share one of my personal stories of adversity, mindset, and triumph. At the Division 1 women’s college basketball level, the three-point shot is one of the most important of the game. In high school, I had practiced for years and years as a jump-shooter and then during my freshman season at Illinois, a mental block took over and I couldn’t hit the rim from behind the three point line!

I knew I had to fix my shot to become a top player - but how? A couple years later, the moment came where it was time to fix my shot once and for all - and I went back to the basics. I repeated the mantra form that I learned when I was six-years-old: toe, knee, elbow, ball. Slowly but surely, I retrained my entire body to shoot with a cohesive, aligned flow.

Listen to today’s episode to hear the backstory of one of my favorite and frequent mindset practices of going back to the basics.

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Topics Covered:

• What I do when I'm up against something that feels insurmountable or too complicated
• Simple ways to take the pressure off and get out of your head
• The incredible outcomes of going back to basics during my basketball career
• Learning to pivot when your ideal plan gets set off course

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I’m joined by Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a psychologist with over 25 years of experience, author of Perfectly Hidden Depression, and host of The SelfWork Podcast. Her research is mainly centered around the mental health effects of perfectionism. She’s passionate about helping people get out of that thought pattern and live authentic, balanced, and healthy lives.

Perfectly Hidden Depression is a compassionate guide that walks readers through the process of understanding their perfectionism, identifying destructive beliefs, and uncovering repressed emotions. Dr. Margaret details tangible tips for quieting that critical inner voice, and powerful strategies for coping with difficult feelings, including her ‘5 C’s’ method. She created The SelfWork Podcast, which has over 300 episodes and 3.5 million downloads, to broaden the conversation around mental health.

Dr. Margaret also works closely with This Is My Brave, a non-profit organization that believes in the power of storytelling to break down the stigma surrounding mental illness. This Is My Brave has produced over 75 unique shows in cities across the world and featured nearly 875 storytellers sharing true, personal stories on overcoming depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and more.

Listen to today’s episode to hear how Dr. Margaret is breaking down barriers and normalizing conversations about mental health.

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Topics Covered:

• How Dr. Margaret made the bold decision to pivot her career from singer to therapist
• Recognizing when your actions are driven by the past, and how to shift that narrative
• Leaning and growing into your curiosities and passions - even in your 60’s
• How to identify signs and symptoms of perfectly hidden depression in your loved ones
• The importance of keeping your energy focused on what you have control over

About our guest:

• Dr. Margaret's Website
• Dr. Margaret's Instagram
• The SelfWork Podcast
• Perfectly Hidden Depression: How to Break Free from the Perfectionism That Masks Your Depression
• This Is My Brave

Special Offers:

• If there’s a topic or charity you want me to highlight on the podcast, DM it to me on Instagram @getbusylivin_pod

Follow Us:

• Get Busy Livin’ Podcast Website
• Get Busy Livin’ Podcast Instagram
• Get Busy Livin’ Podcast Twitter
• Anne’s Website
• Anne’s LinkedIn
• Anne’s Instagram
• Anne’s Twitter