Episodios

  • S8E5 - Parenting While Black and Polyamorous

    S8E5 - Parenting While Black and Polyamorous
    Jun 23 2025
    In this episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Daren discuss the complexities of parenting while being polyamorous, addressing common misconceptions and societal concerns. They explore the benefits of polyamorous households for children, emphasizing open communication, community support, and the importance of diverse experiences. The conversation highlights the need for honesty and authenticity in parenting, ultimately showcasing how polyamory can contribute to raising well-adjusted, happy children. Reference Material * What About the Children?! Children in Polyamorous Families: Stigma, Myths, and Realities - https://www.whatdidshesay.ca/2019/03/25/what-about-the-children-children-in-polyamorous-families-stigma-myths-and-realities/ * “It’s someone who means a lot to me, and who means even more to mom”: Children’s views on the romantic partners of their polyamorous parents - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11521776/ * Polyamorous Relationships: Children’s Perceptions - https://inrs.ca/en/news/polyamorous-relationships-childrens-perceptions/ * A WHOLE VILLAGE: POLYAMOROUS FAMILIES AND THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD STANDARD - https://community.lawschool.cornell.edu/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/Sheff-et-al.-final.pdf
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    42 m
  • S8E4 - Celebrating 19 Years of Marriage

    S8E4 - Celebrating 19 Years of Marriage
    May 26 2025
    In this anniversary episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Darren celebrate 19 years of marriage and 22 years of being together. They dive into the dynamics of their non-traditional relationship, discussing their unique identities as a monogamous person and a polyamorous person. The couple shares insights on communication, the importance of understanding one's own needs, and how to navigate love and relationships outside of societal norms. Join them as they reflect on their journey and provide valuable tips for anyone interested in exploring polyamory.
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    45 m
  • S8E3 - “The Black Legacy Model”

    S8E3 - “The Black Legacy Model”
    May 12 2025
    In this episode of That Black Couple Podcast, Jenn and Daren dive into the thought-provoking concept of the Black Legacy Model, inspired by a viral TikTok series. They explore the four pillars that define this model: income, labor, community and family investment, and career flexibility. The couple reflects on how these ideas resonate with their own 19-year journey of partnership, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and teamwork in relationships. As they unpack each pillar, Jenn and Daren discuss the challenges faced by Black couples in a society that often imposes traditional norms that don't serve them. They candidly share their experiences of navigating gender roles, pooling resources, and the significance of supporting each other's individual growth. They challenge listeners to rethink conventional relationship dynamics and embrace a more collaborative approach. Join them for a rich conversation that not only highlights the realities of Black relationships but also offers insights into building a legacy rooted in love, partnership, and community.
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    26 m
  • S8E2 - Our Journey from Cali to the East Coast

    S8E2 - Our Journey from Cali to the East Coast
    May 10 2025
    In the second part of the season 8 opener, Jenn and Daren dive deep into the complexities of their relationship journey, revealing the pivotal moments that shaped their love story. They reflect on the early days of their romance, starting from their college years. The conversation takes a candid turn as they discuss the challenges they faced from family disapproval, particularly from Daren's father, who went to great lengths to deter their union. The couple reflects on their scrappy beginnings in Chicago, where they learned to rely on each other and build a future despite the odds. As they recount their experiences, Jenn and Daren emphasize the importance of choosing oneself and the power of true partnership. They share how their journey led them to create a life plan filled with dreams and aspirations, from starting a family to navigating career changes. They also share the struggles of parenthood, career shifts, and the societal expectations placed on them as a couple. Through it all, Jenn and Daren highlight how their commitment to each other's growth has been a cornerstone of their relationship, allowing them to thrive together in a world that often tries to pull them apart.
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    22 m
  • S8E1 - Reintroducing That Black Couple

    S8E1 - Reintroducing That Black Couple
    Apr 25 2025
    In this 2-part episode, Jenn and Daren kick off Season 8 of That Black Couple Podcast with their first-ever video episode, allowing listeners to finally see their dynamic personalities in action. Join them for a heartfelt and humorous exploration of love, friendship, and the origins of That Black Couple. They reflect on their journey together, starting from their fateful meeting in the chicken line at the University of Southern California in 2002. They share the story of how they became best friends, navigating the challenges of college life while forming a deep bond. From trust falls to late-night video game sessions, they recount the moments that solidified their connection. They candidly discuss the complexities of their relationship, including the initial confusion and miscommunication that almost derailed their budding romance. Jenn and Daren emphasize the importance of authenticity in their relationship and how their shared experiences shaped them into the couple they are today. They tease the upcoming episodes that will delve deeper into their life together, including their move across the country and the adventures of parenting. Socials: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/coloredconvosmedia www.ThatBlackCouple.com Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ColoredConvosMedia FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Threads: www.Threads.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about being Black, Queer, Polyamourous, and Creative in an Anti-Black world. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.
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    22 m
  • S7E10 - Year In Review: Doing Things Differently in 2025

    S7E10 - Year In Review: Doing Things Differently in 2025
    Jan 31 2025
    In this episode, Jenn and Daren celebrate the milestone of reaching 2025 with an untraditional year-in-review format, reflecting on the tumultuous events of 2024. They kick things off by sharing their personal and podcasting achievements, including Jenn's book launches and their feature in The Huffington Post. In The Conversation, they delve into the podcast's performance over the past year, highlighting the most listened-to episodes that resonated with their audience, such as discussions on Black lesbian visibility and the complexities of polyamory. They emphasize the importance of choosing oneself in a challenging world and how their experiences and insights can empower listeners. In The Reflection, Jenn and Daren look ahead to the future of the podcast, announcing exciting changes including the transition to a video format and the launch of the new podcast "We Published, Beloved!", focused on supporting Black and queer authors. They express their commitment to exploring themes of queer identity, parenting, and the realities of being Black in America today, inviting their listeners to join them on this journey of growth and exploration. Socials: Substack: https://coloredconvosmedia.substack.com/ www.ThatBlackCouple.com Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Threads: www.Threads.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.
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    27 m
  • S7E9 - Fake Holidays: Truth Telling vs. Myth Making

    S7E9 - Fake Holidays: Truth Telling vs. Myth Making
    Dec 30 2024
    In this episode, Jenn and Daren tackle the myths and realities of holiday traditions, questioning the authenticity and significance of these celebrations. As they reflect on the end of 2024, they discuss the societal pressures surrounding holidays and the myths that shape our understanding of them. In The Conversation, they delve into the notion of identity-making and the role holidays play in it. They challenge the conventional narratives around holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over societal expectations. Through personal anecdotes, they highlight how their family has redefined holiday celebrations to align with their values, focusing on genuine connections rather than obligatory traditions. In The Reflection, Jenn and Daren explore the broader implications of myth-making, touching on topics such as Disney's corporate practices and the cultural impact of sports fandoms. They urge listeners to critically examine the myths they subscribe to and consider the power dynamics behind them. By questioning the status quo, they advocate for a more intentional and meaningful approach to identity and tradition. Socials: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/coloredconvosmedia www.ThatBlackCouple.com Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Threads: www.Threads.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.
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    41 m
  • S7E8 - The South: Salt Grits vs. Sugar Grits

    S7E8 - The South: Salt Grits vs. Sugar Grits
    Dec 26 2024
    In this episode, Jenn and Daren dive into the heart of Blackness in the American South, exploring its cultural richness, historical complexities, and the unique qualities that make it a cornerstone of Black identity in the U.S. They begin by sharing their personal experiences and revelations about the South, particularly through the lens of climate change and its impact on Southern communities. Jenn recounts her recent travels and the profound connection she felt to the land and its people, while Daren reflects on the resilience of the South in the face of historical and present-day challenges. In The Conversation, they pay homage to the South's enduring spirit, acknowledging both its struggles and its triumphs. They discuss the legacy of slavery, anti-literacy laws, and the systemic barriers that have shaped the region. Still, they also celebrate the South as a cradle of Black culture and activism, home to influential figures and movements that have left an indelible mark on history. In The Reflection, Jenn and Daren turn their attention to the culinary treasures of the South, using the metaphor of "salt grits versus sugar grits" to illustrate the diversity and depth of Southern cuisine. They share their appreciation for the flavors and traditions that are unique to the region, emphasizing the importance of preserving these cultural touchstones amidst the pressures of gentrification and modernization. Socials: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/coloredconvosmedia www.ThatBlackCouple.com Email: ThatBLKCouple@gmail.com FB: www.facebook.com/ThatBlackCouple Threads: www.Threads.com/ThatBlkCouple Instagram: www.instagram.com/thatblkcouple Apple Podcasts: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/id1284072220?mt=2 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2M7GIQlWxG05gGq0bpBwma?si=xSkjzK0BRJW51rjyl3DWvw Pandora: https://www.pandora.com/podcast/that-black-couple-podcast/PC:1000149014 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/That-Black-Couple-Podcast/dp/B0C12M7Q34/ SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/thatblackcouple Podcast Summary: This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. We do “adult” differently. We are That Black Couple. Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.
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    37 m