Episodios

  • Good Systems of Financial Security
    Jul 20 2024

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    Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and Greg discuss good systems of financial security. They cover topics such as budgeting, savings, managing debt, investments, insurance, and financial literacy. They emphasize the importance of living within your means, starting early with saving and investing, and forming good financial habits. They also discuss the role of financial education in achieving financial security and stress the need for individuals to take responsibility for their own financial well-being.

    Keywords Financial security, budgeting, savings, debt management, investments, insurance, financial literacy, living within means, starting early, forming good habits, financial education

    Takeaways

    • Living within your means is crucial for financial security.

    • Starting early with saving and investing can have a significant impact on your financial future.

    • Forming good financial habits, such as budgeting and conscious spending, is essential.

    • Financial education plays a vital role in achieving financial security and should be taught from an early age.

    Titles

    • Forming Good Financial Habits

    • The Importance of Living Within Your Means

    Sound Bites

    • "Living within our means is just normal. Energy in, energy out."

    • "If you start while you're in your 20s, at the end of this journey, it makes a tremendous difference."

    • "How do you feel about money? Does it make you feel yucky? Is it heavy?"

    Chapters

    00:00

    Introduction and Overview

    02:08

    Why People Struggle with Financial Security

    05:57

    The Importance of Starting Early

    08:55

    Assessing Your Financial Health

    11:07

    Strategies for a Tight Budget

    13:56

    Protecting Financial Assets

    17:48

    Preparing for Unexpected Events

    21:23

    The Role of Financial Education

    24:00

    Personal Stories and Examples

    27:00

    Conclusion and Closing Remarks



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    29 m
  • Blended Families
    Jul 13 2024

    In this episode we are discussing blended families with my two guests Wesley and Tamara Davis. We will give a definition of a blended family, What some of the statistics are pertaining to blended families. How to handle the initial transition of combining two families together. The importance of a strong stable marriage, How to discipline children in a blended family. Lastly, what are some tips we can give to a new blended family just starting out. If you want to make a donation to the show send us a Cash App

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    32 m
  • Quit or Commit, Why Men have a Hard time Committing to a Relationship
    Jul 6 2024

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    Summary In this episode of the 3 13 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses why it's hard for men to commit to a relationship. He explores the concept of the 'middle zone' or 'situation ship' where men feel comfortable because there's no commitment or requirements. Johnson delves into the psychological factors that contribute to men's commitment issues, such as fear of vulnerability, fear of rejection, and issues with attachment. He also examines how societal expectations and past relationship trauma influence men's willingness to commit. Johnson provides suggestions for men to address their commitment issues, including open communication, seeking therapy, and self-reflection.

    Keywords commitment, relationship, middle zone, situation ship, psychological factors, vulnerability, fear of rejection, attachment, societal expectations, past relationship trauma, communication, therapy, self-reflection.

    Takeaways

    • Men often prefer to stay in the 'middle zone' of dating and relationships because it provides a sense of safety and no commitment.
    • Psychological factors such as fear of vulnerability, fear of rejection, and issues with attachment contribute to men's commitment issues.
    • Societal expectations and past relationship trauma also influence men's willingness to commit.
    • Men can address their commitment issues by open communication, seeking therapy, and engaging in self-reflection.
    • The Middle Zone: Why Men Struggle to Commit
    • Societal Expectations and Past Relationship Trauma
    • "Why do men like to stay in the middle zone of dating and relationships?"
    • "Men have to be vulnerable in relationships. They have to be intimate in relationships."
    • "Society influences men's willingness to commit through expectations around masculinity."

    TitlesSound Bites

    Chapters

    00:00The Middle Zone: Why Men Struggle to Commit

    04:16Psychological Factors Behind Men's Commitment Issues

    07:49Societal Expectations and Past Relationship Trauma


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    28 m
  • Faithful Men Characteristics
    Jun 29 2024

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    Summary In this episode, host Andrew Johnson discusses the characteristics of faithful men. He shares information from articles he has read and highlights eight key traits of men who don't cheat: honesty, open communication, boundaries, responsibility, consistency, prioritizing the relationship, trustworthiness, and self-control. Johnson emphasizes the importance of these traits in building trust and maintaining a faithful relationship. He also encourages women to reflect on whether they truly want a man with these characteristics. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights for those seeking a faithful partner.

    Keywords faithful men, characteristics, honesty, open communication, boundaries, responsibility, consistency, prioritizing the relationship, trustworthiness, self-control

    Takeaways

    • Honesty is the foundation of a faithful relationship.

    • Open communication and assertiveness are important traits of faithful men.

    • Men who don't cheat have boundaries and respect their partner's boundaries.

    • Taking responsibility for one's actions is a sign of a faithful man.

    • Consistency builds trust and is a key characteristic of faithful men.

    • Faithful men prioritize their relationships and invest in their partners.

    • Trust is crucial in a faithful relationship.

    • Self-control and discipline are important traits of faithful men.

    Titles

    • Prioritizing the Relationship

    • Taking Responsibility for Actions

    Sound Bites

    • "Honesty is the foundation to any relationship."

    • "Open communication is paramount."

    • "Boundaries are in place to protect people."

    Chapters

    00:00

    Introduction and Purpose of the Episode

    04:00

    Characteristics 1-2: Honesty and Open Communication

    06:23

    Characteristics 3-4: Boundaries and Responsibility

    08:54

    Characteristic 5: Consistency

    12:28

    Characteristic 6: Prioritizing the Relationship

    20:10

    Characteristic 8: Self-Control

    23:25

    Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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    26 m
  • The Two Words Women Hate When Dating
    Jun 22 2024

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    Summary- In this episode, the host Andrew Johnson discusses the two words that women hate when dating: average and Settle. He is joined by guest Judi Winbush LPC, to explore why these words elicit negative reactions and strong emotions. They discuss societal pressures, unrealistic expectations, and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. The conversation also touches on the cultural baggage associated with these words, and the need to redefine them in a more inclusive and positive way.

    Keywords: Dating, average, Settle, women, negative reactions, strong emotions, societal pressures, unrealistic expectations, self-awareness, cultural baggage, redefine.

    Takeaways

    The words average and Settle elicit negative reactions and strong emotions in women when it comes to dating. Unrealistic expectations and societal pressures play a role in women's reactions to these words. Self-awareness is crucial in maintaining satisfying relationships. Cultural baggage and negative connotations associated with these words affect women's relationship choices. Redefining these terms in a more inclusive and positive way can help shift perspectives and improve dating experiences.

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    32 m
  • Fathers Day Episode, Legacy, Leadership ,and Lessons
    Jun 15 2024

    In this episode we are discussing Fathers Day and the importance of a Fathers leadership. We will go over some statistics pertaining to Dad's role in their children's lives. What lessons did you learn from your father. How fatherhood changed you. What are the lasting impacts fathers have on their children. The importance of legacy for a man and how it affects his children. What are some of the challenges we face being a father in today's society. Lastly what are the rewards of being a father, with my guest Nate Patterson, Marcus Cotton, and Waymon Daniels.

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    49 m
  • How Addicts Manipulate Family and Friends, Men and Addiction Series
    Jun 8 2024
    Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode of the Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg discuss the topic of manipulation by addicts and how they manipulate family and friends. They explore various tactics used by addicts, such as guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. They also discuss the importance of recognizing these tactics, setting healthy boundaries, seeking support from others in similar situations, and maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries. The episode concludes with a discussion on upcoming live events and the importance of supporting the podcast.Keywordsaddiction, manipulation, guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying, deceiving, intimidation, anger, boundaries, support Takeaways Addicts often use manipulation tactics to obtain money, support, or enablement from family and friends to sustain their addiction. Common manipulation tactics include guilt tripping, playing the victim, lying and deceiving, and using intimidation and anger. It is important for family and friends to recognize these tactics and set healthy boundaries to protect themselves and the addict. Seeking support from others who have experienced similar situations can be helpful in navigating the challenges of dealing with an addict. Maintaining compassion while maintaining boundaries is crucial in supporting the addict while also prioritizing their own well-being. Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts "Addicts often use manipulation tactics" "Guilt tripping is making loved ones feel responsible for their wellbeing or their relapse" "Addicts create elaborate stories and lies about why they need money" TitlesSound Bites Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 03:09 Understanding the Manipulation Tactics of Addicts 07:45 Guilt Tripping and Playing the Victim: Common Manipulation Strategies 12:04 The Role of Lying and Deceiving in Addict Manipulation 25:01 Setting Healthy Boundaries and Seeking Support 29:54 Maintaining Compassion While Maintaining Boundaries 31:52 Conclusion and Upcoming Live Events
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    31 m
  • The Four Pillars of a Healthy Relationship
    Jun 1 2024

    Summary

    In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the four pillars of a healthy relationship: communication, trust, respect, and support. He emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication, the slow process of building trust, the value of respect, and the need for emotional support in a relationship. He also shares personal experiences and provides practical advice for maintaining a strong and fulfilling relationship.Keywordshealthy relationship, communication, trust, respect, support, open communication, honesty, building trust, emotional support, relationship adviceTakeaways

    • Open and honest communication is essential for a healthy relationship.
    • Building trust is a slow process that requires consistency and reliability.
    • Respect involves placing value on another person and accepting their strengths and weaknesses.
    • Emotional support is critical in a relationship and can help navigate difficult times.
    • Displaying the four pillars in a relationship can make it strong, fulfilling, and long-lasting.
    • The Value of Respect: Accepting Strengths and Weaknesses
    • Building Trust: The Slow Process of Establishing Reliability
    • "Trust is a slow process and it takes time."
    • "Respect is the ability to place value on another person."
    • "Emotional support just simply lets your partner know that you have their back in difficut times

    Chapters

    00:00 The Importance of Communication in a Relationship

    12:12 Building Trust: Consistency and Reliability

    22:17 Emotional Support: Navigating Difficult Times

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    26 m