In Episode 3 of the Anatomy of Changework, I explored with Rafa, the work he did as a coach and his impact on the incredible comeback of boxing world champion Kiko "La Sensación" Martínez. Join us as we explore the journey, challenges, and strategies that brought Kiko back to the top of his game.

Rafa opens up about meeting Kiko when many thought his career was over and how they turned things around together. We dive into what sets top performers apart, focusing on work ethic, deliberate practice, and the intense passion that drives success.

In this episode, we chat about:

-The unique challenges of coaching an athlete in the later stages of their career

-The importance of a strong work ethic and purposeful practice

-Tackling the fear of failure and regret in training

-How passion and obsession fuel extraordinary achievements

-Real-life stories from Kiko Martínez's career and insights from other elite performers

-Rafa also shares the thrilling moment when Kiko became world champion again and the powerful emotions that followed.

This episode contains lessons on achieving high performance and mental toughness, perfect for athletes, coaches, and anyone striving for excellence.

Tune in for an inspiring look into the world of elite sports and the relentless pursuit of greatness.

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Roni Matar is based in Beirut, Lebanon and you'll find his coaching and training website here: https://www.ronimatar.com

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Highlights:

0:00 - Introduction and Coaching the World Champion

1:02 - Age and Boxing Performance

1:37 - How Rafa Found Kiko

2:37 - Overperforming in Boxing

3:03 - Influential Trainers and Real Results

4:26 - Marketing vs. Real Results in Sports

5:44 - Secrets of Overperformance

9:46 - Proactive and Driven Mindset

10:55 - Deliberate Practice and Training

14:45 - Fear of Wasting Time and Regret

18:25 - Kiko's Self-Awareness and Adjustments

24:19 - Emotional Obsession and the Journey to Victory

In this premiere episode of "Anatomy of Changework," Rafa and Roni dive deep into the essential roles that scope and categorization play in facilitating personal change and transformation. They explore how these crucial concepts are utilized in various changework modalities, including Metaphors of Movement (MoM), Integral Eye Movement Therapy (IEMT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and Provocative Change Works (PCW).

Throughout the discussion, Rafa and Roni share insights, examples, and personal experiences that illuminate the power of scope and categorization in shaping our perceptions and emotional responses. Roni examines how adjusting the scope of an experience, such as the perceived distance of past and future events, can significantly impact an individual's emotional state and motivation. Rafa shares a profound personal example of how extending his future scope relieved anxiety during a challenging time in his life.

The duo also explores the interplay between scope and categorization, with Roni demonstrating how a change in categorization, such as reframing a phobia as disgust rather than fear, can lead to lasting changes in behavior and emotional responses.

Rafa and Roni draw upon a wide range of examples, from personal anecdotes to sports psychology and religious beliefs, to illustrate the universal nature of scope and categorization in human experience. They also discuss the differences between various changework modalities, such as the automatic changes in scope and categorization observed in IEMT compared to the more deliberate interventions used in NLP.

Whether you are a changework practitioner seeking to deepen your understanding of these crucial concepts or an individual interested in personal growth and transformation, this episode offers valuable insights and practical examples that demonstrate the power of scope and categorization in shaping our lives.

Join Rafa and Roni as they embark on this fascinating exploration of the world of changework and uncover the hidden mechanisms that drive lasting personal transformation.

Timestamps:

0:00 Introduction: The concept of scope and its importance in changework modalities

0:23 Defining scope in terms of dimensions and movement within a specific frame

1:17 Explaining categories and their relation to common properties or actions

2:37 Examples of categories: Games, video games, and their subcategories

4:30 Case study: Changing the categorization of a client's snake phobia from fear to disgust

7:16 Clarification: Realizing an experience belongs to a different category, leading to a change in future responses

8:01 The role of scope in IEMT and how it affects categorization

9:35 Common changes in scope during IEMT, such as memories becoming fainter or farther away

10:00 Distinguishing between changes in scope and changes in category during IEMT

10:28 Comparing IEMT and NLP: Automatic vs. deliberate changes in scope and categorization

11:31 The concept of scope in time, as explored in Andy Austin's MoM

12:08 Example: The relationship between the perceived distance of past and future and emotional states

14:13 Exploring the metaphorical landscape: The location of past and future and its impact on present experiences

15:14 Rafa's personal example: Realizing future change during a challenging time working at KFC

17:18 Drawing parallels between personal experiences and religious beliefs about the afterlife

17:59 The concept of "culture of effort" in sports psychology and its relation to scope

18:41 Historical example: Ancient Egyptians extending the scope of experience beyond death

19:00 Rafa's experience with his mentor, Nick Kemp, and the impact of contracting the scope of preparation

20:29 The role of provocative change work in influencing scope and categorization

21:01 The subtle yet powerful impact of changing scope on a person's experience

22:11 Roni shares an example from a practice session with Rafa, demonstrating the use of provocative language

24:33 The importance of personal relevance in changework experiences

24:41 Conclusion: Wrapping up the discussion on scope and categorization

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