How do we start? Talking about the complex relationship between forgiveness, contentment and happy was a tough one. We still agree that forgiveness still have a not giving a f*ck component. Discussions of waiting for someone’s sorry, forgetting time is a thing, Soul Train, See you next Tuesday, communication, heal in hell, grudges take a lot of work and happy is the goal. We were slightly more confused more than we started with at the end. Check it out!

Topics of;

Grudge in the bloodline

If Colorado had a beach

Happy in steps

Object permanence

Bobby and Ceci

White girl down

Bust a move

Peace, Love and Soul

Mustang convertible

ADHD

I forgive me

What portion of contentment is settling?

Soulfully sorry

The Jersey Shore

Does forgiveness give you contentment?

Future eBooks on Healing on website soon!

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Sorry for the two week hiatus. Rachel was vacationing and I was down right lazy! But we are back with another electrified session. Friendships - before, during, and after your divorce…. What a such complicated subject. We discussed topics of tour or tour, no stake in the game - judge away, trifecta - friends before, during and after, unrealistic expectations, quality over quantity, levels of friends, keep the givers and toss the takers, and the phone works both ways.

Discussions of:

Ride and die friends

Set the boundaries

Friends for a season

Be a friend despite you differences

No friends, no drama

Having the tools to get through the storm is important

Effort to change your path

You choose what parts the give and receive

Show me the money

At any moment you are replaceable

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Well, here it is! The final installment of the Divorce Storm. And with all its collateral damage. Your life is definitely changed - what you probably perceive as no for the better. But, this is your time to finally realize you have to embrace this time and the efforts of the storm showing you the path to your new positive reality. There may be smaller storms along the way, but the biggie is over. Learn from that experience and let it be your barometer along your new journey.

Discussions of:

Divorce recovery can start at any stage

Time to be selfish

Reflect on how to prepare for the next storm

The storm is over

See the bigger picture

Divorce coffee talk

Being your own advocate

Self-care

I’m from Jersey

Bumrush the existing host

Rebuilding your new life

Tear the sandbags down

Be flexible and able to adjust

Find your new happy

Big thumbs texting, text to your own number first

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Well, here it is! Part two of the series. In this podcast, we discuss the challenges and unpredictability of going through a divorce. Using the metaphor of a storm to describe the emotional turmoil and chaos that can occur during the process. Watch out for the calm eye, it sometimes sends a false sense of security of the process.

Discussions of:

ABBA

Category 1-5 divorces

Bring the dogs in

It’s raining DM’s

Weather Girls

Fight or flight

Red flags

Storm surge

Try to look further down the road

Realistic expectations

Divorce sad playlist

Fight like Rock in your eye of the storm

Turn the mic on!

Victim status

Storm in your own personal space

In a chaotic state

Healing from music

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Here we go with another series. We actually love doing this. Part one of the three part series of the Divorce Storm - getting your sandbags ready. With all the three stages of divorce being important, this one is significant - it can lay the foundation for your recovery later. But, you are not ‘married’ to it. You can still recover with missteps in this stage. It’s never too late to make a course correction. Enjoy.

Discussions of;

The word today

Act one

Sandbags made of cotton

Getting my dicks in a row

Realistic expectations

Lipton tea bags

Tea bagging vs sand bagging

Signs of the storm is coming

Had to hate him to leave

Conflict of interest

Kramer vs Kramer

Egyptian sheets

See my kids everyday

Roller Coaster ride

Be less angry

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In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel interview therapist Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her holistic approach to helping people recover from divorce. They discuss topics such as childhood trauma, the importance of failure in the recovery process, loneliness, and the role of grace in healing. Dawn explains the concept of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and how it can help unlock and heal traumatic memories. They also explore the victim triangle and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Dawn also discusses the importance of taking responsibility for one's own life and transforming negativity into positivity. She emphasizes the power of mindset and the law of attraction in attracting high vibe experiences. The conversation then shifts to the topic of guilt and how it can be appropriate in certain situations but often stems from victim consciousness. The hosts bring up one of their favorite topics - narcissism and Dawn stresses in realizing the importance of understanding one's own role in relationships. They explore the concept of healing and finding a sense of purpose in life. Gotta get Dawn back for a part two! She also has a podcast too!

Discussions of:

Hit with an anvil

Setting healthy boundaries

The voice within

REM sleep

OPP, STOP, AND OMD?

David doesn’t journal

Grace

Looks like a vagina

We all get second chances

Stole a pack of gum

Do your own EMDR

It’s ok to serial date

Truly anything is possible

Listen to your loneliness

Realize there was a perception that you were never good enough

Protect your nuts

Law of attraction

Everything Dawn Wiggins

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Well, what can we say? That’s quite a mouthful - uncommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments! Rachel takes the reigns early and we finally come back to earth. Communication is the key in this podcast. It’s just that simple….. DO IT!

Discussions of:

Get thehings

Rachel’s birthday

Men and women communicate differently

Rachel is a planner

Mother’s Day is canceled

Putting up walls

Mow the yard naked

Not everyone is like us

Sky rockets in flight

Fluffy tickets

Love languages

Unrealistic expectations in divorce recovery

So much to be thankful for

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So, I took my spare time to create the new eBook ‘It’s OK to Hate Your Ex’. It took a while to complete it. It’s way different than people think it would be. Rachel and I discuss the book and a bunch of other things - as we do! Discussions of long term relationships count too, fertilizer stinks, give yourself grace to heal, people do better and ‘you is beautiful and you is smart’. There is so much to this podcast. Basically we want people to do better. And there is a free gift to the first 15 listeners that jump on it after the podcast! And most people love free.

Subjects of:

How did you table your hate?

You is healed

My care column is narrow

Need to balance the soil

Weed can be family members too

Forgive yourself first

I think I’m a cat

Caddyshack

Find your peace

Riding the storm out

Parts of the cogs of divorce recovery

Be gone before someone drops a house on you

Giving no f*cks or just being cynical

AARP

Hate can be subjective

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Amazon Link ‘It Ok to Hate Your Ex’

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