Let’s be clear: the idea of a “perfect family” is outdated, unrealistic, and holding onto it often causes more harm than good. In this episode of This Is Woman’s Work, Nicole Kalil sits down with family lawyer, author, and co-parenting advocate Gabriella Pomare to dismantle the myth that staying together is always best for the kids—and to redefine what healthy, modern families can actually look like. A partner at a leading law firm in Sydney, Gabriella brings over a decade of experience navigating complex family dynamics, from high-conflict separations to international custody cases. Because divorce isn’t the end of a family. It’s the restructuring of one. Gabriella brings both professional expertise and lived experience to the table, sharing how parents can move from conflict to collaboration—even when emotions are high, communication is broken, and resentment is lingering just beneath the surface. This conversation is honest, practical, and refreshingly real about what it actually takes to co-parent with intention instead of ego. In this episode, they cover: Why the “stay together for the kids” narrative is often more harmful than helpful The #1 skill that can make or break your co-parenting relationship: communication Gabriella’s 4-step communication framework How to set boundaries with a high-conflict or difficult ex (without losing your sanity) Tools like co-parenting apps that reduce drama and keep things child-focused How to handle holidays, schedules, and special occasions without turning them into battlegrounds Why kids don’t need the details—they need stability, safety, and reassurance Navigating dating, step-parent dynamics, and blended families Because at the end of the day, it isn’t about being right. It’s about raising humans who feel safe, loved, and supported—no matter what their family structure looks like. Thank you to our sponsors! Shopify has everything all in one place, making your life easier and your business operations smoother. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/tiww Gusto is online payroll and benefits software built for small businesses. It’s all-in-one, remote-friendly, and incredibly easy to use—so you can pay, hire, onboard, and support your team from anywhere! Try Gusto today at gusto.com/TIWW, and get three months free when you run your first payroll. Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to Quince.com/TIWW for free shipping and 365-day returns! Connect with Gabriella: Website: https://thecollaborativeco-parent.com.au Book:https://www.amazon.com/Collaborative-Parent-Co-Parenting-dignified-collaborative/dp/1636987036/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/collaborativecoparent/ Related Podcast Episodes: 047 / Mindset, Resilience & Divorce with Susan Tripi 198 / Repairing Damaged Relationships with Carlee Myers 204 / How To Let Go Of Your Ex with Dr. Cortney Warren Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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