People pleasing has less to do with wanting to be nice and more to do with feeling unsafe.

If you’re stuck in a pattern of pleasing and appeasing, then this week’s episode of the Untameable podcast is for you.

We’ve all heard of the fear responses of fight, flight, and freeze - these are the obvious trauma responses. But don’t often talk about the fourth one: FAWNING - a.k.a people pleasing.

“𝐼’𝑚 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑠𝑜 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑, 𝐼’𝑚 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 𝑠𝑜 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑, 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝑚𝑒 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙 𝑠𝑎𝑓𝑒...”

This is what we unpack In this week’s episode of the podcast. Join myself and my guest, Pia Prana, as we talk about the Trauma of the Good Girl, how we come to people please, and how we can start to break out of this pattern and feel safe to speak up, express ourselves, and say no.

—

Register for our upcoming workshop:

“BELIEVE: How To Create Unbreakable Self-Trust”

Tuesday 19th July, 9:30am - 12pm AEST

For more info including how to register, check out the workshop website: https://ewsocau.wixsite.com/self-trust-workshop

You can also join our mailing list to hear about our other upcoming workshops, events, and courses, as well as our Untameable Membership Experience - https://bit.ly/3JeFqX9

—

Like our work?

Follow EWSOC on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/the_embodied_woman/

Follow EWSOC on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/theembodiedwomanau

—

Check out more from this week’s guest, Pia Prana, Women’s Self-Mastery & Leadership Coach:

https://linktr.ee/piaprana

Pia has a new powerful course on boundaries coming soon so be sure to check out her work and follow her for more info!

—

Wanna be a guest?

Apply to be on the show - https://bit.ly/3MAMjm