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When we hear the word "church," most of us picture a building with pews facing a stage. But what if that image bears little resemblance to what Jesus and the apostles actually established?

Matt Anderson takes us on a journey back to the earliest Christian communities, revealing how the church was designed to function as a family rather than an institution. Drawing from over 20 years of ministry experience and deep study of the Book of Acts, Matt shows how the first believers gathered around meals in homes, creating intimate communities where discipleship, worship, and mission naturally flowed from their relationships.

The conversation challenges our modern assumptions about church structure and practice. We explore how the Lord's Supper was originally a full feast shared around a table, not just symbolic elements passed in tiny cups. We discover how early church gatherings were multi-generational, with older believers intentionally mentoring younger ones rather than segregating by age. And we examine how resources were shared generously to advance the gospel rather than maintaining expensive buildings and professional staff.

Perhaps most compelling is the reminder that Jesus said the world would recognize his followers not by their buildings, programs, or even their preaching, but by their love for one another. This profound truth suggests that our greatest evangelistic strategy isn't inviting people to services but inviting them into authentic, Christ-centered relationships.

This isn't about abandoning our current church experiences but about thoughtfully examining whether some of our traditions have drifted from biblical patterns. Matt's insights will inspire you to reimagine what church could be when built on the foundation of family relationships rather than institutional structures.

Subscribe now and discover what it might look like to recover the vibrant, intimate church community that turned the ancient world upside down. And stay tuned for Matt's upcoming podcast "Guarding the Good Deposit," exploring apostolic traditions from Christianity's first three centuries.

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When Ryan Centers and his wife Sarah felt called to adopt a sibling group of five children from foster care, they knew their comfortable life with teenage children would be forever transformed. What they couldn't anticipate was how this decision would crystallize their family's mission and purpose in profound ways.

As leaders of multiple businesses serving vulnerable populations – from group homes for foster youth to residential facilities for individuals with developmental disabilities and luxury senior living – the Centers have created an uncommon family culture centered on teamwork, purpose, and kingdom impact. Their growing team of 400+ staff is making waves across Arizona while their family of eleven children (two biological, nine adopted) serves as the beating heart of their vision.

"Centers do hard things" isn't just a motivational phrase hung in their home gym – it's the foundation of their parenting philosophy. From 6 AM workouts with teenage sons to entrepreneurial ventures like their family snow cone business, Ryan intentionally creates opportunities for his children to develop grit and resilience. Unlike many modern parents who shield their children from difficulty, Ryan believes today's "anxious generation" suffers partly from lack of appropriate challenges.

This counter-cultural approach extends to technology management: no cell phones until high school, no social media until graduation, and tech-free Sundays. While initially met with resistance, these boundaries have created space for authentic connection and conversation. Ryan has witnessed the transformation when young people learn to make eye contact, engage in difficult conversations, and discover purpose beyond screens.

Perhaps most distinctive is Ryan's vision of family as a "kingdom team on mission" rather than individuals pursuing separate dreams under one roof. Through family meetings, service activities, and shared business ventures, the Centers operate as a cohesive unit working toward common goals. This mission extends beyond their immediate family through Friends of Ohana, their nonprofit helping foster youth develop workforce skills and independence.

Ready to rethink what family culture and intentional parenting can look like? This episode will challenge your assumptions while offering practical wisdom for creating a household that builds both character and kingdom impact. Visit ohanafriends.org to support their mission or join their upcoming Foster the Future golf tournament on September 19th https://www.ohanafriends.org/events/golf-tournament.

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What happens when you find yourself unable to climb a fence while hunting, handing your rifle and pack to your friend because your weight makes simple outdoor activities impossible? For Brad Taysom, this humbling moment became the catalyst for an extraordinary transformation.

Brad shares his powerful journey of losing approximately 70 pounds and completely reshaping his health metrics in ways that extend far beyond the scale. His visceral fat dropped from dangerously high levels to well within healthy range, body fat percentage plummeted from an obese 39.8% to a lean 14.3%, and he shed 73 pounds of actual body fat while maintaining muscle mass.

The conversation explores Brad's first successful weight loss journey years ago when he lost over 100 pounds and became immersed in CrossFit, achieving 10% body fat. However, as life grew complicated with home renovations, growing family responsibilities, and the pandemic, his health gradually took a back seat. The weight returned, bringing with it diminished energy and capability.

What makes this episode particularly valuable is Brad's vulnerability about the pride that kept him from seeking help sooner and the mindset shifts that have made his current transformation more sustainable. He offers practical wisdom about creating lasting health habits despite rotating work shifts, family obligations, and major home projects. As he eloquently puts it, "You choose the right, you're going to feel good... I find a lot of similarities between health and fitness journeys and spiritual journeys."

For anyone who has achieved health goals only to see them slip away, or who feels too busy to prioritize their wellbeing, Brad's experience offers both inspiration and practical strategies. His story reminds us that reclaiming our health isn't just about looking better—it's about living fully and being present for the people and passions that matter most.

Ready to transform your own health? Learn about the Optavia program that helped Brad achieve his remarkable results and receive a special discount when you mention this episode. If you haven’t already had a conversation with an Optavia coach and are interested in learning more, you can go to bekandkev.com, or go directly to bekandkev.com/get-healthy for the link to our quick health assessment that will help you start the conversation with us or one of our qualified coaches. Anyone who signs up for a full month on our program (minimum of $350) and references this podcast with Brad Taysom will get a $50 credit from us to help them get started at even bigger savings!

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Sean Green's life story reads like an action film script, but with a depth Hollywood rarely captures. From the sun-drenched shores of Trinidad to becoming the oldest person ever to make the U.S. National Karate Team at age 51, Sean's journey exemplifies what happens when faith, discipline, and purpose align.

When Sean moved to America at age 10, he brought with him the military-like discipline instilled by his Caribbean Catholic school education. This foundation, combined with natural athletic ability that led to Division I track competition at Arizona State University, set the stage for his remarkable martial arts career. But what makes Sean truly uncommon isn't just his physical prowess – it's how he integrates his Christian faith with his passion for developing strong, biblically-minded men.

Drawing on his experience as both an educator and martial artist, Sean offers a refreshing perspective on what's missing in today's approach to raising boys. He pulls no punches when discussing the problems plaguing modern education: "We're still in this 'everyone gets a trophy' era" and "socially promoting kids who aren't academically ready because we're afraid to hurt their feelings." His solution? Create environments that challenge young men, require excellence, and provide strong male mentorship.

Sean's martial arts philosophy goes far beyond physical technique. He teaches that "meekness is strength under control" and emphasizes how training develops focus, coordination, memory, and discipline. For Christians who question whether martial arts aligns with their faith, Sean points to biblical warriors like David and Samson, reminding us that men are called to be "providers, protectors, priests, and prophets" in their homes.

Perhaps most inspiring is how Sean made the U.S. National Karate Team two decades after most competitors retire. Unable to match the speed of 20-year-olds, he studied the physics of fighting, mastering timing, distance, and momentum to overcome younger opponents. This same analytical approach and unwavering discipline characterizes his approach to faith, family, and developing the next generation of uncommon men.

Ready to challenge yourself physically and spiritually? Connect with Sean through his website https://gilbertmaf.com/ or social media (@greenesma4fitness on Instagram) to learn how martial arts can transform not just your body, but your character.

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What if the hardest challenges in your life became the very things that shaped your greatest strengths? In this powerful conversation with Clay Linkous, we explore how intentional living can transform every aspect of your existence—even through life's most difficult seasons.

Clay shares his remarkable journey from childhood farm work to building a property management empire with over 800 doors in Knoxville, Tennessee. But the path wasn't smooth. From battling epilepsy as a young father (including a seizure while driving) to losing everything in the 2008 recession and rebuilding from scratch, Clay's story demonstrates extraordinary resilience. Perhaps most moving is his family's decision to adopt two severely traumatized children—a challenge he describes as "the hardest thing we ever had to do was something that we very clearly heard God say to go do."

What sets this episode apart is Clay's framework for intentional living. He reveals his "Seven Pillars" approach (Faith, Family, Friends, Fitness, Finance, Future, and Fun) that guides both personal development and family strategic planning. You'll discover how Clay implements this framework through annual goal-setting retreats and regular one-on-one conversations with each family member. This isn't just theory—it's a battle-tested approach that has produced remarkable results across generations.

Leaders will especially appreciate Clay's insights on organizational culture—defining it simply as "the behaviors that people do when no one's watching." His experience transforming healthcare organizations reveals why culture is never a "soft skill" but the foundation of performance in both business and family life.

This conversation goes beyond inspirational platitudes to offer practical wisdom on marriage ("love is a decision, not a feeling"), parenting, cultivating the right community, and living with gratitude despite circumstances. Whether you're building a business, raising a family, or simply seeking a more purposeful life, Clay's uncommon approach to freedom through intentionality will challenge and equip you.

Ready to discover what truly matters? Listen now and take your first step toward more intentional living.

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Neil shares his incredible health transformation journey, losing over 40 pounds and dramatically improving his health metrics in just four months after years of failed diet attempts and health struggles.

• Meeting at Cornerstone Church in February after years of struggling to lose weight
• Neil's history as a formerly skinny athlete whose weight gradually increased through adulthood
• Previous diet attempts that always plateaued at 10-15 pounds of weight loss
• Hitting a point of being "sick and tired of being sick and tired" with low energy and joint pain
• Dramatic results including cutting visceral fat in half and body fat from 36.1% to 23.8%
• Surprising cholesterol improvement—LDL dropping to 53 after 35 years of being told he'd need lifelong medication
• Unexpected benefits like increased flexibility and stamina
• Strategies for maintaining health during social situations and vacations
• Removal from pre-diabetic medication after just four months
• Practical advice on fitting healthy habits into a busy lifestyle

For a complimentary health assessment and to learn more about starting your own health transformation journey, go to bekandkev.com/get-healthy . Mention this podcast when signing up for a full month on the plan ($350 minimum) and receive a $50 credit to help get started at bigger savings.

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What if you could design your life with the same intentionality architects use to design buildings? That's the powerful premise behind Jared Roth's approach to "life architecture," which he shares in this milestone 100th episode of the Uncommon Freedom Show.

Jared brings wisdom from his remarkable three-track career as a vocational minister, university professor, and business coach. Having started a church at 23, directed an MBA program, and helped grow businesses (including one that sold for $44 million), he offers a unique perspective on living with purpose across multiple domains.

The conversation explores how we've evolved from basic time management to role management and finally to comprehensive life architecture. Jared shares his framework for identifying your major life roles, prioritizing what matters most, and creating a blueprint that encompasses all dimensions of a flourishing life.

"You may see me hurry, but you will never see me harried," Jared explains, revealing how he maintains harmony across professional achievements and personal responsibilities. He provides practical strategies for making your life plan adaptable through regular refreshes, monthly audits, and intentional flexibility. Far from being rigid, true life architecture creates space for both structure and spontaneity.

Perhaps most profound is Jared's guidance on mentorship and coaching. His greatest regret? Not accessing the wisdom around him more frequently throughout his journey. He explains what great mentors look for (alignment and diligence) and why coaching relationships accelerate personal transformation better than isolated self-improvement efforts.

This episode serves as a powerful reminder that a meaningful life doesn't happen by accident. As Jared quotes, "If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much." Ready to become the architect of your own extraordinary life?

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Something vital is missing in today's cultural landscape - authentic Biblical manhood. After a seven-month break, I've returned to the microphone driven by a conviction that the world doesn't need less masculinity, but rather more of the right kind.

This episode marks the beginning of a powerful new series called "The Uncommon Man," where I'll be showcasing extraordinary men who have shaped my journey. These aren't just successful individuals; they're men whose lives exemplify what it means to lead with integrity, courage, and tenderness. They're fathers, husbands, mentors, and friends who understand that true strength lies in sacrifice and service.

During my absence, my wife Becca and I faced some of the most challenging parenting decisions of our lives. Through this difficult season, I've become even more convinced of the critical importance of strong, biblically-grounded men in our families and communities. The confusion and distortion surrounding masculinity has created a vacuum that's being filled with passivity and uncertainty. Biblical manhood isn't toxic - it's life-giving, protective, and essential for healthy families and societies.

Whether you're a husband seeking to lead your family with greater purpose, a young man looking for examples of integrity, a wife hoping to encourage the man in your life, or a young woman setting standards for future relationships - this series has something profound to offer you. Join me for episode 100 featuring my longtime mentor Dr. Jared Roth, as we explore what it truly means to be an uncommon man in a world desperately needing examples of godly masculinity. Subscribe now, share with someone who needs this message, and be part of reclaiming what's been lost.

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