Episodios

  • 11. Male Feminist vs Men’s Rights Activist - A Crazy Story of Being Arrested, Publicly Shamed & Labelled a "Creep" with Ghasan Alesayi

    11. Male Feminist vs Men’s Rights Activist - A Crazy Story of Being Arrested, Publicly Shamed & Labelled a "Creep" with Ghasan Alesayi
    Aug 14 2024
    In this compelling episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host speaks with Ghasan Alesayi (or, as he's known in the film industry, Sam Al Esai, about his arrest and subsequent public shaming post a dating coach session on August 8th, 2023. The discussion spans the impact of allegations and media fallout on Ghassan's life, alongside his struggle to reclaim his identity. They further analyze the fast-paced nature of social media judgments and the pressures of modern masculinity, advocating for empathy, vulnerability, and better communication between genders. This episode offers a thoughtful exploration of dating, societal misconceptions, and the necessity for personal integrity and reflection in a crisis of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:18 Ghassan's Arrest and Public Shaming 04:37 The Aftermath and Support System 09:23 Reevaluating Relationships and Self 11:47 Deciding to Work with a Dating Coach 14:33 Therapy and Social Experiments 18:09 Fears and Realizations 36:13 The Arrest Incident 48:28 The Power of Acceptance and Transformation 49:42 Mindset Shifts and Personal Growth 50:17 Exploring Masculinity and Power Dynamics 54:22 Navigating Empathy and Vulnerability 56:59 Support Systems and Social Reactions 01:05:17 Documentary Goals and Cancel Culture 01:13:27 The Dating Crisis and Societal Pressures 01:37:13 Misconceptions and Gender Dynamics 01:42:28 Final Reflections and Takeaways Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 43 m
  • 10. Chivalry and Traditional Values Aren't Dead! Here's How They Can Help a Woman Soften... A Conversation about Who Pays on a Date, Men's Groups, The 'Nothing' Box, and More with Michael Franco

    10. Chivalry and Traditional Values Aren't Dead! Here's How They Can Help a Woman Soften... A Conversation about Who Pays on a Date, Men's Groups, The 'Nothing' Box, and More with Michael Franco
    Aug 7 2024

    In this episode, we explore the intersection of traditional values, modern dating, and the emotional landscape of masculinity. The discussion touches on chivalry, the dynamics of paying for dates, and the vulnerability in giving and receiving help. We delve into male emotional expression, the significance of men's groups, and the support partners can offer by respecting each other's emotional needs. Additionally, we reflect on the positive aspects of being a man, the importance of male friendships, and the emotional freedom often seen in women, providing profound insights into the modern male experience.

    00:00 Growing Up with Traditional Values

    00:30 Navigating Modern Dating Etiquette

    02:25 Chivalry in Everyday Actions

    03:53 The Emotional Impact of Rejection

    05:56 Franco's Fiancé's Transformation

    07:50 The Vulnerability of Receiving

    10:46 The Masculine and Feminine Dynamics

    16:02 Providing and Protecting in Relationships

    31:26 The Challenges of Emotional Support

    36:58 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships

    38:16 Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Expression

    40:38 The Importance of Active Listening

    42:46 Processing Emotions: Men vs. Women

    47:47 The Role of Men's Groups in Emotional Support

    53:45 Understanding the 'Nothing Box' Concept

    01:00:24 Transition Time and Emotional Efficiency

    01:05:18 The Need for More Men's Groups

    01:08:11 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man

    01:10:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 16 m
  • 09. Men and Women Process Emotions and Communicate Differently - A Conversation on How to Better Support Yourself and Your Partner with Michael Fleischner

    09. Men and Women Process Emotions and Communicate Differently - A Conversation on How to Better Support Yourself and Your Partner with Michael Fleischner
    Jul 31 2024
    In this enlightening episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes dynamic entrepreneur Michael Fleschner for a deep dive into emotions, communication, and gender dynamics in relationships. Michael shares insights from his 30-year marriage, discussing the importance of emotional responsibility, processing emotions healthily, and the distinct ways men and women handle their feelings. The conversation covers the value of presence, the need for men to have male bonding activities, and the importance of creating safety and support within partnerships. Listeners will gain valuable perspectives on fostering stronger, more understanding relationships between men and women. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:09 Diving into Emotions and Communication 02:50 Processing Emotions: Men's Perspective 07:11 The Role of Physical Activity in Emotional Release 08:52 Men and Women: Different Emotional Processing 15:11 The Importance of Presence and Support 20:23 Understanding Safety in Relationships 33:06 The Dynamics of Partnership 34:53 The Importance of Male Bonding 36:51 Different Social Needs of Men and Women 38:55 Inherent Competitiveness in Men 41:49 The Value of Complementary Roles 46:35 Keys to a Successful Long-Term Marriage 57:09 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:00:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 1 m
  • 08. Women: From Not Being Heard, To Shouting, To Not Hearing - A Discussion on Parenting, Leadership, Role Models, Emotions and Much More with David Yoder (my dad)

    08. Women: From Not Being Heard, To Shouting, To Not Hearing - A Discussion on Parenting, Leadership, Role Models, Emotions and Much More with David Yoder (my dad)
    Jul 24 2024
    In this heartfelt episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host interviews her father, a licensed professional counselor with a master's in clinical mental health counseling and owner of Assessment and Counseling Solutions in St. Louis, Missouri. They discuss his unique experiences, including being a stay-at-home dad in the early 90s, the values he instilled in his children, and his insights on leadership, emotions, and relationship dynamics. The episode delves into the impact of traditional versus complementary relationships, the cultural shifts surrounding gender roles, and the importance of having role models. The father shares practical advice and resources for young men to navigate their identities and relationships in today's world. This episode offers a deep exploration of father-daughter dynamics while shedding light on broader societal themes. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 00:48 Childhood Memories and Life Lessons 02:27 Episode Topics and Themes 05:50 Guest's Background and Early Life 12:11 Parenting and Role Reversal 15:21 Challenges and Insights of Stay-at-Home Dads 31:34 Complementary vs. Symmetrical Relationships 42:47 Emotional Volatility and Leadership Challenges 45:51 The Power and Pitfalls of Emotions 55:02 The Shift in Gender Dynamics 01:08:08 Advice for Young Men 01:19:16 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections Resources: Values Exercise Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine: A Jungian Approach to Self-Discovery Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 21 m
  • 07. Why Choosing a Life Partner is the Most Important Decision You'll Ever Make - A Very Real Chat on Dating, Andrew Tate & Sex Tapes with William Griffin

    07. Why Choosing a Life Partner is the Most Important Decision You'll Ever Make - A Very Real Chat on Dating, Andrew Tate & Sex Tapes with William Griffin
    Jul 17 2024
    In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the host is joined by her playful and insightful guest, William Griffin. The duo discusses a wide range of topics centered around relationships, including choosing a life partner, the impact of a supportive partner on one's authenticity and freedom, and the complications of seduction. The talk includes reflections on controversial figures like Andrew Tate and delves into personal anecdotes about relationship dynamics, sex tapes, and the concept of polyamory. They also explore deeper societal issues such as gender roles, feminist movements, and the importance of understanding between men and women. This candid conversation offers a mix of humor, personal stories, and profound insights into the complexities of modern relationships. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:03 William Griffin Hijacks the Podcast 02:14 Discussing Seduction and Relationship Dynamics 05:51 The Practicality of Choosing a Life Partner 19:41 Balancing Freedom and Commitment in Relationships 25:34 The Impact of Trauma and Personal Growth 34:25 Understanding Relationship Dynamics 34:49 Choosing the Right Partner 35:58 Building the Castle First 37:04 The Red Pill Movement and Masculinity 41:01 Feminism and Gender Roles 52:56 Polyamory and Relationship Structures 55:12 A Naughty Story 58:12 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships Connect with William here: https://www.instagram.com/william__griffin/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 5 m
  • 06. Why You Should Stop Using Dating Apps Immediately - A Deep Dive into How Technology is Making Dating Harder than Ever with Tameem Kutub

    06. Why You Should Stop Using Dating Apps Immediately - A Deep Dive into How Technology is Making Dating Harder than Ever with Tameem Kutub
    Jul 10 2024
    In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of digital culture on modern relationships and social interactions with guest Tameem Kutub. Topics include the echo chambers created by social media algorithms, the Me Too movement, and the pervasive nature of clickbait. We discuss the psychological effects of online dating, the rise of OnlyFans and AI girlfriends, and how technology reshapes human behavior and societal norms. The conversation also addresses male loneliness, the challenges men face in seeking validation and intimacy, and the importance of organic connections over digital platforms. The episode offers insights into fostering positive changes and support networks in a digitally-driven society. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:02 The Divide Between Men and Women 02:41 Historical Context and Social Media Evolution 04:40 The Impact of Social Media Algorithms 09:09 Audience Capture and Viral Content 18:59 Feminism and Gender Dynamics 32:23 The Me Too Movement and Dating 52:33 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Traits in Men 54:07 The Evolution of Online Dating 56:01 The Impact of Dating Apps on Self-Worth 01:09:10 The Rise of OnlyFans and Its Implications 01:16:15 The Importance of Complimenting Men 01:25:16 Challenges Men Face in Modern Dating 01:32:25 Advice for Men Navigating Today's Dating Scene Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 37 m
  • 05. Use This One-Liner to Immediately Deescalate Conflict w/ Your Partner - A Conversation About Communication & Trust with Tarek Nahabet

    05. Use This One-Liner to Immediately Deescalate Conflict w/ Your Partner - A Conversation About Communication & Trust with Tarek Nahabet
    Jul 3 2024
    In this insightful episode, Kayla and entrepreneur/educator Tarek discuss the critical aspects of communication within relationships, highlighting the deficiencies in traditional education and the importance of active listening. They examine the nuances of understanding intentions, managing trust issues, and the impact of past experiences. The conversation provides practical advice on fostering better communication, maintaining healthy relationships, and understanding gender dynamics, including the roles of masculine and feminine energies. Tarek shares the transformative power of gratitude and key advice on commitment, consistency, and concentration from influential figures in his life. The episode also explores the benefits of daily practices like Transcendental Meditation (TM) for personal and relational growth. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:51 The Importance of Communication Skills 01:58 Listening Beyond Words 03:43 Personal Responsibility in Communication 09:45 Love Languages and Acts of Service 19:47 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships 20:13 Testing and Trust in Relationships 34:08 The Role of Vision and Clarity in Relationships 37:57 Polarity and Masculine-Feminine Dynamics 52:30 The Comfort Zone Dilemma 54:46 The Role of Certainty in Relationships 56:21 The Virtuous Cycle of Reassurance 58:46 The Importance of Communication 01:02:21 Understanding Emotional Reactions 01:06:15 Navigating Upset and Validation 01:10:34 Effective Apologies and Respect 01:30:46 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Transcendental Meditation: https://www.tm.org/en-us Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/
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    1 h y 33 m
  • 04. From Boy to Man: Navigating Maturity and Responsibility with Devin Plowman

    04. From Boy to Man: Navigating Maturity and Responsibility with Devin Plowman
    Jun 26 2024
    In this podcast episode, the host welcomes Devin Plowman to discuss the evolving dynamics between men and women, as well as broader issues faced in society today. Devin shares his insights and experiences as a married man with a strong Christian background and five children. The conversation delves into topics such as the biological and societal factors influencing male maturity, the impact of marriage and fatherhood on men's development, workplace dynamics, and the challenges faced by men in today's culture. They discuss the generational shift in values, the decline of traditional rites of passage into manhood, and the effects of societal changes, like the rise of feminism and changing gender roles. Devin emphasizes the importance of strong values, responsibility, and leaving a lasting legacy, particularly through parenting. The discussion highlights how modern conveniences and societal shifts contribute to the lack of maturity in men, the role of women in these dynamics, and the potential long-term consequences for individuals and society. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:52 The Maturity of Men: Marriage and Fatherhood 03:39 Provider and Protector Instincts 04:53 Challenges in Modern Relationships 20:31 Rites of Passage and Cultural Shifts 30:55 The Importance of Family and Posterity 34:18 The Impact of Retirement on Men's Longevity 38:02 The Benefits of Getting Married Young 43:04 The Role of Values in Marriage 52:53 Challenges and Rewards of Being a Man 58:06 Advice for Young Men 59:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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