In Season 2, Episode 5 of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, hosts Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman explore the intricate process of rebuilding trust and intimacy after infidelity. They debunk the myth that cheaters always want to leave their partners and underscore the importance of patience and slow-paced physical intimacy. The episode emphasizes the need to avoid pressuring a partner into sex, manage the harmful effects of compulsive porn use, and maintain open communication about sexual desires. Strategies for emotional reconnection include planning non-sexual date nights, learning new activities together, and setting aside time for meaningful relationship discussions.

Jose and Brad highlight the necessity of validating feelings, being honest, and taking responsibility to rebuild trust. They stress that mutual effort and understanding can ultimately strengthen the relationship after infidelity. The hosts also include a disclaimer, reminding listeners that the content is for general information and entertainment, not professional advice. Engaging the audience, they encourage sharing experiences and thoughts on infidelity and relationships. Timestamps 00:00 Rebuilding trust after infidelity, intimacy after cheating. 04:17 Initial fallout, emotional settling, long-term intimacy decline. 07:46 Rebuilding trust after emotional turmoil in relationships. 10:16 Men must take initiative in relationships. 14:42 Acknowledging change and improving relationships to prevent infidelity. 19:29 Clients hesitate due to fear of hurt. 22:20 Validate and appreciate, even for small actions. 23:35 Honesty and discomfort key in relationships. 27:46 Heterosexual guys lack frame of reference. 30:45 Bonding over discomfort, scheduled relationship talks recommended. 33:20 Seeking intimacy over sex in relationships advice. 38:58 Respect their pace; don't rush reconciliation. 41:26 Seeking input on infidelity experiences for podcast. LinkTree: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.linktr.ee/wetdreamzpodcasthcs⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ License code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI

5 Part Series (Part 4) In Episode 14 of the Wet Dreamz Podcast titled "Initial Fallout," hosts Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez explore the emotional chaos following infidelity in relationships. They discuss:

- The injured partner's search for validation and the offending partner's shame.

- Trust issues leading to extreme monitoring behaviors, which can exacerbate guilt and shame.

- The need for constructive trust rebuilding through empathy and understanding, rather than surveillance.

- The motivations behind behaviors post-infidelity, emphasizing self-protection rather than malice from the injured partner.

- The challenge of rebuilding trust amid societal pressures for quick fixes and differing gender perspectives on processing infidelity.

The episode underscores the importance of mutual listening and working together to achieve either joint or individual happiness. It concludes with a teaser for the next episode on rebuilding trust. This is part of a five-part series focusing on navigating the complex aftermath of infidelity.

Timestamps:

00:00 Series covers infidelity and rebuilding trust.

03:53 Partners cheat due to lack of validation.

07:07 Understanding temptation and love despite infidelity.

12:24 Watching porn doesn't mean someone will cheat.

16:58 Men feel shame but also seek relief.

17:54 Describing a communication breakdown with an analogy.

22:59 Listening and responding to partner for happiness.

24:08 Key to overcoming infidelity is togetherness.

30:10 Women multitask, men focus on one thing.

31:46 Struggle for support after partner's therapy. Hurtful.

33:46 Confiding in others can aid in recovery.

37:39 Rebuilding trust in a relationship through phone-checking.

40:22 Victim self-blames, seeks to not be fooled.

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5 Part Series (Part 3) In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast we, your hosts Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman, dive into the complex world of relationship boundaries and infidelity. We explore problematic sexual behaviors such as compulsive porn use, online sexting, and emotional affairs, shedding light on the emotional and psychological reasons behind these actions.

We highlight the importance of affirmation, respect, and open communication within relationships, and we dispel common myths about infidelity being due to dissatisfaction or lack of love. Instead, we emphasize personal responsibility and the necessity for individualized boundaries in each relationship.

This episode is part of our mini-season on infidelity, offering you deeper insights into the dynamics of cheating and relationship health.

Timestamps:

00:00 Online and in-person behaviors, two populations.

04:48 Emotional cheating involves sharing feelings with others.

08:24 Each relationship has its own boundaries.

11:12 Men act based on lack of affirmation.

16:26 Men crave validation and affirmations for choices.

20:08 Analyze personal choices by examining surrounding systems.

20:53 Choose a less resistant path for change.

24:53 Porn reinforces viewer's sense of affirmation/validation.

30:26 Some have started affairs, but minority acted.

34:01 Separating romantic and sexual attraction in relationships.

35:22 Compartmentalizing behavior to justify actions in relationships.

38:35 Established baseline, work up from there.

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