In this After Party, Emily Foster, Jessie Sage, and Jessiee's mom discuss Ruby Lynne's recent WWNH podcast appearance. They emphasize the importance of humanizing and destigmatizing sex work by introducing and integrating personal relationships into their content. Jessie and Emily reflect on how bringing in friends and family provides a more holistic view of sex workers' lives outside their profession. The conversation also touches on the experiences of Ruby Lynne, a content creator and former social worker who transitioned into sex work later in life, highlighting the challenges and perceptions faced by older sex workers.

The discussion delves into the financial uncertainties of being self-employed, with all speakers acknowledging the ebb and flow of income from running a small business. Jessie shares personal anecdotes about managing cash flow and the unpredictable nature of their earnings. They hope that their dialogue will help listeners understand that financial instability is a common thread among small business owners, not a sign of failure.

In This Episode:

00:12: Introductions & Asking for Engagement

01:32: Humanizing Sex Workers

02:38: Ruby Lynn's Background & Career Transition

04:11: Entering the Industry Later in Life

05:08: Sex Work as Social Work

07:12: Misunderstanding "Burying the Bone"

13:01: Integration & Familial Response

33:10: Financial Insecurity and Being Small Business Owners

People:

Guest: Ruby Lynne

Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Jessie's Mom

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

The episode's guest is Ruby Lynne, a 57-year-old mature content creator and former social worker. Ruby discusses her journey from social work to sex work, the impact of her new career on her life, and the challenges and rewards of running her own business.

Ruby shares her experiences with dominance in sex work, including a humorous anecdote about her first pup play scene and how it revealed her difficulty in being mean to nice people. She also discusses how her work as RubyLynne has influenced her personal life, particularly in terms of caring less about others' opinions and dealing with financial insecurities.

The conversation touches on the emotional and psychological aspects of sex work, such as the impact of losing significant income sources and the importance of therapy. The episode concludes with Ruby expressing excitement about upcoming events and projects, and Jessie highlighting the integration of RubyLynne's work persona with her true self.

In this episode:

00:01: Introduction to "When We're Not Hustling" Podcast

00:21: Show Overview and Sponsor Information

02:18: Season 2 Announcements & Updates

05:11: Introduction of Guest RubyLynne

06:06: RubyLynne's Background & Career Transition

10:02: Exploring Pup Play & Dominance

17:09: Insights on Small Penis Humiliation

26:17: Impact of Work on Personal Life

34:23: Overcoming Financial and Business Challenges

54:02: Final Thoughts and Where to Find Ruby Lynn

Guest:

Ruby Lynne is a 57-year-old mature adult content creator from Portland, Oregon. She started her career in the adult industry in 2020 by selling dirty panties online. After many requests from buyers to film content in panties, she began producing regular full length videos for sale.

She quit her full-time job as a social worker in April of 2022 to become a full-time content creator, building a 6-figure business. She is the host of The Granny Panty Podcast on Youtube and the author of Granny Panties: How I made a Fortune Selling My Worn Undies.

She has 10 grandchildren.

Find all Ruby’s links here: bio.site/rubylynne

Recommendations:

Thriving in Sex Work: Sex Work & Money, by Lola Davina

When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But

The Rest:

Host: Jessie Sage

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

Sponsor: Assembly Four

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, and Jessie's mom discuss various topics ranging from the logistical aspects of their Patreon page to more personal reflections on strength training and motherhood. The conversation then shifts to their guest, Siri Dahl — a successful porn star and powerlifter — highlighting her positive influence and the inspiration she provides.

The discussion also delves into the hosts' personal experiences with physical activities and the evolving perceptions of their bodies. Jessie reflects on her marathon training and how it shaped her understanding of physical and mental endurance. The trio also touches upon the pressures of motherhood and the societal expectations placed on them, noting how experience and age have shifted their perspectives. The episode wraps up with admiration for Siri's ability to remain grounded and authentic despite public scrutiny, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and personal growth.

In this episode:

00:00: Introduction by Jessie Sage

00:19: Emily's reminder and Patreon plug

01:14: Early access for Patreon subscribers

01:34: Jessie's mom's introduction

02:27: Discussing guest Siri Dahl

03:47: Siri Dahl's powerlifting journey

06:00: Strength training & dog training

08:47: Parenting styles & experiences

28:44: Hypno-babies & labor relaxation techniques

38:07: Handling online criticism & public presence

People:

Guest: Siri Dahl

Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Jessie's Mom

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

Jessie Sage interviews Siri Dahl, an award-winning adult film performer. They discuss Siri's journey into powerlifting, which began as a way to become more fit and confident in her body. Despite having no prior athletic background, Siri found a passion for strength training and barbell movements, which eventually led her to hire a coach and take powerlifting more seriously. Siri highlights the importance of having a good coach for motivation and accountability, and how powerlifting has positively impacted her relationship with food and body image.

The conversation also touches on Siri's experiences with injuries and how they affected her training routine. Despite setbacks like severe TMJ and a knee injury, Siri continues to prioritize her fitness and adapt her training as needed. The episode delves into powerlifting's mental and physical benefits and how it has helped Siri challenge her self-perceptions and achieve personal goals.

Siri also shares her plans to move to Los Angeles to streamline her travel-heavy lifestyle and discusses the broader implications of living in different states, especially in light of potential political changes. The episode concludes with Jessie wishing Siri a happy birthday and discussing their shared love of reality dating shows.

In this episode:

00:01: Introduction to "When We're Not Hustling" podcast

00:59: Exploring sex workers' lives beyond their jobs

01:30: Show sponsor: Assembly Four

02:00: Episode information and social media links

03:27: Introduction of guest Siri Dahl

04:52: Siri Dahl's background and powerlifting interest

08:01: Siri's journey into strength training and powerlifting

14:18: Siri's recent challenges and injuries

35:00: Explanation of power lifting basics

Guest:

Siri Dahl (she/her) is an award winning multihyphenate adult industry personality and entrepreneur. She splits her time between Louisville, Kentucky and Los Angeles, which is exactly as insane as it sounds. She lives happily with her partner and their two black cats, and when she’s not being naked on camera or telling OnlyFans subscribers what she thinks of their dicks, she’s most likely powerlifting or hyper-focusing on her latest safe-for-work creative project.

You can find Siri:

Website: siridahl.com

X: x.com/therealsiridahl

The Rest:

Host: Jessie Sage

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

Sponsor: Assembly Four

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual

Welcome to Season 2!

In our first AfterParty of the season, Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, and Jessie's mom discuss their takeaways from Episode 1, featuring West Hollywood escort Aviva Ruse.

We focus our discussion on Aviva's Episode 1 interview, where she shared her harrowing experience of getting severely burned during a liposuction procedure due to medical negligence, which led to a long recovery and a lawsuit. Despite the severity of her injuries, Aviva recounts her story with humor, highlighting her resilience and ability to find joy even in dire circumstances.

Aviva's journey also touches on her mental health challenges, including misdiagnoses and the eventual discovery that she is autistic. This revelation brought clarity to her life and helped her understand past struggles, including difficulties fitting into traditional work environments and the recovery culture of Alcoholics Anonymous.

The hosts discuss the broader issue of how women, in particular, often receive incorrect mental health diagnoses, pointing to a need for better understanding and support. The conversation ends with reflections on societal beauty standards and the contrasting pressures within different industries. Jessie and Emily note that the sex industry is often more accepting of diverse body types compared to mainstream culture. They advocate for a world where people can embrace their true selves and desires without societal judgment. The episode ends on a hopeful note, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance.

In this episode:

00:10: Welcome to Season 2 Afterparty

00:24: Introduction of guest host for July — Jessie's Mom!

01:51: The diversity of guests on the show

02:49: Discussion of Episode 1 Guest, stand-up comic & escort Aviva Ruse

03:50: Entrepreneurship and hard work in sex work

04:18: Challenges of self-employment and constant work

08:07: Aviva's experience with medical malpractice

12:55: Reflections on mistreatment and misdiagnosis by the medical community

18:25: Aviva's Autism diagnosis

27:53: Alcoholics Anonymous's culture and its relevance to women

People:

Guest: Aviva Ruse

Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Jessie's Mom

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual.

Welcome back, we are so excited for Season 2!

In Episode 1 of Season 2, host Jessie Sage talks to Aviva Ruse, a West Hollywood-based escort and former stand-up comic, who shares her journey of being diagnosed with autism following a traumatic experience with a botched plastic surgery procedure.

Aviva discusses how dismantling internalized stigma and understanding her neurodivergence helped her embrace her career in sex work, highlighting the supportive and magical community among sex workers.

In this Episode:

00:01: Introduction to the Podcast

02:08: Season 2 Excitement!

06:36: Guest Introduction: Aviva Ruiz

11:11: Aviva's Plastic Surgery Experience

21:03: Dismantling Self-Perception & the History of Alcoholics Anonymous

33:05: The Value in Sex Work

50:22: Physical & Emotional Recovery

55:05: Guest Recommendation & Contacts

Guest:

Aviva Ruse is a New England-born companion living in West Hollywood. Her bylines as Aviva include Tryst, The Fix, and Rogue Collective. She is currently shopping a collection of essays (and endlessly shopping for lingerie!). She is currently blogging at dateavivaruse.com/blog.

You can find Aviva:

Website: DateAvivaRuse.com

X: x.com/avivaruse

OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/rr639

Recommendations:

Dear Los Angeles: The City in Diaries & Letters, by David Kipen

Thriving in Sex Work, by Lola Davina

The Internet Escort's Handbook, by Amanda Brooks

Working It: Sex Workers on the Work of Sex, by Matilda Bickers, peech breshears, & Janis Luna

The Rest:

Host: Jessie Sage

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

Sponsor: Assembly Four

You can support the show at pateron.com/sapiotextual.

In this season finale, we bring together five Season 1 guests for a heartfelt conversation about what feeds their spirits. We talk about magic, burnout, capitalism, desire, hedonism, work, love, drugs, and so much more.

A sincere thank you to everyone who joined us this season and helped our show grow. So much love to all the guests and all the listeners.

Season 2 will drop on July 1!

Hosts:

Jessie Sage & Emily Foster

Guests:

Jessie's Mom

Pucks A'Plenty

Trip Richards

Mary Muse

Melissa Milk

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

Sponsor: Assembly Four

You can support our podcast on Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/sapiotextual