Episodios

  • The Biased Ear…

    The Biased Ear…
    Dec 18 2025
    It concerns who receives permission to define reality inside intimacy—and who quietly loses that permission without a vote. Most people believe they value truth. They say they want honesty. They claim openness. Yet inside their closest relationships, something strange happens. The closer the messenger stands, the less credible the message feels. The more a partner knows you, the less you trust what they see. Truth does not lose accuracy. Truth loses clearance. This phenomenon does not announce itself as cruelty. It disguises itself as discernment. The mind whispers, You feel too much. You take things personally. You bring history into everything. The words sound reasonable. The effect devastates intimacy.
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    1 h y 18 m
  • What’s Mine is MINE and What’s Yours is YOURS

    What’s Mine is MINE and What’s Yours is YOURS
    Dec 17 2025
    Most people believe emotions happen to them. Clinically speaking, they do not. Emotions arise within the nervous system, shaped by history, attachment, memory, and interpretation. The moment a person treats emotion as something caused by another, authority transfers. That transfer appoints an emotional gatekeeper. This distinction matters because intimacy collapses the moment emotional authority leaves the self. Emotional accountability requires presence. It means staying with bodily sensation, affect, and interpretation long enough to identify one’s role in the interaction without collapsing into defense, blame, or self-erasure. Accountability does not ask who caused the feeling. It asks what arose internally and why. This process restores authorship over one’s emotional state.
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    1 h y 15 m
  • Intimate Relationships, Beyond what Gender Roles Prescribe?

    Intimate Relationships, Beyond what Gender Roles Prescribe?
    Dec 16 2025
    Let’s incinerate a sacred cow right now. Most folks enter relationships asking one loud question while simultaneously avoiding one dangerous truth. They ask, “What do you bring to the table?” They never ask, “What already sits inside you when you sit down at the table?” Because the table never holds only money, degrees, status, hustle, body, ambition, or provision. The table also holds your nervous system. Your attachment injuries. Your childhood negotiations for love. Your unfinished grief. Your relationship survival strategies are dressed up as an actual personality. And no amount of external success cancels that receipt. We built an entire culture around outsourced offerings. Who pays. Who protects. Who provides. Who performs competence. Who keeps the lights on and the peace intact. But peace never functioned as a transferable asset.
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    1 h y 17 m
  • Why You Never Date a Person, Only Their Verdict in Your Head

    Why You Never Date a Person, Only Their Verdict in Your Head
    Dec 16 2025
    Most people believe relationships fail because of incompatibility, poor communication, or unresolved conflict. This assumption misses the deeper architecture at work. In truth, many relationships collapse under the weight of an unexamined internal Trinity—a psychological and spiritual structure that governs perception long before intimacy begins. Within the psyche, the Father emerges as the Inner Lawgiver: the internalized authority formed from parents, culture, religion, ancestry, and fear. This Father does not ask who you are; it asks whether you measure up. It watches, evaluates, and judges. From this position, love becomes conditional and relational life becomes a courtroom governed by verdicts rather than presence. The Son appears as the self in relationship—the embodied ego, the attachment-wounded identity seeking approval, safety, and redemption. This is the part that enters intimacy carrying hope and terror in equal measure, unconsciously offering itself as evidence in a trial it never agreed to attend. When relationships become exhausting, it is often because the Son believes love must be earned, proven, or justified. The Holy Spirit, however, represents something radically different: direct perception. It is awareness without prosecution, presence without narrative, consciousness unmediated by fear or memory. Where the Spirit is absent, the Father judges and the Son performs. Where the Spirit is present, the courtroom dissolves. This is the heart of the Inner Jury Love Triangle. People do not relate directly; they litigate unconsciously. Partners become symbols, intimacy becomes evidence, and love becomes a verdict. Healing does not come from winning the case or finding the “right” person. It comes from restoring the Trinity—when authority becomes grounded rather than punitive, the self becomes embodied rather than defended, and presence replaces judgment entirely.
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    59 m
  • The Hidden Fear of Truly Equal Relationships

    The Hidden Fear of Truly Equal Relationships
    Dec 11 2025
    Most people claim they want equality, partnership, balance, and mutuality. But deep in the nervous system lives Symmetry Terror—a visceral fear of standing in a relationship where: power is truly shared, both can leave, both can see and name the truth, Neither is superior nor safely inferior. Why It’s Psychologically Counterintuitive We usually pathologize power imbalance. This topic says: we unconsciously seek imbalance because it feels safer than mutual exposure. Being “above” means control. Being “below” means moral innocence. Being “equal” means no hiding place. Psychiatric / Clinical Angle Frames certain “attachment issues” as defenses against symmetry: anxious types chase upward or downward asymmetry, avoidant types preserve distance to avoid symmetrical vulnerability. Re-interpret conflict cycles as covert attempts to break equality and restore a familiar hierarchy.
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    1 h y 16 m
  • Intimate Back to the Future: How working from the End Result Manifests Love in the Now!

    Intimate Back to the Future: How working from the End Result Manifests Love in the Now!
    Dec 9 2025
    A deeper exploration of Neville Goddard’s law of assumption reveals that embodying what you desire from others in the present moment is the key to unlocking unconditional love!
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    1 h y 16 m
  • Soul Ties Versus Trauma Bonds! A Psycho Spiritual Investigation into Intimate Entanglements!

    Soul Ties Versus Trauma Bonds! A Psycho Spiritual Investigation into Intimate Entanglements!
    Dec 4 2025
    Family… lean in and become intensely present. What you call a “connection” often behaves like a courtroom where your unhealed wounds keep sentencing you to life without parole. You think you choose a partner, but your nervous system—wired by abandonment, inconsistency, and chaos—often delivers a verdict well before you even take the stand in your own defense. Trauma bonds masquerade as divinely cosigned soul ties because pain speaks in a dialect you mistake for destiny.
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    1 h y 12 m
  • When “I Sense’ Meets “I Fear”!

    When “I Sense’ Meets “I Fear”!
    Dec 3 2025
    Why We’re Drawn to the People Who Grow Us Up” Let me ask you a question that sits underneath every heartbreak you never understood: Do you really choose the people you love… or do you recognize them? I’m not talking about fate, destiny, or some cosmic dating app in the sky. I’m talking about the strange, magnetic tug-of-war between your nervous system, your childhood, and your unfinished emotional curriculum. The way two people—who swear they want peace—get pulled into a dance their bodies learned long before they ever met.
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    1 h y 15 m