Episodios

  • Dysfunctional Holidays

    Dysfunctional Holidays
    Nov 21 2025
    Dysfunctional Holidays: The Theater of Cheer Built on Generational Silence Dysfunctional holidays often function as yearly rituals of emotional distortion, not celebrations of genuine connection. Family members gather inside a carefully curated illusion—lights, meals, rituals, nostalgia—designed to smother the wounds no one dares confront. As Gibson explains, emotionally immature families lack the capacity for honest intimacy, so holiday cheer operates as a behavioral directive: smile, comply, perform, forget. This script conditions each participant, Skinner-style, to associate approval with self-abandonment and disapproval with truth-telling.
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    1 h y 15 m
  • Do we Need a “Panglossian" Mindset in order to thrive in a relationship/Marriage?

    Do we Need a “Panglossian" Mindset in order to thrive in a relationship/Marriage?
    Nov 18 2025
    As it pertains to maintaining healthy relationships/marriages, is having a “Panglossian”mindset, merely toxic positivity, dressed up with fancy vocabulary? What are the key differences between a Panglossian mindset and Krishnamurti’s concept of choiceless awareness, or the mindfulness concept of non-attachment?
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    1 h y 9 m
  • Trauma-Coded Desire: How Childhood Wounds Hijack Adult Sexuality

    Trauma-Coded Desire: How Childhood Wounds Hijack Adult Sexuality
    Nov 14 2025
    Sex as the Theater of Trauma, the Refuge of the Fragmented, and the Doorway to the Self We Fear to Meet. Krishnamurti said the human mind is endlessly escaping itself through entertainment, through belief, through identity, through addiction and sex is the most socially acceptable escape of all. Not because sex is wrong.
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    1 h y 14 m
  • “Hold Dis L” — The Codex of Sacred Boundaries

    “Hold Dis L” — The Codex of Sacred Boundaries
    Nov 12 2025
    The modern cult of “holding space” has become a sanctuary for avoidance. We glorify tolerance while privately hemorrhaging self-respect. The phrase once meant presence; now it often means paralysis. Hold Dis L detonates the myth that unconditional compassion justifies self-erasure. Krishnamurti warned that conformity masquerades as kindness; Hawkins proved that guilt vibrates lower than anger. Together they whisper: love without discernment isn’t love—it’s spiritual codependency with better vocabulary.
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    1 h y 15 m
  • A “Soft” Man is a Dangerous Man!

    A “Soft” Man is a Dangerous Man!
    Nov 12 2025
    Many Civilizations confuse anesthesia with peace. Likewise, many men hide behind polished restraint, while mistaking numbness for nobility. Their smiles function as fences; their empathy, as anesthetic. They imitate kindness the way machines imitate breath—accurate, efficient, even lifeless. This counterfeit softness originates not in compassion but in fear—the reflex of a boy who learned that “tendernism” invited punishment. He grows into a man who calls avoidance “balance,” submission from the other “respect,” and self-erasure “love.” Psychiatry observes this as the fawn response: appeasement weaponized as a tool of survival. Neuroscience reveals its circuitry—cortisol suppressed by oxytocin, adrenaline redirected into charm. Anthropology names it the domestication of the male spirit: the tribe praises his calm while his vitality dies under applause of performance based acceptance. Religion sanctifies the same paralysis, rewarding meekness without presence, obedience without awareness. Such manhood performs serenity yet radiates suffocation. He cannot create; he can only consent.
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    1 h y 16 m
  • The Conscious Onboarding System for Wound-Aware Intimacy.

    The Conscious Onboarding System for Wound-Aware Intimacy.
    Nov 10 2025
    This framework is designed for two people—one or both carrying anxious-preoccupied and dismissive-avoidant tendencies—to get to know each other at a pace that honors safety, curiosity, and gradual nervous system trust-building rather than triggering attachment defenses or falling into the “anxious–avoidant dance.
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    1 h y 13 m
  • Love Language Vs Lust Language!

    Love Language Vs Lust Language!
    Nov 10 2025
    The Forbidden Grammar of Desire: We are born fluent in touch. Then trauma teaches us grammar. Every “love language” we speak as adults is a dialect of the nervous system’s survival code—a syntax learned in captivity. The anxious child learns that affection must be earned; the avoidant child learns that tenderness is danger with better lighting. Together they create the modern romance: two translators arguing over a dialect neither invented.
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    1 h y 15 m
  • The Fragmented Self in an Age of Infinite Connection

    The Fragmented Self in an Age of Infinite Connection
    Nov 5 2025
    It proposes that the human psyche functions as a holographic microcosm of the cosmos—each person a localized expression of the same fundamental awareness that animates all existence. Just as every fragment of a hologram contains the pattern of the whole image, each human being carries the complete blueprint of wholeness within them, even when trauma, conditioning, or egoic distortion obscures that pattern. From this perspective, psychological fragmentation—the unhealed wounds, dissociated memories, and defensive identities we carry—is not a permanent flaw but a phase distortion within the holographic field of consciousness. These distortions create what appear to be isolated “pocket realities” or wound-based worlds: self-reinforcing loops of perception where the nervous system, seeking safety, limits awareness to familiar pain.
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    1 h y 14 m