Episodios

  • How Trauma Quietly Votes Before Desire, Values, or Choice Ever Enter the Room

    How Trauma Quietly Votes Before Desire, Values, or Choice Ever Enter the Room
    Jan 14 2026
    Most people do not struggle with love because they choose the wrong partners. They struggle because unresolved trauma retains decision-making authority over attraction, intimacy, and attachment—quietly selecting the future while consciousness explains it afterward. Until that authority transfers, every relationship functions as a rebound—not from a person, but from an unfinished past.
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    1 h y 16 m
  • I Don’t “Want” You Anymore Because I Am “One” With You!

    I Don’t “Want” You Anymore Because I Am “One” With You!
    Jan 7 2026
    A groundbreaking perspective on wholeness, individuation, spirituality, conscience relating, and the dissolution of expectations and needs within intimate relationships!
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    1 h y 16 m
  • The Narcissistic Paradox: Why We Keep Calling It Them When It Is Also Us!!!

    The Narcissistic Paradox: Why We Keep Calling It Them When It Is Also Us!!!
    Jan 7 2026
    Today's episode is not about narcissists. Today's episode is about the narcissistic paradox: the fact that we keep saying the problem is them when the issue also lives within us—in our attachment wiring, our nervous systems, our culture, our spiritual cravings, and our private incentives. Because let’s stop pretending: if narcissists caused the entire problem by themselves, then they would not keep getting invited back into our lives. People do not merely “run into” egocentric partners. People orbit them. People stay. People explain. People spiritualize. People romanticize. And then people act surprised when the outcome matches the design.
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    1 h y 8 m
  • The Final Confrontation

    The Final Confrontation
    Dec 31 2025
    Plato’s cave is no longer a place of ignorance but a nervous system organized around familiarity. The chains are early attachment imprints; the shadows are trauma-bonded patterns mistaken for love. Neural biology prioritizes prediction over truth, so the brain confuses recognition with safety and repetition with intimacy. Attachment wounds project onto partners, turning chemistry into reenactment and connection into regulation. Leaving the cave is not acquiring insight but tolerating the collapse of familiar neural patterns long enough for presence to emerge. Those who see threaten the system because truth deregulates the known. Liberation in love occurs when the nervous system relinquishes pattern for presence.
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    1 h y 16 m
  • Faith, Fidelity, and the Catastrophic Confusion of Devotion

    Faith, Fidelity, and the Catastrophic Confusion of Devotion
    Dec 31 2025
    A deeper exploration of the concept of being as faithful to your spouse as you are to your God. Does faith in God and in your spouse inherently mean the same thing?

    This episode includes AI-generated content.
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    1 h y 9 m
  • THE BENEVOLENT PARASITE ARCHETYPE

    THE BENEVOLENT PARASITE ARCHETYPE
    Dec 31 2025
    Tonight dismantles the lie that harm announces itself. Barbara Oakley exposed pathological altruism as help unexamined—care that feeds on dependency while calling itself love. Emmanuel Levinas cautioned that ethics becomes violence when care totalizes the Other, when helping replaces encounter, when support erases difference rather than honors it.
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    1 h y 14 m
  • The Attachment Debt Crisis: How Lovers Become Each Other’s Unregulated Central Banks of Unmet Needs

    The Attachment Debt Crisis: How Lovers Become Each Other’s Unregulated Central Banks of Unmet Needs
    Dec 21 2025
    Just as nations collapse when citizens demand more from the currency than the currency can provide, relationships collapse when partners demand emotional liquidity from partners who remain spiritually insolvent.
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    1 h y 13 m
  • The Biased Ear…

    The Biased Ear…
    Dec 18 2025
    It concerns who receives permission to define reality inside intimacy—and who quietly loses that permission without a vote. Most people believe they value truth. They say they want honesty. They claim openness. Yet inside their closest relationships, something strange happens. The closer the messenger stands, the less credible the message feels. The more a partner knows you, the less you trust what they see. Truth does not lose accuracy. Truth loses clearance. This phenomenon does not announce itself as cruelty. It disguises itself as discernment. The mind whispers, You feel too much. You take things personally. You bring history into everything. The words sound reasonable. The effect devastates intimacy.
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    1 h y 18 m
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