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  • Desire As Scarcity: A deeper look into the potential Darkside of unchecked Desires!

    Desire As Scarcity: A deeper look into the potential Darkside of unchecked Desires!
    Aug 4 2024
    Desire is a fundamental aspect of human nature, driving individuals to seek fulfillment, happiness, and satisfaction in their lives. However, when desire is rooted in scarcity, malcontent, and dissatisfaction with the present moment, it can lead to a cycle of perpetual longing and discontent. This essay will explore the concept of desire as scarcity, drawing on the insights of various spiritual teachers, psychologists, and philosophers such as Jiddu Krishnamurti, Dr. David R Hawkins, Robert Anton Wilson, Babette Rothchild, Thomas Campbell, Eckhart Tolle, Ross Rosenberg, Wayne Dyer, Paramahansa Yogananda, and Sri Yukteswar. By examining the interconnectedness of desire, lack, and attachment wounds, we will delve into the psychological, philosophical, and spiritual implications of approaching life with a scarcity mindset.
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    1 h y 8 m
  • The Hermeneutics and Apologetics of Self-Victimization: Analyzing the Extremes to Sustain and Justify a Victim Mentality

    The Hermeneutics and Apologetics of Self-Victimization: Analyzing the Extremes to Sustain and Justify a Victim Mentality
    Aug 4 2024
    The victim mentality, characterized by a lack of personal accountability and a tendency to blame others for one's own shortcomings, is often accompanied by a complex system of interpretation and defense mechanisms known as hermeneutics and apologetics. This mindset allows individuals to sustain and justify their victimhood by interpreting events in a way that reinforces their status as victims, while simultaneously defending themselves against any challenges to this narrative.
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    1 h y 19 m
  • “Karmic Enmeshment Cycles”- A Deeper Look at how Trauma Bonds Destroy your Personhood

    “Karmic Enmeshment Cycles”- A Deeper Look at how Trauma Bonds Destroy your Personhood
    Jul 30 2024
    Enmeshment refers to relationships that have become so intertwined that boundaries are nonexistent or identical. While this concept most often occurs between a primary caregiver and their child, it can also happen in romantic relationships. Although enmeshment can initially lessen worries around abandonment and rejection, ongoing enmeshment can lead to resentment and low relationship satisfaction. Reference: The Attachment Project You may ask how does enmeshment relate to trauma bonding? Trauma bonding occurs when a deep emotional bond is formed with someone who has been harmful toward you, and is often marked by repeated cycles of abuse coupled with positive reinforcement. The codependent nature of enmeshment makes removing oneself from a trauma bond extremely difficult and can lead to continuous patterns of abuse, neglect and abandonment.
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    1 h y 18 m
  • Psychic or Psychotic? The Interplay between Spirituality and Practicality

    Psychic or Psychotic? The Interplay between Spirituality and Practicality
    Jul 18 2024
    The interconnected realms of spirituality and mental health have long been the subject of fascination, debate, and controversy. As we explore the depths of psychic phenomena and spiritual experiences, it becomes crucial to discern between genuine insights and potential delusions that may arise from mental health conditions. Drawing upon the wisdom of spiritual luminaries such as Krishnamurti, Dr. David R. Hawkins, Robert Anton Wilson, Babette Rothschild, Thomas Campbell, Ross Rosenberg, Wayne Dyer, Paramahansa Yogananda, Sri Yukteswar, and others, we embark on a journey to understand the intricate relationship between spirituality and practicality, while also delving into the impact of prenatal attachment wounds on our psychic abilities and spiritual growth. In the realm of psychic exploration, creating a harmonious environment that is conducive to psychic insights and spiritual connection is essential. The principles of energy clearing and space cleansing offer tools to clear stagnant energies, release negative vibrations, and create a sacred space that nurtures our psychic abilities. How can practices such as smudging, sound cleansing, and intention setting support individuals in cultivating a harmonious environment for psychic insights to flow freely?
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    1 h y 20 m
  • From self rejection to redirection: A Deeper look at the self sabotaging avoidant

    From self rejection to redirection: A Deeper look at the self sabotaging avoidant
    Jul 18 2024
    Self sabotage is a tactic often employed by people with avoidant attachment styles (i.e. fearful and dismissive) that is used to keep the balance of power in the avoidant’s favor. This tactic is done at the expense of the avoidant and the anxious partner, often resulting in the loss of the connection between the two parties. It is important to note that this may be done consciously or unconsciously, but either way, the intended results are the same. Examples of self sabotaging include the use of deactivation strategies such as: denial of attachment, compulsive self reliance, intimacy avoidance, triangulation, etc. Employing these strategies can result in not only the end of the connection, but a deep sense of regret, shame and guilt for the avoidant partner. These intense feelings, although they may take time to develop and be acknowledged, are significant to the negative feedback loop that avoidant’s face in seeking relationships. Ultimately if not corrected, it may lead to the rejection of romantic connections altogether. Other pursuits like careers, hobbies, spirituality or even situationships & past failed connections become an escape to avoid the inevitable realization of the positive connection that has been sabotaged.
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    1 h y 20 m
  • “The Sacrifice of Happiness - True or False?” “Men will sacrifice happiness for family whereas Women will sacrifice family for happiness?”

    “The Sacrifice of Happiness - True or False?” “Men will sacrifice happiness for family whereas Women will sacrifice family for happiness?”
    Jul 18 2024
    Questions: what’s the difference between sacrifice and compromise, and which gender in relationship does more of both? What sacrifices should be made in a relationship? How important is sacrifice in relationships? How do you know if you're sacrificing too much in a relationship? What is the relationship between compromise and sacrifice? Who sacrifices more in a relationship? What does sacrifice mean in a relationship?
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    1 h y 19 m
  • The Thermodynamic Relationship: "Strategies to Mitigate the Entropic Consequences of being codependent on Unresolved Trauma". How to deal with the inevitable “Relationship Entropy.”

    The Thermodynamic Relationship: "Strategies to Mitigate the Entropic Consequences of being codependent on Unresolved Trauma". How to deal with the inevitable “Relationship Entropy.”
    Jul 18 2024
    Questions: Are we just messed up people who needed extraordinary support to be normal? Agree or Disagree? Relationship entropy does not mean your marriage sucks or that you are a failure, it means you are human. True or False? In sexual relationships we are genetically programmed to habituate to a partner as our initial romantic infatuation fades over the first one to three years. True or False? Humans create routines, and relationship entropy often is the result.
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    1 h y 21 m
  • “muster the Rohimim” Flying Monkeys Assemble” “A riveting look into the narcissist own Private zombie military.”

    “muster the Rohimim” Flying Monkeys Assemble” “A riveting look into the narcissist own Private zombie military.”
    Jul 18 2024
    Questions: Do Narcissists Turn Against Their Flying Monkeys? Are flying monkeys blind enablers? How to outsmart the flying monkey? In regard to narcissistic abuse, what exactly is a flying monkey? Do flying monkeys know they are being used? What is a flying monkey in psychological abuse? What is a flying monkey in psychology today? Who controls the flying monkeys? Do narcissists discard their flying monkeys? What happens if a narcissist cannot control the victim anymore despite sending flying monkeys also? True or False? “Flying Monkeys” are those who, knowingly or unknowingly, are recruited by the narcissist to serve their agenda, extending their influence and control beyond direct interactions. Do flying monkeys ever see the truth of the person the narc has abused? True or False? some flying monkeys begin to realize they were a participant in a target's abuse when the narcissist's true colors are revealed. Unfortunately, there will always be some flying monkeys who know this from the beginning but do not care due to their own pathology and motivations. Are flying monkeys agents of chaos or blind miscreants? What role does authenticity play in situational awareness when it comes to narcissistic relationship dynamics? How does egoic-based support of the narcissist work to simultaneously alienate the true victim and deteriorate amicable relationships? Are relationships recoverable if a person is unknowingly partaking in flying monkey behaviors? What does becoming a flying monkey indicate about your relationship with your authenticity? Are you cosplaying the do-gooder under the guise of fairness? How does one sided loyalty to narcissists impact one’s ability to operate as a work in progress? Do flying monkeys ever enjoy the spoils of war through validation, acknowledgment or get back? In what way does the justification of harm of the victim further dissolve the flying monkeys' already damaged perception of self? What connections can be drawn between relationship peonage, one sided loyalty and selling your soul to the narcissist?
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    1 h y 20 m