Patriarchy Blues

Reflections on Manhood

By: Frederick Joseph

Narrated by: Preston Butler III, Novell Jordan

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

""[A] scorching treatise on toxic masculinity. Joseph’s critiques of “the patriarchy... both overt and ingrained” are razor-sharp, but it’s the clear-eyed reckoning of his own place within it that tethers the soul of his book."" —Publishers Weekly

""Joseph has learned a great deal from bell hooks here, and I think she would be proud because Patriarchy Blues is such a moving, inspiring, rigorous vision for living.” —Robert Jones, Jr., New York Times bestselling author of The Prophets

In this personal and poignant collection, the author of the New York Times bestseller The Black Friend examines the culture of masculinity through the lens of a Black man.

What does it mean to be a man today? How does the pervasive yet elusive idea of “toxic masculinity” actually reflect men’s experiences—particularly those of color—and how they navigate the world?

In this thought-provoking collection of essays, poems, and short reflections, Frederick Joseph contemplates these questions and more as he explores issues of masculinity and patriarchy from both a personal and cultural standpoint. From fatherhood, and “manning up” to abuse and therapy, he fearlessly and thoughtfully tackles the complex realities of men’s lives today and their significance for society, lending his insights as a Black man.

Written in Joseph’s unique voice, with an intelligence and raw honesty that demonstrates both his vulnerability and compassion, Patriarchy Blues forces us to consider the joys, pains, and destructive nature of manhood and the stereotypes it engenders.

Daswatimtawkinbout

Thank you, brother. This was cleansing to receive. When done, pass this listen to another.

Definitely worth reading/listening!

Written in our moment, but teaching lessons that are timeless. This is a deeply personal story, leaving the reader feeling that you have gotten to know the author intimately, but also feeling that you have learned a lot about the world. Highly recommend!

Should have bought the physical book

The writing was great! I think there is some context lost when there are multiple voices in the story though. Reading the physical copy would have likely eliminated the confusion I experienced when switching between voices (not narrators). That’s not the fault of the author, but maybe just a reflection of my own ability to follow when only listening. Would recommend.

Important is an Understatement

I went into this book hoping to expand my knowledge of patriarchy, and I must say I wasn’t disappointed. So many layers, so many topics, so many threads to consider around the topic of patriarchy. Fred does a beautiful job exposing all of those layers. I highly recommend this book to everyone. Books like this open minds. Books like this will change our world,

Must read

I wish every high school student could read this book and talk about it, learn from it. I think that would change the world for the better.