Things We Lost to the Water

A novel

By: Eric Nguyen

Narrated by: Quyen Ngo

A captivating novel about an immigrant Vietnamese family who settles in New Orleans and struggles to remain connected to one another as their lives are inextricably reshaped. This stunning debut is "vast in scale and ambition, while luscious and inviting … in its intimacy” (The New York Times Book Review).

When Huong arrives in New Orleans with her two young sons, she is jobless, homeless, and worried about her husband, Cong, who remains in Vietnam. As she and her boys begin to settle in to life in America, she continues to send letters and tapes back to Cong, hopeful that they will be reunited and her children will grow up with a father.

But with time, Huong realizes she will never see her husband again. While she attempts to come to terms with this loss, her sons, Tuan and Binh, grow up in their absent father's shadow, haunted by a man and a country trapped in their memories and imaginations. As they push forward, the three adapt to life in America in different ways: Huong gets involved with a Vietnamese car salesman who is also new in town; Tuan tries to connect with his heritage by joining a local Vietnamese gang; and Binh, now going by Ben, embraces his adopted homeland and his burgeoning sexuality. Their search for identity--as individuals and as a family--threatens to tear them apart, un­til disaster strikes the city they now call home and they are suddenly forced to find a new way to come together and honor the ties that bind them.

Gorgeous novel and excellent narration

I’ll listen to anything narrated by Quyen Ngo, and I’m just lucky that every novel she narrates is great. Things We Lost to the Water is maybe one of my favorite books now. It explores the disruption and fragmentation of family, culture, and identity that comes with the immigrant experience in America, and it doesn’t disappoint.

Displacement journeys will at some point touch all of us

At first impression, I admired the story, the characters and their familial connection and the connections from birth to adulthood. From mother to child and from water trauma to water trauma.
The amount of adapting displaced peoples have to do and the reminder of how every forgets about the Indigenous peoples of the territory they’ve found themselves in. Could be that displaced ppls have not had the oppt. to learn about Indigenous Peoples are still alive. Maybe whenever in America they end up - New Orleans - there’s no public remembrance of local Indigenous ppls. Not taught truthfully I’m schools or recognized - I don’t know. But, if there were, maybe the characters would consider this in their displacement journey? Empathize or relate somehow. Understand in a way. But, that’s not the story. I’m just always curious.
Regardless of my wishful plot twist, I appreciate the narrative in ways that really makes me think about the Canadian experience and what displaced people feel
when they are somewhere unfamiliar trying the best they can.

So what happens!?

Eric Nguyen invested me in his characters then then ghosted the reader. So very disappointed.

Powerfully insightful

Loved listening to this book. Reading it felt difficult since I'm fairly ignorant of Vietnamese pronunciation, so hearing the narrator speak was refreshing to my overly concerned brain.

The story was a poignant telling of being uprooted from one home and learning to survive someplace new. The harsh alienation, the missteps in raising a child and the folly of youth, and discordant feeling of being out of place now matter where you go.

My only gripe likely has more to do with my personal taste in reading, but I didn't find there to be much plot to the story. But that doesn't mean it wasn't well written.

While I typically go in for books that are taking the reader in a journey and leaving you theorizing and curious, this reads like a recollection of memories that are striking in the life of the protagonists, but won't be the key to uncovering any grand mystery later in the narrative.

Narrator really helped me understand the story.

I wasn't sure if I liked this book at first, but it was a good story and I kept going. I don't prefer to listen to books, but I'm glad this is how I experienced this one. The narrator clearly understood the nature of Vietnamese characters and the rhythms of speech and of the text. It's a different style for me, but I appreciated the imagery and poetic ways certain moments were depicted.