13 Mistakes You Are Making Right Now That Are Ruining Your Marriage

A Practical Guide to Turn Your Marriage Around Through Mutual Listening, Understanding, and Love

De: Emily Glover

Narrado por: Susan Marlowe

Are you living with something worse than an unhappy marriage without even knowing it?

We all know the honeymoon stage of a relationship: Everything your partner does is perfect, every conversation goes smoothly, and it seems that it will be that way forever.

But, we also know that just like honeymoons, this period won't last forever. Some of these blissful starts create relationships that last a lifetime, while others crash and burn.

Do you remember when your spouse gave you a present for the first time? Or the first time you had a meaningful conversation?

We all carry with us the memories that our relationships are built on, but it can be hurtful and frustrating to realize that those experiences seem to exist solely in the past.

What most people overlook when worrying about a ruined marriage is that it takes time to decide what kind of marriage yours will be.

Ending up in an unhappy marriage is a trying enough ordeal on its own, but imagine waking up one day and realizing that you've been living in one for months, or even years!

Maybe you've had the same realization strike you. Here's what makes you different: You refuse to ignore what's happening or put up with feeling unheard for even a moment longer.

In 13 Mistakes You Are Making Right Now That Are Ruining Your Marriage, here is just a fraction of what you will discover:

• Techniques for identifying the areas of your relationship that need the most work, and what you can do to improve them in your own marriage
• The four distinct communication styles we use and how understanding their unique quirks can revolutionize how you and your spouse talk
• How giving your partner your undivided attention can take quality time from an afterthought to a loving and affirming experience
• Actionable strategies to assert yourself in your relationship dynamic and tackle the difficult conversations that every couple has to work through
• The most common spousal secrets and how to foster a sense of honesty and empathy in a natural way
• How to talk to your spouse about topics and habits that bother you without triggering fights or defensive responses
• Why the "spark" always seems to fade, and what you can do to start rekindling it right away
• And much more...

You may feel as though your relationship is too far gone to be fixed or that you've allowed too many things to go unnoticed for any real change to take place. But the only relationship that is impossible to fix is the one that no longer exists.

Stepping up and admitting that you want your marriage to be better than it is can be a scary experience - you might think it even feels like declaring failure. It is, in fact, one of the bravest things you can do and perfectly exemplifies why good marriages take work.

You're willing to do the work, and Emily Glover can show you how!

If you're ready to say “no” to another day of feeling unappreciated or misunderstood and say “yes” to a relationship that thrives, then scroll up and click the “buy now” button right away.

©2020 Emily Glover (P)2020 Emily Glover

What everyone should listen to

I don't have big problems with my love story even though I think it is never wrong to try books like this one: you can always learn something new and avoid being caught by naive mistakes.
There are excellent tips that I think are good for any kind of couple at any stage (i.e., how to communicate with the partner or why and how to give her/him the needed attention).
I really appreciate how the audiobook is organized; the narration is also enjoyable.

Worth the read

Im not married but i am engaged. So reading this book helped me understand what i may be doing wrong. But this book also identifies what your are also doing right which i like.

I recommend reading this book

This guide will benefit any marriage.

"13 Mistakes You Are Making Right Now That Are Ruining Your Marriage" is a wonderful guide for helping any couple, regardless of where you are in your marriage. Even if you haven't made these mistakes yet, this book can do wonders to help you avoid them. It's full of very practical tips that you can apply easily in your everyday interactions with your spouse. The mistakes addressed here are so common that I'm sure most of my friends and family can relate to them too. I will definitely recommend this book to them!

Listen and Take It In

i have been in a committed relationship for over 10 years, I Am no expert here, but this audio book is full of great tips and information. I found a lot of aha moments and nodding my head listening. The book dug deep into the poison of secrets. And how communication is a huge part of the success of any relationship. Worth a listen for sure!

Important Lesson we should all learn

I have been with my spouse since i was very young and to my amazement, long term relationships do not turn into the dream-like relationship represented in movies and stories. In real life it is different you have to learn how to become a team and let go of the expectations you once had. the book preaches this and reassured me that this is actually okay and the way you need to manage your relationship. the scenarios presented in the book are also extremely helpful as they are some common struggles for most relationships and tackling them is crucial to a happy relationship.

Awesome resource for your marriage

I loved this audiobook because I thought it was a real, honest and authentic way of looking at marriage. It was well written and easy to follow along. i liked how the author gave some fantastic suggestions and I even learned a couple mistakes I was making listed in this book. I know that you can definitely benefit from this book and don't spend the next 30 years living a marriage you don't want. I really liked the author wrote from her experience

Well Thought Out Advice

Thankfully my marriage doesn't need help -however, that doesn't mean I don't still read and listen and look for "that edge" that will make me a better husband and partner. This is a great book with very practicable steps and tips to become a better partner in your marriage. It is the most important relationship you have - so it's worth nurturing! I highly recommend this listen!

Get a new lease on marriage.

Marriage can be a struggle. I’ve found that by having a resource like this one helps. I especially enjoyed the chapter that addressed how to be a more empathetic listener and be able to address those little things that can lead to ongoing fights and defensive responses. This audiobook not only shows you how to be a more effective communicator, but also how to rekindle that spark in your marriage.

Critical, Healing, Useful

Picked this up as my wife and I have entered marriage counseling since our daughter left for college. In recent years it does feel like she and I have drifted apart, and our counsellor suggested that we take our marriage seriously, and along with counseling sessions, read any material we feel drawn to on the subject.

13 Mistakes You Are Making Right Now That Are Ruining Your Marriage was a splash of cold water, albeit a very necessary one! This book breaks down passive behaviors and attitudes that unassumingly divide marriages, and tactics and techniques for avoiding and overcoming these habits if they are currently being performed.

The narrator is even toned yet engaging, making the subject matter easy to listen to without losing the listener's interest. The author is clearly well versed on the subject matter as well. For anyone looking for functional techniques to improve their marriage, with explanations for how to apply them, then I would definitely give this title a shot.

Good

I loved learning about the techniques for identifying the areas of my relationship that need the most work.. Now I can get to work and fix it.. recommend