Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children

Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents

By: Allison Bottke

Narrated by: Margaret Strom

Writing from firsthand experience, Allison Bottke identifies the lies that kept her, and ultimately her son, in bondage - and how she overcame them. Additional real-life stories from other parents appear throughout the audio.

A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.

S = STOP enabling, STOP blaming yourself, and STOP the flow of money
A = Assemble a support group
N = Nip excuses in the bud
I = Implement rules/boundaries
T = Trust your instincts
Y = Yield everything to God

©2008 Allison Gappa Bottke (P)2016 Tantor

Critic reviews

" Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children is packed full of practical, useable, workable ideas and is a welcome tool for parents of grown children, and parents in pain." (Pam Farrel, author of Men Are Like Waffles)

Life changing!

Such and important read for ALL parents! It’s bee so valuable to us. Thank you!

A book that truly helps!

If you have an adult child that is out of control, you must read this book! Thank you, Allison, for writing this for all us "enabling parents"!

Great Resource

Being the mom of 2 "prodigal" son's. Setting Bou dEies is a book I desperately needed in my life.

thank God!

it is so good to know I am not alone and that others do understand what I am thinking and feeling.

Listen to it

Easy to listen and follow Well written. Solid advice. that supplements Alanon and Boundaries well.