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How Not To F*ck Up Your Marriage Too Bad

By: Stephen Marche
Narrated by: Stephen Marche
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  • Summary

  • How Not to F*ck Up Your Marriage Too Bad is the frank, intimate and provocative follow-up to the 2018 Audible Original How Not to F*ck Up Your Kids Too Bad, exploring the equally thorny and confusing world of marriage.

    In each episode author and columnist Stephen Marche goes on a journey to answer a question that everyone in a marriage or long term relationship faces at some point. They're the very real problems he faces himself.

    Should we schedule sex? How do we stop fighting? How do we live together? Can marriage survive death?

    From infidelity to divorce, modern marriages are messy and there aren't always simple or happy answers. This series makes sense of the messiness.

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  • Ep. 1: Should We Even Get Married?
    Jun 11 2020

    Weddings are stupidly expensive and seem pointless in an era of common law marriage and no-fault divorce. A top divorce attorney along with a survivor of disastrous wedding explain why they would choose to get married anyway.

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    35 mins
  • Ep. 2: How Do You Pick?
    Jun 11 2020

    Who you marry is the most important decision you will make in your life. We look at the various new ways of finding a mate, from an old-fashioned yenta to a NASA scientist who has worked out an algorithm that determines when you should settle.

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    34 mins
  • Ep. 3: Should We Schedule Sex?
    Jun 11 2020

    The essence of marriage is regulated passion. How do you balance sexual desire with the strictures of administration and domestic life? How much sex are other couples having? How much sex should you be having to keep your marriage strong?

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    40 mins

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touching, heart-wrenching and poignant I really enjoyed this very much I'm going to look for more material in a similar vein

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Marriage hopeful single

This series is so powerful... Having gone through a long term relationship but not quite making it the whole way and blaming most of the strife on my Ex this series opened me up to a lot of realities I had been thinking about but not really sat to disect and digest. Loved it so much I wish there were more topics of life like adultung, parenting, financial futures, friendships mental health, all the good stuff done in the most beautiful way

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Intriguing & Enlightening

Highly Recommended listen! Whether you’re single, engaged, married or even on the brinks of divorce!

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Beware listening to episode 10 while in public

Because it had me crying like a little baby. What a thought provoking, eye opening, entertaining, and ultimately beautiful series about love.

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Biggest take away

“You only really need a wedding if you shouldn’t have one and you only need to get married if you don’t need to”. This really hit home because for the longest time i thought i never wanted to get married, when in fact i just don’t want to get married just to prove something.

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Very captivating

This series really opened my shoes to a lot of things in my 25 year marriage. I listened continuously during my 10 hour work day.

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Amazing

Great series! Easy, fun, and interesting!
Really made me think about my relationship and start talking with my partner!

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Interesting Views on Marriage

This was a series about marriage and various stages including: the wedding, living together, sex, money, divorce and even death. It left out one major option, the decision to have kids. This just assumed like most that everyone wants kids and the option not to would never come up. I consider that a major issue since the presenter claimed he was presenting varied viewpoints. It included comments from real couples and experts on relationships.

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great podcast for everyone

The topics were great. I appreciated hearing so many different sides of each story. I would love to hear more about issues with raising kids.

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Valuable insight and perspective

I really enjoyed this podcast and I think it’s a valuable listen for all married people or people in a long term relationship. No matter what your relationship looks like you’ll find something to relate to.

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